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 Should I be a dick or let it go? 
#14675094 - 06/26/11 03:47 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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My ex left me for her manager. She had been hanging out with this guy and getting intimate with him while she was still dating me. I caught them sexting and that was it. She shattered my heart because I actually felt like this girl was the one. She never gave me reason to believe otherwise...
well back to dating her manager part... at the place they work fraternization among employees is strictly forbidden and they both know if they get caught they will get fired. They have taken special precautions to keep this a secret.. but they are doing a horrible job at it.
Part of me wants to turn them in, for obvious reasons, but the other part of me doesn't want to because I still care for her, although I shouldn't.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14675106 - 06/26/11 03:50 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I always lean towards being a dick...
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: fbi365] 2
#14675128 - 06/26/11 03:55 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Karma. Don't rat her out. Things will not work out for those two, they are stupid  . She will get preggers or dude will give her an STD or more likely, multiple STDs. Whatever the scenario, things will become toxic. Fuck those two. Seriously, just let it go and be the bigger person.
It will work out in your favor. Sorry you got burned man, it happens to everyone at some point. It makes you stronger.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#14675188 - 06/26/11 04:12 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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lets see what she looks like before deciding
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CaptainCrunch
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: fbi365]
#14675191 - 06/26/11 04:12 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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you know man, ive been through alot of chicks ive cheated on my wife, my wife has cheated on me. what i have learned is if its real then it dosent matter, if she cheats, because love endures. love is not fun, it is not a fairy tell its work every single fucken day. this sounds to me like most hopeless men who are my friends they meet a chicka and they are in love, but its not real let her go intrestingly enough me and my wife are still together but i wasnt looking when we met in a gay fairy tell way fate kinda through us together but thats about as sappy as it gets. let her go leave her alone when its all said and done in a couple years will you honestly even remember this chick? let me just put it this way the right one for you will be so right not by your standards but in a cosmic way there will be no denying wether love is there or not. also toughen up devolpe a thick skin if you cant your not a survivor and you should get out of the gene pool. if it really gets under your skin that much instead of being a bitch why dont you comfront this piece of shit manager who probably sexually harasses every bitch that works for him and if you want to get up in his world you gotta put out. its the same old story dude, stand up find him after work put some gloves on and a ski mask get him when hes alone slap him around a bit dont kill him scare him more than anything let his pussy ass know if you keep fucking around with taken women hes done. by the way this is theoryetical and i would never condone or instigate violence of any kind. as for the chick let her go man seems like she dosent operate under pressure the first chance to get ahead using her pussy she takes.. NOT YOUR TYPE get it through your head dude id bet 20 dollars she works at a bar. be a man dude this world is really in need of a few good men who will stand up when they know whats right and wrong. dont turn them in dont try to play the system to your betterment thats esactly what this dick head manager is doing and look where that has landed you stand up thats all i can say stand up! or sit down and shut up go about your marry buisness and wait for the right girl, im sorry if im gritty and ronchee but honestly this is the world we live in buck up or shut up, real talk girls come and they go, remeber this there are two types of girls in this world hoes and and house wifes you take a hoe for a good time and a house wife for a life time and its your job to decide which is which
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14675243 - 06/26/11 04:24 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Just let it go.
You where hurt emotionally, no need trying to get people fired over it.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: CaptainCrunch]
#14675266 - 06/26/11 04:30 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
CaptainCrunch said:
you know man, ive been through alot of chicks ive cheated on my wife, my wife has cheated on me. what i have learned is if its real then it dosent matter, if she cheats, because love endures.
Are you a cuckold or something?
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: xyz789]
#14675317 - 06/26/11 04:42 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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dr gonz i infact take much pleasure in my wife fucking around?i hope hope you can understand sarcasm through text. but in reality people cheat there dr gonz it happens everyday however i dont think cheating is an argument against love. people cheat for different reasons in order to improve the relationship both partners have to be willing to accept fault. silly fool dont label me why dont you give an opinion to the speech at hand?
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: CaptainCrunch]
#14675333 - 06/26/11 04:46 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Why you even mad? 
To OP - let it go.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14675462 - 06/26/11 05:18 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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let it go man. forgive and forget
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get that bitch man, she took your heart and trampled it like you mean nothing, all this do onto others as they would do unto you shit is broken, the bitch already fucked you off, its time to get even, thats real karma
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Solving Ennui]
#14677053 - 06/26/11 11:09 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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i would try to fuck her best friend or maybe her sister. dont forget to let everyone you both know what a slut she is and what happened. then let it go.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#14677065 - 06/26/11 11:12 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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if they're doing a bad job keeping it on the down low then don't worry about it, they'll get theirs.
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if you dont do something to ruin her life youll regret it forever
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Solving Ennui]
#14677217 - 06/26/11 11:38 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Only if you are a bitch fag though...
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: anunnakian]
#14677227 - 06/26/11 11:41 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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no its just that as we grow up, we learn that we remember the things we do forever, but the things we dont do drive us mad
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Solving Ennui]
#14677400 - 06/27/11 12:17 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Solving Ennui said:
no its just that as we grow up, we learn that we remember the things we do forever, but the things we dont do drive us mad
as we grow up we should realize that revenge is not healthy or reasonable and causes no sense of satisfaction based in a rational world.
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its not revenge, its helping her learn a valuble lesson about the consequences of her actions
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If you really want her to tell her fuck you, then you need to make yourself as appealing as possible. Get in shape, school, job, anything. It sounds ridiculous but it worked for me, and I took the advice of my father who is much wiser than I am. I am quite happy I trusted others when they truly knew what was best for me. Texting, begging, or you being the one who wants it won't fly.
That being said, if it was me, Don't bother. Marriage and working through cheating is one thing. Dating and cheating means it will not work. she will forever be tainted in your eyes, and it'll be a personal issues.
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Re: Should I be a dick or let it go? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14677482 - 06/27/11 12:32 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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let it go. it wont be easy, and itll still take time to get over it, but youre dealing with it like a human should. we deal with shit in our lives, its inevitable. enjoy the good, and use the bad to help you enjoy the good even better 
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