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 Re: trouble getting it up during sex.  [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13258588 - 09/28/10 01:05 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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If you had a problem with your PC muscle, you wouldn't be able to get it hard during masturbation. This sounds like anxiety 100%. I had the same problems the first time I had sex. It just took brute force and a lot of attempts to get over it. We must have tried like 15-20 times before I was successful because each failed attempt just kept putting more pressure on me for the next attempt to be successful. Thankfully, I was with her for a while before we tried and we had a strong relationship. After that I never had a problem again with her.
But then, the first time we had group sex, the anxiety issue arose again. I didn't feel like fucking around with it anymore, nor did I think the other couple would be down with an indefinite number of attempts, so I bought some viagra and I've taken it on the first attempt with each new couple. It completely eliminates the worries about my dick working or not cuz I knew that when I took it, my dick was going up rip, shit, or bust. After the first go, I'd take less and then none since the anxiety wasn't an issue anymore.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: pothead_bob]
#13262227 - 09/29/10 12:54 AM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Try taking 0.5mg or even 0.25mg of Xanax and no other drugs. Works.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: abltsandwich]
#13263639 - 09/29/10 11:28 AM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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I never thought of that. Sounds like a good suggestion and if I ever come across some Xanax, I'll give it a shot. For now, though, I have a supply of 10 viagras. I bought 14, 2 years ago, and at the rate I'm using them, they'll probably last me another 4 years or possibly indefinitely, as I'm getting more used to our sexcapades.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: pothead_bob]
#13263974 - 09/29/10 12:37 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yea, I'm really glad it's just anxiety. I'm think I'll buff myself up next time. It may kill the mood a lil, but not as much as not being able to get hard at all. I've stopped jackin off too, so hopefully that helps.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13269291 - 09/30/10 12:35 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Whatever you need to do to get through that first time. It get's much easier after that, imo.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: pothead_bob]
#13271347 - 09/30/10 07:16 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dan Savage has some interesting things to say on the subject of masturbation. His theory is that guys do too much of the "death grip" when jerking off, and over the years this can desensitize our collective cocks. Through a little performance anxiety into the mix and you've got a scared, benumbed penis on your hands (or her hands, or wherever it may be). Try varying your stroke, stimulate other parts of your body (scrotum, nipples, etc), slow down and enjoy the moment a bit more... in other words, make masturbation more like actual awkward sex. Kegels help too certainly.
Also, switch to your non-dominant hand. In addition to acclimating your wang to a more sensitive touch, it also acts against the whole Popeye-syndrome.. (DudeBro's right arm looks like Popeye, left arm looks like Olive)
Also, porn maybe? Sometimes it can be distracting to jump focus from your partner to an internet movie and back again, but then again sometimes not. Experimentation is the essence of progress!
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13284591 - 10/03/10 04:58 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I'm 20 and I ride my bike a lot and wrestle. Trust me I am the god damn model of health. (I don't even do "unhealthy" drugs like meth or opiates just weed and psychedelics) I barely drink. I don't have anything against those drugs, I just don't want to be addicted to anything.)
Riding with bike does affect the hardness of your stick. The pressure on your penis root ... I have had same problem after riding whole day on a bike, dick was half soft, when tried to penetrate.
Oh and at the beginning when 100% of foreplay was to make girl wet I had problems with staying hard, until girl realized that sex doesnt mean shes lieing on the bed like dead corpse and thats supposed to make me going. Bitch just grabbed diack and jerked few times , made me more pain than good and then asked wtf whats wrong with you
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: botha]
#13285202 - 10/03/10 06:49 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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I saw a few mentions of xanex. Benzodiazapines have been very detrimental to erectile function for lots of men, and I've heard a few women say it leaves them as dry as the Sahara even when they are seriously turned on.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: numonkei]
#13286470 - 10/03/10 11:29 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah, I don't think I'm gonna go for benzos.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13291716 - 10/05/10 02:40 AM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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I feel like a low therapeutic dose (0.25-0.5mg) of a short half-life benzodiazepine such as Alprazolam will cure your sexually-induced anxiety, but I'm not a doctor so take that for what it's worth. You can PM me (OP) for any more insightful info.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: abltsandwich]
#13305941 - 10/07/10 11:06 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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hey no one has brought this up.I know you wont accept it, or even think of it. But could you possibly be gay??? You just read that and your like wtf NOOO! but honestly if it is something deep in your mind. ITS possible. Besides that. DONT WATCH PORN. After that, she prob isnt really hot to you. Maybe she is the hot society projects. But not the hot you really look for. figure that one out. Also, well shiiat i have nothing else. good luck
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: dshow]
#13308599 - 10/08/10 02:46 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just get pissed first, sure fire winner.
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Got hard, barebacked it and stopped before I came.
Feels good man.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13405954 - 10/29/10 02:06 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Have you explained problem to your gurl? She may be thinking its something wrong with her
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: kvan1day]
#13407501 - 10/29/10 08:13 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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what is bare backed???
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: dshow]
#13411861 - 10/30/10 09:51 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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No condom.
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13414526 - 10/31/10 04:16 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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ohhh... well 
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: dshow]
#13414587 - 10/31/10 04:35 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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LOL
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Re: trouble getting it up during sex. [Re: kvan1day]
#13421001 - 11/02/10 12:46 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
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Have you explained problem to your gurl? She may be thinking its something wrong with her
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