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Anonymous #1

just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online
    #13321871 - 10/11/10 06:49 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

so, ive been dating this girl for about 6 months....
she went to go do a photoshoot for fun with some dude we both kinda knew from some parties and events we had attended and worked at.....

the dude who did the photoshoot i did some work with in the past, and today he called my gf, asking that i call him. so i did, and we chat about some side projects and some other bs.... anyways, he asks what i thought of the photoshoot. i told him that I hadnt seen much of it, because ive been busy, and that i was having some facebook trouble...

so he gives me 2 links to the shoot....
one is all the pics i saw on my gf's facebook....
the other one is all of her nude....  nothing sexually provocative, artsy actually...

which, she did not tell me about....... even though she told me all about the shoot after.... also, she is totally adamant against me having any sort of risque photos of her. she said its because once when she was going through the 2000 pics i have on my iphone, there is one of one of my ex's nude, but barely showing anything.....

this really got my heart up in my throat, because she pretty much lied to me and im realllly not ok with that, ive got deep rooted trust issues......

now, i dont know what to do about this.... it just happened like 5 mins ago, and im kinda freeking out....


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13321942 - 10/11/10 06:59 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
ive got deep rooted trust issues......

now, i dont know what to do about this.... it just happened like 5 mins ago, and im kinda freeking out....




This is why she didnt tell you


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Anonymous #1

Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #13321974 - 10/11/10 07:04 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

you see, its actually not a big deal that she did it, i would not have cared if she told me... but she didn't.

which is weird, she told me she made out with some other chick at some party i wasn't at, which i didn't mind. ive seen her naked and topless at parties before, not a big deal........ but she chose to omit the whole naked photo thing...


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #13321992 - 10/11/10 07:08 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Don't trust whores


Edited by wellage (10/11/10 07:08 PM)


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #13321997 - 10/11/10 07:08 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Maybe your photographer friend had sex with her and that was his way of telling you indirectly hoping you could draw your own conclusions.


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    #13322059 - 10/11/10 07:22 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Mr.Pink]
    #13322069 - 10/11/10 07:24 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

jesus.... cant you treat something like this seriously.... i should have known.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13322074 - 10/11/10 07:25 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

lol


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13322122 - 10/11/10 07:38 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
jesus.... cant you treat something like this seriously.... i should have known.




Dude, you're the one hoping we will defend your love of your floozy girlfriend

you are not taking this situation seriously


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: wellage]
    #13322164 - 10/11/10 07:51 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

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she told me she made out with some other chick at some party i wasn't at, which i didn't mind. ive seen her naked and topless at parties before




nice girlfriend you got there...


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Shroom lover] * 1
    #13322885 - 10/11/10 10:42 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

If this is the kind of girl you're with and your heart is clogging up your throat because she lied you'd better end it, right now.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Ginseng1]
    #13325630 - 10/12/10 02:33 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

that's shitty man. i would flip out too. it's not the fact that she did the shoot, it's that she's getting naked in front of another guy and exposing herself without telling you. that implies that she knew you would be upset but didn't care enough about you not to do it.

i'd ask her about it, then dump her.

to be perfectly honest though, i probably wouldn't feel comfortable dating any girl seriously that let someone other than her bf take nude pictures of her. especially if they're freely distributed on the web. i'm a jealous guy.

and who knows what else happened at that photo shoot?


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: JT]
    #13325653 - 10/12/10 02:39 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

pics or gtfo!


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #13325657 - 10/12/10 02:39 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

post her nakeds on here to get back at her for lying!


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: JT]
    #13325666 - 10/12/10 02:41 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

so she came over last night, and i talked to her about it.....

i dont think anything else happened, or that there is any great secret....
these werent freely available on the web, just on an obscure url from the photographers page...

but after asking her why she did it, i got some answers. she said she didnt think it was that big of a deal, and that she didnt tell me because she thought i would get mad.... but admitted that she knew if she told me i wouldnt be mad....

all in all, i do believe her but, interestingly enough, the reasoning and rationaile for not telling me was pretty much verbatim of what my ex said to me when i called her out on cheating on me.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13326305 - 10/12/10 05:11 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Run.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13327497 - 10/12/10 09:47 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

I just want you to hear all these people telling you to leave, myself included.  As monkeys we have the amazing capacity to learn from the experiences of others.  Do yourself and a favor and try it.  If you refuse learn from your past experience of what your ex said about her cheating.  If that doesn't work try some cold hard stereotyping.  The type of woman who walks around naked at parties and takes naked photoshoots is usually: a. promiscuous b. attention-whoring c. needy for external validation making her more prone to cheating d. not girlfriend material (but makes a good f-buddy) or e. all of the above

I circled e.

I know it's hard to leave good pussy (sry for vulgarity grandma) but you'll only be doing yourself a favor.  If you refuse to do that stop taking the relationship so seriously that you actually give a fuck if she's got nekked pix on the internet cuz ur (probably) setting yourself up for a painful lesson.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: memes]
    #13330220 - 10/13/10 12:35 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

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meams said:
Run.




Yup. Sorry about that. Happens to the best and worst of us, whichever I am.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13330490 - 10/13/10 01:41 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

Half of this may be on her but the other half is on you. 6 months should be long enough to know someone better than this. And she said the same thing as your ex? That's called a pattern. Figure out what YOU are doing to arrive at these situations, and fix it. Hint: "Ive got deep rooted trust issues."

Most men don't want to hear this. They want to blame women for being bitches and run away, to repeat the same pattern over and over. Be an exception.


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Re: just found a whole bunch of naked pictures of my girlfriend online [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #13330560 - 10/13/10 01:58 PM (3 years, 6 months ago)

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FollowTheMusic said:
Half of this may be on her but the other half is on you. 6 months should be long enough to know someone better than this. And she said the same thing as your ex? That's called a pattern. Figure out what YOU are doing to arrive at these situations, and fix it. Hint: "Ive got deep rooted trust issues."

Most men don't want to hear this. They want to blame women for being bitches and run away, to repeat the same pattern over and over. Be an exception.




I agree that he might be dating the wrong girls and getting himself into this "pattern"
But he didnt/cant do anything to "arrive at these situations". Whatever he does cant MAKE a girl slutty or disrespectful.

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Anonymous said:
so she came over last night, and i talked to her about it.....

i dont think anything else happened, or that there is any great secret....
these werent freely available on the web, just on an obscure url from the photographers page...

but after asking her why she did it, i got some answers. she said she didnt think it was that big of a deal, and that she didnt tell me because she thought i would get mad.... but admitted that she knew if she told me i wouldnt be mad....

all in all, i do believe her but, interestingly enough, the reasoning and rationaile for not telling me was pretty much verbatim of what my ex said to me when i called her out on cheating on me.




that sounds like a pretty bullshit excuse. She wouldnt have hidden that from you if she didnt have SOMETHING to hide.

If you are looking for a relationship, not just someone to mess around with, I'd say start looking somewhere else. She obviously doesnt respect you.


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