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 AlphaFalfa
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 Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: LysergicLeopard]
#11316809 - 10/25/09 04:31 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah I have a deep useless sense of responsibility - which would be useful if god existed....but since there is no reward for helping out people who seem to but hurt me, then I must opt out because god cant punish if he doesnt exist.
I think thats probally why i feel bad for people, to prove that I am a good person in gods eyes....I still have a strong subconcious belief in god...yeah, beliefs are like rocks some of them are very very difficult to move and some shatter at the thought of movement....sadly, most of the ones that shatter at the sight, are the ones we like and the ones we dont usually are the difficult ones.
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: AlphaFalfa]
#11323143 - 10/26/09 08:04 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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i have a distaste for the majority of the population, lots of misery and games out there and i have had tonnes of jobs to back this up.
it became much more apparent after frequent psychedelic and pot use. now i work alone and away from the contagious disease that is misery and things have changed drastically for the good. i do try to accept it though and not judge others.
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dr_gonz
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: deranger]
#11323227 - 10/26/09 08:36 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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what do u do for a living?
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deranger
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: dr_gonz]
#11323249 - 10/26/09 08:43 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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web conference operator for acttel.com through contractxchange.com
good hours and pays hourly 
getting my class 1 soon though.
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PowerTrip
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11336191 - 10/28/09 12:45 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can absolutely relate to this. I always look at other people's lives with disappointment. I don't mean to come off judgmental. I just find it very difficult to understand how people fall into what I can only perceive as boring, meaningless lives. I try to encourage people to chase their dreams, do something they want to do. I see them having doubt in themselves or even worse, lacking any real dreams or ambition. As if they never had any high hopes for themselves in the first place. Lately it's really been driving me crazy to the point where I have isolated myself from people who I see as habitually stuck in life. I feel compelled to grab them by the shoulders and shake them and tell them to go do something they love.
I can only imagine this trend is more common when you grow up in less affluent areas. Many of my friend's and coworkers parents were high school dropouts and the like. The blue collar nature of the local economy allowed them to live reasonably comfortably without any education or general struggle to succeed. Most children set the bar just above what their parents achieved, so when a kid grows up in a home where his father was a high school dropout the child sets low standards for himself. This is what is wrong with this country as a whole. People have settled in to mediocrity and apathy because they are following the generation before them.
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I spit reality, instead of what you usually learn
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cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
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Cameron
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: PowerTrip]
#11338255 - 10/28/09 11:44 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't mean to come off judgmental.
Mission failed
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burgatory
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Cameron]
#11341148 - 10/28/09 06:26 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Don't think about other people's lives, it's just a game. Everything is going to be just fine. Most people suffer because they don't use their intelligence.
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Wherever the hero may wander, whatever he may do, he is ever in the presence of his own essence — for he has the perfected eye to see. There is no separateness. Thus, just as the way of social participation may lead in the end to a realization of the All in the individual, so that of exile brings the hero to the Self in all.
joseph campbell
For, behold, the kingdom of God is within you.
jesus
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PowerTrip
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Cameron]
#11343245 - 10/29/09 12:31 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Cameron said:
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I don't mean to come off judgmental.
Mission failed
You try working with countless people who spend the entire day complaining about their lives. They hate their job, they hate their pay, they hate their life.. You offer them encouragement and all they do is shoot it down. "Go to college? Move somewhere else? No, not me. I'd never be able to." It's draining to be around people like this every day.
I've given up. It seems people either have the innate drive to do something significant, or they are destined to a life of mediocrity and boredom.
One of my closer friends at work today told me he was starting to hate the job. I told him good, he's finally getting to the point where he is willing to leave it to go after something he really wants.
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I spit reality, instead of what you usually learn
and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: PowerTrip]
#11344965 - 10/29/09 11:30 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Redefine significant and successful. Find freedom. Discover true peace.
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: rebus_minus]
#11346617 - 10/29/09 03:56 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Thanks for all the advice/replies, guys, feel free to continue on with this discussion; I'll ad my own input later on.
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Cameron
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: PowerTrip]
#11351315 - 10/30/09 10:48 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
You try working with countless people who spend the entire day complaining about their lives. They hate their job, they hate their pay, they hate their life.. You offer them encouragement and all they do is shoot it down. "Go to college? Move somewhere else? No, not me. I'd never be able to." It's draining to be around people like this every day.
I've given up. It seems people either have the innate drive to do something significant, or they are destined to a life of mediocrity and boredom.
One of my closer friends at work today told me he was starting to hate the job. I told him good, he's finally getting to the point where he is willing to leave it to go after something he really wants.
I take it back. You seem genuinely concerned for those poor souls. 
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PowerTrip
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Cameron]
#11355767 - 10/31/09 02:06 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cameron said:I take it back. You seem genuinely concerned for those poor souls.
I make no apologies. Many people aren't aware of it but negative moods and apathy are contagious.
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and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
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Realized
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11356801 - 10/31/09 09:43 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
....especially the lives of my immediate family members. I'll feel like everyone is completely insane, out of their minds, totally retarded, etc., and just being aware of this point of view strikes a very tender nerve in my heart. 
Can anyone else relate? I could write more on this....
I know how you feel man. I have been feeling like that a lot lately. Almost constantly actually. Just seeing my parents makes me insanely depressed. Its so sad that people let themselves get like that. I am depressed but also scared that it could happen to me. I don't have much else to say but you aren't alone.
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"Change my mind so much I can't even trust it. My mind changes me so much I can't even trust myself."
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World Spirit
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: Realized]
#11366460 - 11/01/09 10:59 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Don't get depressed, fuckers. We're all in this Together. Differences of a wide scope occur. Think of the happiest human at this moment and perhaps the one that is hungry and can't find food to hunt, plus they have a terminal illness and very little energy to go hunt.
That or don't think about it at all.
If you are going to think about anything seriously - anything at all - spend at least as much time contemplating how to improve or resolve the scenario and get involved in that process.
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AlphaFalfa
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Re: Sometimes, I become SEVERELY depressed when I think about other peoples' lives... [Re: World Spirit]
#11378226 - 11/03/09 03:25 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I wish I could manipulate people more but I have this pre-conditioned drive to be a 'good' person and it stems from my religious upbringing.
People in general, are ridiculously ignorant. They lack vital information to experience satisfaction.
I honestly, just get into the game, even with the intent that I will have to be deceptive and try to twirk it along the way, even if its just for a few moments, and it goes away again.
Thats basically all that is left, other than that I really have a strong desire not to interact with people and on my leisure time I stay away.
Imagine the mind a person who uses their leisure to intract with people AND works all day with people! WOW. What a motherfucking disaster.
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if you ever feel lost, just remember, life is not a journey, it is entertainment, all 4 fun...
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