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And a ton of people so confused about their sexual identity they go around fucking vegetables and farm animals

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Shroomism said:
I used to think somewhat like this. I learned that way while growing up, and as a horny teenager, I wanted to bang as many hot women as possible.

Well I did. But I also came to realize a lot of things through time and experience. Women who are like this and easily manipulated are 9 times out of 10 also fucking psycho. And that meaningless sex with lots of anonymous women is not what I want out of life. Playing games gets old, real quick. Not to mention a woman who will fuck you at the drop of a hat is also the woman who will do that with the next 'player' that comes around. That is some high school shit, which apparently many people carry over into their adult lives. That is good advice for getting laid by some whore, but if you really want to be happy in a relationship you have the wrong idea.

To me now, sex is a sacred thing. The bonding of two souls in perfect harmony through the union of TRUE LOVE is an experience vastly beyond the physical and anything you could ever even hope to accomplish by 'hitting it and forgetting it'. I get FAR more satisfaction out of having a meaningful relationship through mutual respect and understanding. Not all women play these games of sexual conquest or are even remotely interested in them. I'll take a woman who has more self-respect and dignity for herself than that any day of the week.

Does this make me a lame wad square, so-called "nice guy"? Perhaps. But I honestly don't give a fuck. I've experienced what its like to have lots of women, women older than you, younger than you, and everything in between, and I wasn't any happier with myself afterwards. Sure, I scored points with the "boys", but what does that matter? It doesn't.

Fact of the matter is... for me, a meaningful and loving relationship, gives me far more depth and happiness. There is something to be said about making love and connecting to the person you care about and love more than anyone on Earth. There is just a connection there that you cannot get anywhere else.

Much of this 'game-playing' is as a direct result of social programming. I don't want to hear shit about how it's in our DNA to 'spread our seed far and wide', and bang as many hot chicks as possible. I used to think that way, before I learned the truth. We've been a misogynistic culture for some thousands of years.. and to this day, our society operates under the impression of "Men don't have/show emotions, men must be strong" (which, by the way, is total bullshit) and the recent women's liberation movement maybe did a few things for woman's rights, but it was largely misguided and what do we have now? A 50%+ divorce rate in America. Skank sluts all over the place. And a ton of people so insecure and confused about their sexual identity they go around fucking vegetables and farm animals. I don't want to fuck farm animals any more than I want to fuck the skank that gets a meaningless fuck by every player type that ever rolls around. "The Man" wants to destroy the family unit, The Man wants us to have lots of meaningless sex with disease-ridden whores, The Man wants people to be confused and have low self-esteem and play mind games with each other.

Bottom line is.. you can play this game if you want. There are certainly women out there who will play it with you. But I'm not interested in those women. I'm only interested in the woman I love, who has self-respect and values for herself. Because I know she will be there for me through thick and thin, through the best and the worst of times. Because we know each other on the deepest of levels and can share anything. There is a mutual respect that comes from that which provides a love that FAR surpasses anything you can even hope to imagine banging random chicks. Maybe when your with the woman you love, if she wants you to be rough, then do it. That's the beauty of a real loving relationship, there are no boundaries if you are honest with each other.

I used to be a "bad boy". I banged lots of chicks. Then I fell in love.
What happened to Mystery? Far as I can recall near the end of the story he was completely broken down and could barely go on living life. Having sex with thousands of hot chicks all over the world, having millions of dollars did not make him any happier with himself, and ultimately the game of manipulation was his downfall.

Now I'm not saying this is for everyone. Some people want to just have sex with lots of random women, bust a nut and leave. Hey, whatever floats your boat. But that shit's not for me. Maybe you'll rethink your stance when you are depressed and alone at the age of 35 with herpes or whatever other new STD comes around by then. Or maybe you'll be content to keep on banging sluts. I dunno.

I'm not saying to be an emo cocksucker.. because obviously.. that's not the right way. But IMO neither is being a dominating chauvinist who treats woman like dirt.

I also used to think monogamy was a crock of shit. It isn't.
It may not be for everyone, but it certainly isn't a crock of shit.

I'm much more content to have values for myself, to treat people with love and respect (who deserve it). I'm nice to those I care about and a complete fucking asshole to those I don't. I'm confident in myself as a person, and I don't need to bang a thousand sluts and treat woman like dirt to prove my masculinity to myself or anyone else. That isn't what true masculinity is about, anyway. Just as true feminism isn't about being a manipulative, emotionally driven skank devoid of logic.  And I couldn't give a shit less what other people think about me because of it. They can call me a pussy or whatever, but I could still kick their ass, nice guy or not.

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