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 Jadis
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 Discussing drugs with parents
#8411691 - 05/17/08 01:40 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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Just felt like making my first pub thread :P
I tripped shrooms tonight with a girl (3g each). The catch was, both of us are living with the parents for the summer (college people), so we did it at my house up in my room. It was really chill, but man we were laughing a lot and she was a little clumsy when it came to walking around. All in all it was a greatttt trip. Very deep conversation, we were drawing / watching each other draw, and I kept "drawing" on her hand with my fingertips hehe. Ok can you tell I'm still coming down a bit, I will go on forever if I don't end this paragraph now.
So anyway, tomorrow I wouldn't be surprised if my dad asked something about what we were doing. Well we didn't fuck, but I might just be like "we ate some mushrooms then had a great time talking and drawing some sketches for each other". Is that TOO nonchalant? My parents know what's up, they've caught me with weed multiple times (smoking out of THEIR bong from college one time LOL). They used to be potheads in the day and my dad I know took shrooms a couple times. They know I occasionally smoke weed but in general i'm pretty responsible and very cautious/safe about it.
So what gives. You think parents, in general, would be opposed to their kids taking shrooms even if it was in a good setting, responsible people partaking?
Share stories if you've got em! I'm just bored and needed some people to converse with 
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8411698 - 05/17/08 01:43 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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how do u not get laid?
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Leanin]
#8411704 - 05/17/08 01:45 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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^ LOL
Well... depends on the parents man. My parents aren't cool with drugs... but every family is different.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8411712 - 05/17/08 01:48 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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I tell my parents just about everything now, unless it's just not relevant and it would only worry them.
I'm lucky. They are pretty cool about that sort of stuff. Not heads or anything, just very reasonable, well-informed people.
I would guess that you're father isn't going to ask what you 2 were up to. 
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: andrewss]
#8411714 - 05/17/08 01:48 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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I say go for it and be honest
They prob won't ask and respect your privacy
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Jadis
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: drkrobotnik]
#8411732 - 05/17/08 01:57 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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word ill tell him if he asks. oh and i didnt get laid tonight because we had an awesome melllow trip. we kissed / cuddled a bunch. but i really was not even in the mood to fuck
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8411800 - 05/17/08 02:31 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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I plan on telling my dad all the drugs I have done as soon as I turn 21 and get shit hammered drunk with him. And I expect him to do the same.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Tangerines]
#8411803 - 05/17/08 02:33 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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i told my folx bout my use when i turned 18
they were concerned for a couple months
but now its back 2 normal
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Coaster]
#8411819 - 05/17/08 02:45 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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with me, i dont really tell them but i hint at it...
she knows i've done drugs just not which... other than weed and alcohal.
i don't think it'd be a problem to let them know
just make sure they wont kick you out or something. ( which it doesnt seem like they would)
and if you can do it, i'd say to do it..
less secrets = less to hide
and less to hide is always a good thing
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: skcorrelyt]
#8411829 - 05/17/08 02:49 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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*alcohol
lrn 2 chemistry!
But yea I can't wait to spill the beans to my dad.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Tangerines]
#8411835 - 05/17/08 02:50 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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i do that EVERY TIME too.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8411942 - 05/17/08 03:42 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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i think anytime you feel like you have the ability to be open with your parents and have a good conversation, you should. I wish I had that kind of openness with my parents man. Even at 26 I would rather avoid telling them than endure their lectures and god hates drug users rants.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: mickdawg666]
#8411953 - 05/17/08 03:55 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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It would be cool if you can be upfront with your parents.
Those years were quite a different experience for me, mother did heroin, father was an alcoholic coke head. I've done a few drugs with my parents  I even gave DMT to my mom and molly to my dad before. I'm glad I had good friends growing up, and also glad I know what stupid mistakes not to make if I ever have a child.
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parent's will always get pissed, regardless. ...but they sure will appreciate it more if you come forward about it
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: asian_raggs]
#8412033 - 05/17/08 05:57 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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my mom knows im a fiend for psychs, she was quite the hippie in her day. my dad has no clue. (crazy christian  )
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8412192 - 05/17/08 08:36 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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it depends on your parents. i was very honest about my drug use and they got real scared and they think it made me insane. if i had to do it again, i would wait till i moved out to use them and don't tell them anything.
if your parents haven't used mushrooms, they won't even know what they really are and they will just be afraid of the social stigma attached to mushrooms.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8412224 - 05/17/08 09:01 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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I've only told my parents I smoke pot, and drunkenly at that, and quite frankly I think that's all any parent wants to hear
I think I also implied I dropped acid
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Jadis]
#8412426 - 05/17/08 10:42 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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My advice is: If you think they've tried mushrooms or acid before, definitely tell them.
If they haven't, then it's kind of a toss-up. People who haven't tried psychedelics can have a lot of misconceptions about them. Still, if you think you're parents are openminded enough, just tell them. Open communication makes for a lot less strained relationship.
When I first told my mom about trying mushrooms, she was a little unnerved (she hadn't tried them at that point), but still cool about it. Expecially when I explained what mushrooms were about (as best as I could decribe it anyway). Since then, her boyfriend got her some mushrooms on her birthday (camping out in the mountains), and she totally loved the experience.
So yeah, being open can be a good thing.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: Entropymancer]
#8412560 - 05/17/08 11:50 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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i hide it from mine. i don't ask what they do on their free time and they don't ask me. my parents are very pro-soberity, so it really just wouldn't work for me to tell them. love them to death and i hate having to keep it a secret, but i think its better for both me and them to not discuss it.
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Re: Discussing drugs with parents [Re: smokeybear]
#8412572 - 05/17/08 11:56 AM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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Quote:
smokeybear said:
i hide it from mine. i don't ask what they do on their free time and they don't ask me. my parents are very pro-soberity, so it really just wouldn't work for me to tell them. love them to death and i hate having to keep it a secret, but i think its better for both me and them to not discuss it.
word but im open about weed tho, still trying to get that plant in the backyard poppin but it doesnt look too hopeful at this point...
"weed cancer pyscho muder blah blah blah blah"
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