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DrugsAreFunn
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awww i feel bad :/
#13982852 - 02/18/11 02:02 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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This girl at work totally put herself out there today and i kind of rejected her. she has been kind of feeling me out the past couple days and i didnt even notice haha. im a nice/genuine person so i tend to say nice things to people, make lots of eye contact, smile etc. well she kind of misinterpreted those things as signs i guess and she has been trying to make lots of random conversation with me(lots more than usual). she started asking more personal type questions (which didnt seem at all uncommon from the way i approach life) like what my plans were for the weekend and stuff like that, then she asked how my valentines day was(which i responded "it was uneventful") blah blah... I just thought she was trying to get to know me like a coworker should rather than being another person who puts on a fake smile and says fake things all the time. well today she asked to hang out after work and i told her i have a test tomorrow and she got kinda weird, then later she brought it up again and i told her the same thing, then as she was leaving she came back in and started up a bull shit conversation with the hostess for like 30 seconds then came over to where i was cleaning up a table and said "so lets go smoke a bluuuuunt" and i told her i really couldnt and she picked a bad day. she then walked away and left through the back door so i wouldnt think she came back in just to ask me again, but as she was walking away she did the awkward look back thing and i saw her and she looked away real fast and left.
When she started asking to hang out today i finally got the picture but she just totally isnt my type. i mean she isnt terrible looking but she's kinda a tom boy and is a couple years younger than me, i can just tell we are in different places in our lives. I would have hung out with her if i didnt have this test thing, but not misleading her. funny thing is, when i got home i was like fuuuuuuuuuuuck i could use some dome right now.. ahaha next time i need to think ahead!! just kidding though, i felt bad she got all awkward like that, hopefully she stays cool at work.
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I prefer tomboys who are a couple years younger than me. Dont generally go for girly girls who are my own age.
Ironically though I recently met a girly girl who is my own age and I really like her.
Have you ever thought about just hanging out with her as a friend?
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DrugsAreFunn
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MisterMuscaria said: I prefer tomboys who are a couple years younger than me. Dont generally go for girly girls who are my own age.
Ironically though I recently met a girly girl who is my own age and I really like her.
Have you ever thought about just hanging out with her as a friend?
i guess u didnt read it all, i said i woulda if i didnt have a test.
im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
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tell her to come over to my place ill smoke blunts w/ her
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JesusGoneRogue said: all i read was, i didnt smoke with a decent girl and get my fuck on, so i'm a faggot and i made this thread to officially come out to everyone.
i was gunna ignore this but i gatta be honest....
i lol'd
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i was hoping you would. 5 for honesty!
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MisterMuscaria said: I prefer tomboys who are a couple years younger than me. Dont generally go for girly girls who are my own age.
Ironically though I recently met a girly girl who is my own age and I really like her.
Have you ever thought about just hanging out with her as a friend?
i guess u didnt read it all, i said i woulda if i didnt have a test.
im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
Well I guess what i mean is after she asked multiple times perhaps you shoulda said "maybe another time".
I wasnt the greatest student though, I still hung out with people test or no test.
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MisterMuscaria said: I prefer tomboys who are a couple years younger than me. Dont generally go for girly girls who are my own age.
Ironically though I recently met a girly girl who is my own age and I really like her.
Have you ever thought about just hanging out with her as a friend?
i guess u didnt read it all, i said i woulda if i didnt have a test.
im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
Well I guess what i mean is after she asked multiple times perhaps you shoulda said "maybe another time".
I wasnt the greatest student though, I still hung out with people test or no test.
i did, i didnt give the entire dialog script... she got all awkward so o well.
and ya, i have to do good in school cuz i need money to pay for drugs lol
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JesusGoneRogue said: im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
So what the fuck do you care???
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: NIMH]
#13983071 - 02/18/11 03:10 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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JesusGoneRogue said: im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
So what the fuck do you care???
lol huh? what do u even mean lol. im not gunna date her.. jesus ur so abrasive lol!!
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: NIMH]
#13983075 - 02/18/11 03:12 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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What's wrong with girly girls? I think feminine girls are hot, especially of they're athletic too.
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: Eminence]
#13983083 - 02/18/11 03:18 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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frylock91 said: What's wrong with girly girls? I think feminine girls are hot, especially of they're athletic too.
just not my type of girl friend typically, but these are all vast generalizations and we are putting hypothetical people into groups
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Idk, seems hard to believe people would turn down chicks that look like the one in my avatar.
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: Eminence]
#13983092 - 02/18/11 03:29 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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frylock91 said: Idk, seems hard to believe people would turn down chicks that look like the one in my avatar.
for a girlfriend? or for fucking? cuz those are totally different situations my friend and im talking about a girl friend. and i would never DATE the chick in ur avatar. ever.
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JesusGoneRogue said: im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
So what the fuck do you care???
lol huh? what do u even mean lol. im not gunna date her.. jesus ur so abrasive lol!!
Why is it so important to you that she won't go on a second date with you. Maybe it isn't about you. Just wondering why you "feel bad"... Maybe because she wont go out on a second date with you? Kinda weak reason to feel bad. Get over yourself... It might not be about you. MAYBE SHE DIDN't LIKE YOU!!
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Well yeah that's different I suppose. If you wouldn't at least fuck her, there's gotta be something wrong lol.Why wouldn't you date girly girls though? just out of curiousity.
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: NIMH]
#13983146 - 02/18/11 04:16 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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JesusGoneRogue said: im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
So what the fuck do you care???
lol huh? what do u even mean lol. im not gunna date her.. jesus ur so abrasive lol!!
Why is it so important to you that she won't go on a second date with you. Maybe it isn't about you. Just wondering why you "feel bad"... Maybe because she wont go out on a second date with you? Kinda weak reason to feel bad. Get over yourself... It might not be about you. MAYBE SHE DIDN't LIKE YOU!!
dude wtf are u talking about lol? you in the right thread?
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DrugsAreFunn said: im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
chick asks you to hook up several times, she's at least 2 out of the 3
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I don't get it, why do you feel bad? And why didn't you want to hang out with her? Just because she's not your type? That's a lame excuse.
If you weren't regretting it you wouldn't make a post about it, and if you didn't care about her, again you wouldn't care enough to post about it, go get her tiger!
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: Eminence]
#13984770 - 02/18/11 01:36 PM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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frylock91 said: Well yeah that's different I suppose. If you wouldn't at least fuck her, there's gotta be something wrong lol.Why wouldn't you date girly girls though? just out of curiousity.
"girly girl" to me isnt a look so much as a mind set. When I think "girly girl" I think gossiping, catty, wont go camping, cant go a day without a shower, has to have makeup to leave the house, complains constantly, reads girly magazines, complain about pot smoking and drinking, etc. Being hot doesnt make someone a girly girl, it's the mindset. A girl can be wearing sweats and a t-shirt and still be one. When I think "girly girl" I think high maintenance and bitchy. These are the ones that are not just into traditional gender roles but so far jaded that they think the guy has to do everything and they just use them. They dont cook for you, if they do it tastes like shit. These are the girls that you see in the club taking off their high heels to dance and you try to walk around them and they say something like "Ummm...NO!" like you have to wait on them to take off their high heels to get in the door. They have this whole prissy princess complex.
Ive met many tomboys who LOOK like girly girls (wear mini skirts, shave their legs, put on makeup, etc) but are still willing to go camping, go on long road trips, hit up festies, smoke pot, mud wrestle, etc. When i mean "tomboy" what I mean is down to earth someone you can kick it with like a friend who doesnt have all these crazy expectations. A girl who acts like "one of the guys" even if she dresses nice and does kinky things with you.
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: Eminence]
#13985077 - 02/18/11 02:30 PM (13 years, 1 month ago) |
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frylock91 said: Well yeah that's different I suppose. If you wouldn't at least fuck her, there's gotta be something wrong lol.Why wouldn't you date girly girls though? just out of curiousity.
That goes back to what I was saying earlier about us catagorizing people, everyone has more to them than meets the eye. But certain characteristics are prodomenent among certain groups. For example girly girls are generally materialistic and don't like to outdoorsie/active things, not to mention they typically need lots of attention and are at a higher risk for permisquous activities. Fuck games.
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i like tom boy chicks. there was this girl in my tae kwon do class when i was a kid she was a blackk belt and she wuz sooooooo hotttttttt
i got to spar w/ her a couple times
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Re: awww i feel bad :/ [Re: NIMH]
#13985232 - 02/18/11 03:02 PM (13 years, 1 month ago) |
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JesusGoneRogue said: im not really into girly girls either, im into self confident, self assured, level headed girls. she doesnt come across as one of those.
So what the fuck do you care???
i didnt post that. pris should do some real work and warn whoevers misquoting me.
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Yeah I guess I wasn't being clear. I was talking strictly about girly looks. But I mentioned liking girly girls that are athletic. So that could be considered a tom boy trait or something.
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