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Femininity in men
#13694430 - 12/28/10 02:13 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I guess you could say I grew up as momas boy in a way and as a result I guess I am more feminine than other guys. by that I mean, need for cleanliness, more in touch with my emotions, not afraid to make "gay" remarks, and I am usually slightly more affectionate than most guys.
I may look like a bearded asshole but everyone knows I'm a softy
All if not most of my friends consider me to be the "gayest" friend they have, not negatively but in a friendly way.
I am not at all offended by this as I do have good taste and am generally a very considerate and helping person.
being very comfortable with my sexuality in Women and have no issues with people making these remarks but a I have noticed some of my friends will hold back or not say something for fear of people thinking they are gay or not "manly" enough.
I find I live honestly and live a better life because of it.
Anyone else have similar experiences?
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694434 - 12/28/10 02:15 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I was raised in a feminine household for a period during development and had similar results. Can't remember anyone calling me gay except in middle school, but I've definitely noticed I have less qualms about "appearing less masculine" than other males in my life. Plus, the ladies love it. Overall I consider it a good thing. I am very comfortable being a little less on the masculine side. I still feel more masculine energy than feminine, but I am closer to neutral than I am to masculine.
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JacquesCousteau said: I was raised in a feminine household and had similar results. Can't remember anyone calling me gay except in middle school, but I've definitely noticed I have less qualms about "appearing less masculine" than other males in my life. Plus, the ladies love it.
I agree that women definitely like it.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents] 1
#13694441 - 12/28/10 02:19 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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My2cents, maybe you're gay?
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694452 - 12/28/10 02:21 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Props for having the balls to revel in your gayness.
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KillerPicklez said: My2cents, maybe you're gay?
I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay. I have homosexual friends and relatives but I love pussy. I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694459 - 12/28/10 02:24 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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2Cents said: I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
Does that happen to be your back side?
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694460 - 12/28/10 02:24 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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2Cents said:
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KillerPicklez said: My2cents, maybe you're gay?
I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay. I have homosexual friends and relatives but I love pussy. I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
Gay people are pretty chill. I have some gay female friends.
Fuck the naysayers man... though you probably would have caught less flack if you hadn't used the word gay so many times in the OP... lol.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694462 - 12/28/10 02:25 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Set said:
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2Cents said: I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
Does that happen to be your back side?
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2Cents said:
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KillerPicklez said: My2cents, maybe you're gay?
I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay. I have homosexual friends and relatives but I love pussy. I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
Yeah never said anything was wrong with being gay. Just calling it how I see it
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2Cents said:
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KillerPicklez said: My2cents, maybe you're gay?
I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay. I have homosexual friends and relatives but I love pussy. I'm just a man in-touch with my feminine side.
Gay people are pretty chill. I have some gay female friends.
I have two female family friends that are married and they are by far some of the hottest girls I have laid eyes on
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694488 - 12/28/10 02:38 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I feel like society is progressing towards a blurring of gender roles anyway. In many european countries and even asian countries like japan and south korea where the main industry is more technology driven, male roles and expectations have been redefined.
I say be proud of who you are! I think it's great that you are more sensitive and emotional and 'feminine' =)
I know many many of my friends specifically look for that in partners.
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thanks, its good to know people are being more progressive. I am a firm believer that gender is only partly physical and a lot mental upbringing and social norms
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: 2Cents]
#13694530 - 12/28/10 02:58 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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love knows no gender
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: Salomon]
#13694599 - 12/28/10 03:34 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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I do enjoy a man with emotions because then I know how they really feel about me and it makes me feel like everythings going well. Plus I know how much some men love there moms and I think it's cute cuz the have a connection with there mother. Wish I had a better connection with my dad but that won't happen.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: Princess]
#13694613 - 12/28/10 03:38 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: Princess]
#13694614 - 12/28/10 03:38 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Princess said: I do enjoy a man with emotions because then I know how they really feel about me and it makes me feel like everythings going well. Plus I know how much some men love there moms and I think it's cute cuz the have a connection with there mother. Wish I had a better connection with my dad but that won't happen.
Don't ever change 2cents
awwww I feel so good and positive with all the love coming my way
Thank you
And yes I do love my mother a whole damn lot, shes the best and I can talk to her about anything.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: Princess]
#13694621 - 12/28/10 03:41 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Princess said: I do enjoy a man with emotions because then I know how they really feel about me and it makes me feel like everythings going well.
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Re: Femininity in men [Re: Paw_Paw]
#13694627 - 12/28/10 03:43 AM (13 years, 2 months ago) |
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Paw is like Santa, he brings good cheer and good ratings all around
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