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 Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid?  [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
#14272915 - 04/11/11 05:11 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sex is overrated.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Society]
#14273228 - 04/11/11 06:11 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
Yep, I agree. To a point. Most of us want to feel desired sexually/loved or whatever you want to call it.
Most of us can take care of our base instincts. Thats easy. It just sucks feeling rejected/not good enough/ugly/awkward/lonely.
I got plenty of friends. Still I feel like there is a void that intimate interaction with the opposite sex and regular sexual intercourse might fill...
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Society]
#14273475 - 04/11/11 06:42 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
this book i've been reading says that a good portion of sexual encounters occur simply because as a species we have such a strong desire to connect and be close to other human beings.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: yogabunny]
#14273521 - 04/11/11 06:50 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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yogabunny said:
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
this book i've been reading says that a good portion of sexual encounters occur simply because as a species we have such a strong desire to connect and be close to other human beings.
Sex can be great when it has meaning, I think porn takes a lot of the meaning out of societies sex life though
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14273585 - 04/11/11 07:01 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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define meaning?
i think it can be great as long as you're not doing it as a means to escape, for attention, or to temporarily make yourself feel worthy, loved, wanted, attractive. i think LOTS and LOTS of people who shouldn't be having sex, do, for these reasons.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14273601 - 04/11/11 07:04 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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ahchela said:
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yogabunny said:
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
this book i've been reading says that a good portion of sexual encounters occur simply because as a species we have such a strong desire to connect and be close to other human beings.
Sex can be great when it has meaning,
I've kind of been feeling lately like we attach way too much meaning to sex though. It gets built up to this big deal for everybody resulting in what I think people in this thread are dealing with.
Its hard to the point of sex with another person, and when It is this big deal in your mind and in society, it gets even harder to the point that people feel anxiety and get nervous about sexual situations.
P.S. Its pretty hard to feel worthy, wanted, attractive, when nobody will fuck you/kiss you/be your girlfriend/boyfriend...
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Edited by fbi365 (04/11/11 07:07 PM)
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: fbi365]
#14273637 - 04/11/11 07:09 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well I agree with both of your points, but putting meaning into sex doesn't mean obsessing over it. No need to jump to an extreme conclusion
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: yogabunny]
#14273642 - 04/11/11 07:11 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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yogabunny said:
define meaning?
Something which has a point beside mindless reflex?
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Society] 1
#14274676 - 04/11/11 10:31 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: elliev]
#14276343 - 04/12/11 04:20 AM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
Not when your hand has calluses 
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: mushiepussy]
#14276351 - 04/12/11 04:22 AM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Its been a while, although the last time I had sex it was a fucking ordeal (milf, rocked my world, stayed at her place, fucked like 6 times over the course of 8 hours) and I just haven't been horny. I beat it like once a week when I'm going to bed but am not that tired, it usually puts me right to sleep.
Idk, I'm pretty happy not being horny at all. I bet if I had a pretty girl who offered you know I wouldn't refuse though. 
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: mushiepussy]
#14277343 - 04/12/11 12:47 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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mushiepussy said:
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
Not when your hand has calluses
Hah. Both my hands are very callused. No excuse.
Moisturizing water-based lotions or even olive oil will lay waste to any discomfort of a callus.
I really do think sex or sexual pleasure, rather, and sexual interactions are incredibly overrated. Overrated in the sense that at least the overwhelmingly vast majority of human beings seem to make it the focal point of his or her trite existence.
Amidst my five year drought, I had recurring introspective contemplations where I'd try and recall what it was like to penetrate a vagina and give a female a man-juice injection. As more and more time passed, I started to think that perhaps when I next had sex, there'd be a commemorative global celebration and an awards ceremony where I receive a Purple Heart. Dating four virgins in a row almost had me convinced I should at least be receiving a diploma or some sort of framed certificate for all the trouble and waiting.
After five years, it finally happened again... happened a lot. I enjoyed it, but it was a stark reminder that sex is really not dissimilar from masturbating with no hands. Waste of time and energy to staunchly place it at high priority of your existence.
Sure sex is fun, but so are a lot of things. And there are plenty of fun things which deeply connect you to other beings without the risk of STDs and pregnancy.
So fuck sex. Overrated. The Radiohead of human interaction.
Well, except... hopefully your sex life doesn't involve Thom Yorke whining.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Society]
#14277363 - 04/12/11 12:54 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Society said:
So fuck sex. Overrated. The Radiohead of human interaction.
Well, except... hopefully your sex life doesn't involve Thom Yorke whining.
you are killing it today dude.
it's always nice to know that i am not the ONLY person on earth who doesn't like radiohead.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: yogabunny]
#14277431 - 04/12/11 01:14 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sure sex is fun, but so are a lot of things. And there are plenty of fun things which deeply connect you to other beings without the risk of STDs and pregnancy.
Sex isn't a risk of an STD/pregnancy when you use proper protection and you have sex with the same partner who you know well.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#14278074 - 04/12/11 03:36 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sex is definitely over rated, not exactly the strongest sensation out there.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14278235 - 04/12/11 04:10 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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ahchela said:
Sex is definitely over rated, not exactly the strongest sensation out there.
Who said it was the strongest?
Orgasm is enjoyable & enjoying that with someone who you love is enjoyable. Its also about intimacy.
Its not something you live for, but its definitely enjoyable.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#14278250 - 04/12/11 04:13 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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ahchela said:
Sex is definitely over rated, not exactly the strongest sensation out there.
Who said it was the strongest?
Orgasm is enjoyable & enjoying that with someone who you love is enjoyable. Its also about intimacy.
Its not something you live for, but its definitely enjoyable.
I'm not celibate.
I refer you to my previous posts.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14278259 - 04/12/11 04:15 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm not saying you're celibate.
I guess sex is just less enjoyable for some people. I always enjoy a nice erotic night with a loved one.
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14278304 - 04/12/11 04:23 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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ahchela said:
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yogabunny said:
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Society said:
Sex is overrated.
this book i've been reading says that a good portion of sexual encounters occur simply because as a species we have such a strong desire to connect and be close to other human beings.
Sex can be great when it has meaning, I think porn takes a lot of the meaning out of societies sex life though
Edited by ahchela (04/12/11 04:43 PM)
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Re: The Drought: How long has it been since you got laid? [Re: ahchela]
#14279930 - 04/12/11 09:50 PM (2 years, 1 month ago) |
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sex may not have the greatest 'high' in and of itself, but most of the 'highs' that are higher, probably would keep you so off your rocker that you wouldn't be functional to react if something happened and you had to stop. Stopping sex due to an emergency isn't fun, but won't make you crash your car trying to get to where you need to go.
Plus, in my opinion, it is one of the most memorable experiences one has. Unless one is drunk, or a hooker etc. I still can remember fine details of all the women I've done it with. Not like what day it was, but the stuff that involved us, dialogue.. etc. Can't do that for weeds, mushrooms, etc-at least i cannot.
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