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 ThirdEyeOpening
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Registered: 08/24/04
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 Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: Bandersnatch]
#8381745 - 05/09/08 12:46 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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I agree fully, only time i have ever really been called out is by my parents, but thats because i rarely use eye drops anymore, not because of behavior.
My dad will drop his head and look at my eyes,and ask
"are you high?"
"huh, oh yea, lol"
"ok, just dont eat everything from the fridge."
"haha, ok, i wont"
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If its owner fails to control it, it will cut him
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Innominate
Registered: 06/12/05
Posts: 2,086
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: atransienthowl]
#8381755 - 05/09/08 12:51 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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Maybe you act like a real dumbass when you're high. Either A) get high alone, or B) find new friends.
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 MrReedz
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Registered: 02/12/08
Posts: 34
Last seen: 4 months, 26 days
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: ThirdEyeOpening]
#8381862 - 05/09/08 01:20 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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 Glad to hear you have your life on track! Then there are two options left.
(1) You are actually being sketchy
(2) You are lost in thought and paranoia.
Number two is the most likely one, especially if none of your friends have actually said anything about it while you are sober.
It is true Marijuana will bring on paranoid thoughts which makes your situation difficult. You can relax in the thought that this is all in your head. If your friends where getting the sketchy vibe from you would they continue to be around you while you were high?! Probably not.
You say that you KNOW you should stop smoking. Did that feeling and this feeling of paranoia start around the same time? If so, then we can figure that these two things are connected. If you KNOW you should stop and you do not then that is the beginning of a problem.
Nothing wrong with recreational Marijuana usage. However, when you feel like you cannot function normally during the day without being high (as I am sure many do) you may develop a dependency on the the effects.
Whether anyone agrees with me or not, there is a line between use and abuse.
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Akira
CosmicConsciousness
Registered: 12/30/05
Posts: 1,313
Loc: Everywhere
Last seen: 3 months, 15 days
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: MrReedz]
#8382168 - 05/09/08 03:11 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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Why do people keep translating this guys situation with a simple paranoia of other knowing if you are high or not?
This is not the case. Its a psychological disorder. He simply gets less confident while high, and people subconsciously read this energy and react to it.
This is a classic case, it has happened to me as a teenager. You talk and people kinda dont response as they do when sober, you kinda get ignored. Why? You speak with less confidence, very self consciously, and people react to this.
The same way a dog knows when you are afraid or confident, this is a common piece of knowledge everyone says about dogs. Well this works as well with humans, we are also animals, we react off of eachothers internal energy.
In dog lingo, when you (the author of this post) are high you become more submisive. The dogs in the pack (your friends) subconsciously sense this and react accordingly.
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atransienthowl
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Registered: 05/09/08
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Last seen: 4 months, 22 days
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: Akira]
#8382267 - 05/09/08 03:46 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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 ! Words cannot express how truly grateful I am for your guys' responses. I feel like I have just handled and resolved a critical aspect of my life. I am incredibly appreciative for what all of you had to say especially Akira and Mr. Reedz. Your words have trul;y stuck with me and you guys have nailed my situation spot on, and I realize now, that it is a fact(now that im reflecting on it) that when I get high nowadays I become less confident and more submissive and people can subconsciously sense my projection of those feelings, and they act accordingly. seriously words can't express how thankful I am right now and I feel I can walk on through life now, with new knowledge about myself and what type of person I, for whatever reason, become when I get high.
I have come to the conclusion that I am going to give mary jane a break for a good long while now, and just drink and shroom every once in a while. Because I have smoked weed hundreds of times in the past and had no problem with it, I feel that in the future me adn MJ will be able to reunite again one day, when the time is right, and not have to deal with the paranoid thoughts and inclination to become less confident and more submissive.
I feel very proud of myself for taking charge of my situation and getting what I wanted, some answers to my crippling situation. You guys heped me out tremendously and I can honestly say I don't think I could've done it withiout you guys. I hope you guys will recieve some very good karma for what you've done for me today.
i don't know what else to say but thank you all again, and may god bless you all   
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TheFakeSunRa
Registered: 03/01/05
Posts: 2,677
Loc: Pelican Bay SHU Program
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: atransienthowl]
#8382502 - 05/09/08 05:25 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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Your first post almost seems like on of those Above the Influence ads on MTV.
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fantasylndvictm
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Registered: 03/19/07
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: Bandersnatch]
#8383474 - 05/09/08 10:12 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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I havent read all this thread but all I have to say is weed makes me quiet period I'm so lame when I'm high I don't want to talk about anything or do anything. It kinda sucks but Ireally enjoy being high idk oh well.
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MrReedz
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Registered: 02/12/08
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Last seen: 4 months, 26 days
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Re: Hi everyone. I am new and I have an urgent question and concern [Re: atransienthowl]
#8383627 - 05/09/08 10:52 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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Quote:
! Words cannot express how truly grateful I am for your guys' responses. I feel like I have just handled and resolved a critical aspect of my life. I am incredibly appreciative for what all of you had to say especially Akira and Mr. Reedz. Your words have trul;y stuck with me and you guys have nailed my situation spot on, and I realize now, that it is a fact(now that im reflecting on it) that when I get high nowadays I become less confident and more submissive and people can subconsciously sense my projection of those feelings, and they act accordingly. seriously words can't express how thankful I am right now and I feel I can walk on through life now, with new knowledge about myself and what type of person I, for whatever reason, become when I get high.
I have come to the conclusion that I am going to give mary jane a break for a good long while now, and just drink and shroom every once in a while. Because I have smoked weed hundreds of times in the past and had no problem with it, I feel that in the future me adn MJ will be able to reunite again one day, when the time is right, and not have to deal with the paranoid thoughts and inclination to become less confident and more submissive.
I feel very proud of myself for taking charge of my situation and getting what I wanted, some answers to my crippling situation. You guys heped me out tremendously and I can honestly say I don't think I could've done it withiout you guys. I hope you guys will recieve some very good karma for what you've done for me today.
i don't know what else to say but thank you all again, and may god bless you all
Your welcome I am glad I was able to help the situation.
Take life as it comes and remember to smile
Edited by MrReedz (05/09/08 10:56 PM)
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