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Anonymous #1
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 girl "crying" after sex 
#13827864 - 01/21/11 09:09 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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is this normal?
at the end of sex she lies there and looks as she's high and sometimes tears stream out of her eyes, she's unable to speak so i just leave her alone, i dont wanna give her the 3rd degree.
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 puff4200
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I've never had a chick cry after sex sounds strange
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Anonymous #2
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Once I cried after I had an orgasm. I couldn't help it, tears came running down as I was laughing. It felt amazing! My whole body was twitching and my toes went completely numb.
That was one time though, so I don't know if crying every time is normal.
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Humility
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This could mean lots of things.
Her own disappointment with having sex (morality issues)
Past trauma (rape/child molestation victim)
Reminiscing on dicks gone by that were more athletic than yours
and my personal favorite: You rocked her box such that she cried tears of joy.
I've had a girl cry during/after sex. If it ever happens again with anyone, barring an explanation and a damn good one, I'm done.
It's certainly not as cheerful as her making hyena-like noises before she creams all over herself and then tells you really quietly that she "needs a minute".
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Re: girl "crying" after sex [Re: Humility]
#13828001 - 01/21/11 09:37 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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damaged goods? (ugly way to put it, sorry...) sounds bad. tears of joy and twiching are one thing. weirdness and unresponsiveness is not so pleasant sounding.
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meatcakeman
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why don't you just ask her what the problem is?
if she doesn't want to talk about it, then don't because the problem is probably secondary anyways, not pertaining to you two. so the culprit, im guessing, is something along the lines of what humility mentioned. but, no, that is not conventionally "normal," though i'm sure there might be some fetishes out there. 
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IMO if a girl cry's after sex... YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!
Seriously though (as others have said) it's probably related to some psychological thing on her end unless you are doing something realty weird during sex, that you haven't told us about. Have you asked her if she is or was religious or even more awkward to bring up if she was ever raped? It's probable she has some guilt or shame related to sex that stems from one of these common problems.
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Anonymous #1
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she looked blissful, i asked if she was alright she just smiled and nodded like she was far away
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ScavengerType
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don't sound to be bad necessarily then... Well, so long as you both have fun... whatever right?
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"Have you ever seen what happens when a grenade goes off in a school? Do you really know what you’re doing when you order shock and awe? Are you prepared to kneel beside a dying soldier and tell him why he went to Iraq, or why he went to any war?"
"The things that are done in the name of the shareholder are, to me, as terrifying as the things that are done—dare I say it—in the name of God. Montesquieu said, "There have never been so many civil wars as in the Kingdom of God." And I begin to feel that’s true. The shareholder is the excuse for everything."
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Anonymous #3
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Did you execute a Cleveland Steamroller, a Blumpkin, Blumpkin Backfire, or the infamous Alabama Hotpocket?
that might explain why she was crying.
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 meams
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OP: is this a girlfriend that you've been with for a while? Sounds like a rough history -- probably a very touchy subject she doesn't ever want to talk about.
A good way around speaking about it directly would be to look her in the eyes and ask her very directly if there is anything that she would like you to avoid doing or saying during intimate scenarios.
I know a few things never ever ever to do. every now and then i slip up and say the wrong word or do the wrong thing - and it makes me feel terrible inside. but it doesnt hold a candle to how that act makes her feel, so i just do my best and pray I keep trakc of what i'm doing/saying.
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Re: girl "crying" after sex [Re: meams]
#13829262 - 01/22/11 01:36 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ive had only one GF, and this was when we were 18 i dont know if that has to do with anything. But i would have hardcore sex with her, then she would start tearing up, sometimes crying full blown. I dont understand.
Maybe it is something subconcious. Maybe your GF family conditioned her to think sex is this big deal, and it should be done very carefully.
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meams
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Re: girl "crying" after sex [Re: p4kSouL]
#13829375 - 01/22/11 02:02 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Or maybe she's been the victim of some abuse in the past. A lot more women than you think have had to deal with this shit. it boils my blood.
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andrewss
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Re: girl "crying" after sex [Re: meams] 2
#13830191 - 01/22/11 05:55 AM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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just beat her up next time
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Blondell_Letrange
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Wow! I am so surprised no one has heard of this before!!!!
Now first of all, before anyone "goes there", I can not obviously vouch for 100% of the instances that females will cry after sex. 
However if she seems "blissful" she probably is.
This happens to me frequently, the more intense the orgasms, the more intensely I will cry. It is just some huge release.
It is no big deal, a bit of water from the eyes, then back to normal.
I think my partner now gets a little upset when I don't bawl, because it tends to mean I haven't come as hard.
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hailtothethief
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If she seems happy don't worry. Congrats, you just gave her an awesome orgasm, and she probably cares about you a lot.
I was weirded out the first time my gf cried right as she finished her orgasm, however after talking to her about it and looking it up online, the next two times it happened I felt like a champ.
If it happens again, give her a hug, cuddle with her, scratch her back, etc... she is probably still having an awesome afterglow.
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Anonymous #4
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if she looked blissful, it could be that intense feeling/connection you get with the other person plus how awesome it was.. I did that once on acid cuz i just felt the most intense connection to the guy, the world, plus sex was awesome n very intense feelings while we were doing it. i had to force back the tears while he was still in me... it was wierd. but yes it happens.
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Stains Blue
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A good slammin' can cause a girl to cry during sex if you have a larger penis. I was not being careful enough and was slamming in in all the way and I was really getting into it. pumping harder and harder and she started tapping out. and then started crying. I never felt so bad after laughing before in my life...
maybe this is your problem?  Larger Penis Syndrome? If so search for a larger vagina... This can be fun as well... I call it search and destroy.
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DomNoon
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shes fucking someone else
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Re: girl "crying" after sex [Re: DomNoon]
#13833566 - 01/22/11 10:04 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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was it consentual?
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