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I was assuming he wasn't a degenerate like you.
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oohhhhh OTD poster in the house?! why don't you un-anon yourself if your gonna be insulting users you pussy!
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Not doing drugs will sometimes do wonders for you.
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fngbronco
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Thing is, marriages are like business partnerships. Granted it's not a financial exchange, TS a business through and through. With what closed veil brings up, I know a lot of people who have 50% visitation (which consists of like 2 weekends a month so it doesn't add up) that don't even get their time. Then you have to go back to court and fight it and nothing changes. Men get the shaft. Get a lawyer and get true legal advice, cuz the law is what decides.
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I challenge you to challenge yourself more! When you feel complacent and ready to hang it up, challenge yourself to get over it! If you fail, don't look at it as you didn't succeed, look at it as you would a rock face you're trying to climb. Stand back, wayyyy back, and look at it and plot another path. If you can't find one, shuffle down the way a little, a little change of scenery or a view from a different angle may give you the insight you need.
Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco
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 Re: just caught my wife...  [Re: fngbronco]
#14645614 - 06/21/11 12:02 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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unfortunately, in family court, a judge decides what is best for the children. all they have to go on is evidence, testimony and the laws of that state.
OP-get a lawyer, like yesterday!
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greys
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Why worry about that which is mostly out of your control (according to you)?
Do whats required: Pay the child support, Honor your visitation schedule, and in general do what you're supposed to do.
If she wants to use the kids as a device to get back at you through the court system, so be it, her loss and the kids loss.
If you feel that strongly about winning, set up a fake meth lab in her garage and drop a dime on her. There is mans law, gods law, and your law. Which is most important to you?
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Re: just caught my wife... [Re: greys]
#14645989 - 06/21/11 01:05 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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well thanks for the advice, but it mostly doesn't apply to me. the court hasn't made a ruling, so i have no visitation and no child support. her actions, like with-holding our child from me, may be her down fall, and i may get custody. she lives way to far away to plant any such meth lab, and my belief in karma would keep me from doing any such thing anyways. i have faith that God will make things right.
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Not doing drugs will sometimes do wonders for you.
DANCE BITCH!
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fngbronco
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If she's near Idaho just say the magic words  joking. I really hope it works out the way it should for you CV. There's some fuckered up people in this world that seem to have it easy, though to them they're suffering, and there's good people who work legitimately and are actually good hearted people who get screwed daily. Abusive pedos with kids, and a provider who gets no visitation.
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Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco
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Re: just caught my wife... [Re: fngbronco]
#14647321 - 06/21/11 10:34 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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You mentioned the "I'm not happy in this relationship. I don't want to be with you." part, but you left out you saying "you can date other guys or whatever, just don't bring them home"
this whole argument is pretty much over anyway. I'm just saying.
You KNOW that I'm not the kind of person that would use your son against you, or try and take you for all you have or any of that stupid bullshit. I don't give a fuck about possessions, never have. Sure, I wanted to USE the car but just because it would be a HUGE HELP in getting things in order so that our son has a good situation to be in while he's living with me. Especially because you do still have your own truck. So.
Taking any of this advice would probably be the worst thing you could do because if you tried to put our son in this situation where he's like a possession that's being fought over, I would probably just hate the shit out of you.
I hate the idea of 'no, you can't see him. today is MY day' cuz that's fucking retarded. If he wants to see you, he will get to see you. You will always be his daddy. I'll probably even invite you to go with us when I plan to take him places just because I think he would like for you to be there. I can still be totally cool with you and appreciative that you're such an awesome dad. He needs you in his life just as much as he needs me.
It does bother me that you act like you're the one that's done all the work in our relationship. Even tho for the whole first year of his life, I was the one that fed him every meal and put him to sleep every nap time and bed time, woke up in the middle of the night with him while you were snoring. My job is 24/7. I never got a break.
Sorry that things were kinda shaky before I found out I was pregnant. But I don't regret sticking around just so that you could be a part of our son's life from the beginning of it.
I just haven't been happy for a really long time and you already know that. I seriously told you every day for weeks prior to my brief moment of retardation that I didn't want to be with you anymore and that I wanted to find a way to compromise how we would handle separating so that our son wasn't treated like an object that was the center of our struggle. You wouldn't listen to me and just kept telling me that I can't take him from you. I guess I just started to feel like you were just trying to use him to keep me stuck in a situation that I had expressed repeatedly I was unhappy in, so I freaked out. I've already apologized IRL but here is your virtual apology also.
At first, I did just want a temporary separation to clear my head and figure out what it is I really want out of life but the longer I felt like you weren't listening to me the more I just started to not like you and didn't want to be with you at all any more.
So, sorry everything has escalated to this point. And sorry I couldn't just live my life pretending to be happy. I'm not going to turn into my mom.
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Well son of a bitch! If my ex fucking told me that I'd do whatever to work through the differences.
Anon#1's wife: it's easy to be spiteful towards the one you feel has done you wrong, and its understandable where you're at. You honestly aren't in the spot to find someone to make you happy tho. You need to make you happy, and honestly as much as dating or finding someone else seems like te right thing, It's not. For your sake, a month away from everything (including your son as hard as it may be), will really help you find what it is you're looking for. Being a spouse, a parent, or even a significant other is a full time job. It's more stressful than work, and is everywhere with no escape. You sound like you feel neglected and left out so you're trying to find someone to fill your emotional void. You guys may even try counseling, bu please please if you do, and it doesn't work, FIND ANOTHER COUNSELOR!!! Divorce is such an easy solution but it really is the most cowardly way out (with certain exceptions).
Best of luck to the both of you!
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Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco
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Re: just caught my wife... [Re: fngbronco]
#14647894 - 06/21/11 01:19 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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i know so many users in the market, i could have something illegal mailed to her, don't think i haven't thought of it. but i'll just leave well enough alone.
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fngbronco
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i know so many users in the market, i could have something illegal mailed to her, don't think i haven't thought of it. but i'll just leave well enough alone.
I think guil would set in and bug ya. Shit has a way of working itself out, and though it may not be what you would've chose, you'll find happiness in it.
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I challenge you to challenge yourself more! When you feel complacent and ready to hang it up, challenge yourself to get over it! If you fail, don't look at it as you didn't succeed, look at it as you would a rock face you're trying to climb. Stand back, wayyyy back, and look at it and plot another path. If you can't find one, shuffle down the way a little, a little change of scenery or a view from a different angle may give you the insight you need.
Anything I state is relayed information from a friend of a friend and should be viewed as completely fictitious. I do not partake in any illegal or grey-area-of-the-law activities, but do have lots of friends who may or may not. -fngbronco
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Re: just caught my wife... [Re: fngbronco]
#14648001 - 06/21/11 01:41 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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It's so good to see the other side of one of these stories as well for a change. Anon#6, thanks for posting this. Even if it turns out to be a fake. It would still show how complicated this shit is.
Sadly, our family is wound up in a similar event, although the couple involved is >15 years down the line from where OP and his wife are now, and the process of separation is also in a much more advanced stage. I can honestly say that if you have never witnessed this from up-close as an adult, you can't judge.
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I seriously told you every day for weeks prior to my brief moment of retardation
Was the 'brief moment of retardation' the moment where you caught interest in the man you're sexting, or the moment where you TOOK the pics themselves, or the moment where you SENT the pics? or was it the monent where you deleted the evidence?
You just sound shady. If you're unhappy with someone, leave them. You're fucking with our OP's emotions, and its shitty.
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texting some guy half naked pics of herself and talking about how she wants to fuck him. I am so pissed off right now. We have a son together.
Yeah Man she is no Good.>! A Great Teacher of mines once told me, Nobody gets caught the First time..! and if you think about it its true... if you caught her this must be her 5th 6th or God knows how many times.............
Plus CHicks Dig single Fathers....
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DarkMatterOfFact
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Re: just caught my wife... [Re: Mrbobster]
#14649103 - 06/21/11 05:26 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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this hole thread is why kids should not have kids.
this world is annoying as fuck with this type of lifestyle of lets have a kid but we dont even love each other bullshit.
its no wonder r society is so devolved really. like that 16 and pregnant show on mtv. 
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Nixon was a asshole. Just look at his biggest creation. Ladies and gentlemen, I give you the DEA.
Which secretly stands for Demonizing Everyone by Allegations.
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DarkMatterOfFact
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hey ithink. 
still a grammar nazi i see.
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Which secretly stands for Demonizing Everyone by Allegations.
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Anon 1, how old are the both of you?
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closed veil
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Quote:
DarkMatterOfFact said:
this hole thread is why kids should not have kids.
this world is annoying as fuck with this type of lifestyle of lets have a kid but we dont even love each other bullshit.
its no wonder r society is so devolved really. like that 16 and pregnant show on mtv.
well i was no kid when i had mine.
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greys
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Quote:
DarkMatterOfFact said:
this hole thread is why kids should not have kids.
this world is annoying as fuck with this type of lifestyle of lets have a kid but we dont even love each other bullshit.
its no wonder r society is so devolved really. like that 16 and pregnant show on mtv.
I'm fairly certain this generation didnt invent having children out of wedlock,unprepared, or too young. Whats your point?
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