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StonedShroom
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Girls suck.
#11311364 - 10/24/09 11:32 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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My serious (ex)girlfriend just fucked me over, on so many many levels.
First off, she has a 6 year old daughter, and they have been living with me in my one bedroom for the past couple months. I was stuck in this lease until November, but we had to use my address to get her kid into this school district. We have been together for a little over a year, and we decided to get a 2 bedroom apt together.
She had a trip planned to go see family in California with her mom. She had planned on staying with a friend on the first night she was there, then going to her cousin's house the next day.
She also has a serious binge drinking problem. She was going to AA meetings and I was going to put her on my insurance at work so she could seek further therapy. I drew the line and made her get help when she got drunk and passed out while she was driving my car, had her car keys with her, and left me here with her daughter and no transportation to get her kid to school.
I asked her to maintain her sobriety while she was in Cali, and she told me since me and her daughter weren't going to be with her she was going to drink. I said she doesn't see the big picture and she could still cause harm. Her drinking in Cali would be a deal-breaker. She understood, and said she wouldn't drink.
Well, she goes to Cali... the next day my friend at work comes up to me and says "we need to talk"... The friend she's staying with ("rachel") is friends with my friend ("josh"). Rachel didn't know I know Josh, and she told him about how my GF arranged to meet a guy at her house and was "hot and heavy" with him, and about how she was drunk.
She fucking ARRANGED to meet this guy, while I'm here, literally moving our shit into that new apt, and taking care of her child.
I confront her about it, she admits to it. Relationship over.
To top it off, she owes me money for rent and utilities, and had left me a check. I go to cash it this morning and she had put a stop-payment on it! So now I'm also screwed out of $450.
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Brennus
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Wow.
(Some) women should be lined up against a wall and shot.
I recently got out of something similar to this, although I wasn't in nearly as deep as you are. The girl used her kid to manipulate me constantly and I finally cut her off (after making her cry and hearing her threaten to kill me and kill herself).
Women with substance abuse problems and children are shitty people.
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lmfsmoke
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i feel bad for you man women have and are still fucking me over, at least you learn from their evil ways, hope next one isnt as fucked up as this one
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Tript
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: lmfsmoke]
#11311487 - 10/24/09 11:51 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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That's a shitty situation all around. I feel sorry for the kid.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Tri High]
#11311603 - 10/24/09 12:05 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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I fucked my mans over for like over $9000 dollars baby that ain't shiiit.
maybe try dudes again?
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StonedShroom said: My serious (ex)girlfriend just fucked me over, on so many many levels.
First off, she has a 6 year old daughter, and they have been living with me in my one bedroom for the past couple months. I was stuck in this lease until November, but we had to use my address to get her kid into this school district. We have been together for a little over a year, and we decided to get a 2 bedroom apt together.
She had a trip planned to go see family in California with her mom. She had planned on staying with a friend on the first night she was there, then going to her cousin's house the next day.
She also has a serious binge drinking problem. She was going to AA meetings and I was going to put her on my insurance at work so she could seek further therapy. I drew the line and made her get help when she got drunk and passed out while she was driving my car, had her car keys with her, and left me here with her daughter and no transportation to get her kid to school.
I asked her to maintain her sobriety while she was in Cali, and she told me since me and her daughter weren't going to be with her she was going to drink. I said she doesn't see the big picture and she could still cause harm. Her drinking in Cali would be a deal-breaker. She understood, and said she wouldn't drink.
Well, she goes to Cali... the next day my friend at work comes up to me and says "we need to talk"... The friend she's staying with ("rachel") is friends with my friend ("josh"). Rachel didn't know I know Josh, and she told him about how my GF arranged to meet a guy at her house and was "hot and heavy" with him, and about how she was drunk.
She fucking ARRANGED to meet this guy, while I'm here, literally moving our shit into that new apt, and taking care of her child.
I confront her about it, she admits to it. Relationship over.
To top it off, she owes me money for rent and utilities, and had left me a check. I go to cash it this morning and she had put a stop-payment on it! So now I'm also screwed out of $450.
sue her. then get her drunk.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Has a six-year old kid and a bring drinker? You asked for it, brah.
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Penguarky Tunguin said: Has a six-year old kid and a bring drinker? You asked for it, brah.
I'm with you there. OP, maybe be a better judge of character? I'm not saying you deserve any of this, but you just have to expect this kind of behavior from certain people.
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i thought YOU were a chick
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PilzeEssen said: i thought YOU were a chick
She's a lesbian....?
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Snape
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Girls do suck
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Tript]
#11312097 - 10/24/09 01:21 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Tript said: That's a shitty situation all around. I feel sorry for the kid.
people should THINK TWICE before bringing a child into this world.
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feifen
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Neuron]
#11312113 - 10/24/09 01:24 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Neuron said:
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Tript said: That's a shitty situation all around. I feel sorry for the kid.
people should THINK TWICE before bringing a child into this world.
I agree
I'm not responsible enough to raise a child right now
I'm too young
Maybe when I'm in my late 30s or early 40s.
Maybe. Probably not though.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Snape]
#11312210 - 10/24/09 01:41 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Snape said: Girls do suck
Exactly what i was thinking
Sorry to hear that op,but yeah,take better care next time.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: feifen]
#11312264 - 10/24/09 01:47 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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feifen said:
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PilzeEssen said: i thought YOU were a chick
She's a lesbian....?
She is, which makes the story that much more interesting.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: 13.step]
#11312280 - 10/24/09 01:50 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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most girls arent real people
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feifen
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GeorgieBoy said: most girls arent real people
Didn't you know? 90% of the worlds population is mindless robotic humans.
The portal told me so.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: feifen]
#11312313 - 10/24/09 01:55 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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yup
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Neuron]
#11312499 - 10/24/09 02:28 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Neuron said:
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Tript said: That's a shitty situation all around. I feel sorry for the kid.
people should THINK TWICE before bringing a child into this world.
Thoughts require intelligence. Intelligence is severely lacking in the population. Binge drinking parents with young children, reminds me of a waste of lie I know.
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That's a fucking disgusting story.
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Frost]
#11312778 - 10/24/09 03:15 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds rough man, I got screwed over by my last girlfriend, she had a drinking problem and two kids. I didn't realize how big of a drinking problem she had until recently. Lost a thousands in that relationship taking care of her and her kids.
Succubi.
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StonedShroom
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Re: Girls suck. [Re: Maverick]
#11313244 - 10/24/09 04:20 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks all
yes, I am a girl too haha
I just feel so... shattered. She was doing so good.
Don't feel bad for me, feel bad for her kid.
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gENERIX
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From the sounds of that story, you will be far better off without her. You were the far more responsible parent and you aint even the kids father.
Forget about her and move on.. its as easy as that!
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Quote:
Rocker232 said:
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Neuron said:
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Tript said: That's a shitty situation all around. I feel sorry for the kid.
people should THINK TWICE before bringing a child into this world.
Thoughts require intelligence. Intelligence is severely lacking in the population. Binge drinking parents with young children, reminds me of a waste of lie I know.
QFT
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