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I have a question. As most of u kno I just got out of a pain in the ass lil relationship or whatever u want to call it. And I came to the conclusion that I really don;t know what I want.
So then I met this gorgeous guy, and he's deff not relationship material, but he's gorgeous lol and I really think a relationship isn't the right thing for me. So he asked me to be his girl and I told him yea. Now the thing is I don't take it seriously at all because I'm pretty positive that he sleeps with other ppl. And I honestly don't care cuz I assumed what it was from the begining. So basically for me it's just a sex thing as I'm sure it is for him.
So do u guys think it's a bad idea to get into something like this?
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fantasylndvictim: It's all about communication. You should make some things clear to him, so that it doesn't lead to something bad and if it does...he was warned.
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Quote: fantasylndvictm said: And I came to the conclusion that I really don;t know what I want.
He asked you to be his girl? Sounds like a down-payment.
yea lol. I think I'll do what was already suggested and wrap my legs around him, only I'm not gonna be watching the clock cuz I'll be quite satisfied. He's awsome in bed mm like almost perfect
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"Things fall apart; the center cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon th world;
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity." -W.B. Yeats
:I like growing, it makes me feel good being able to grow something from a tiny seed and basically have life, or death, at my control." -- Divinatory
Cool, the only thing I could see going wrong with it is if you folks aren't using protection while he's sleeping around, but I assume you guys got something figured out hopefully.
I think I might be getting a girlfriend soon here maybe.
I need an Std test and a vasectomy.
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Quote: fantasylndvictm said: And I came to the conclusion that I really don;t know what I want.
He asked you to be his girl? Sounds like a down-payment.
yea lol. I think I'll do what was already suggested and wrap my legs around him, only I'm not gonna be watching the clock cuz I'll be quite satisfied. He's awsome in bed mm like almost perfect
So, you've already fucked him? Then why ask if it's a good decision or not?
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For well you know
That it's a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world
A little colder
I was askin if it was a good idea to continue it not fukk him. Actually I was more or less just askin some opinions on it. Alot of ppl think that casual sex relationships are no good because someone always ends up getting hurt. So I guess what I really wanted to kno was if anyone has been in just a casual sex situation that has not had any difficulties with it.
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"Things fall apart; the center cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon th world;
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity." -W.B. Yeats
:I like growing, it makes me feel good being able to grow something from a tiny seed and basically have life, or death, at my control." -- Divinatory
If you can do it without getting attached, and think the other person can too then I don't see any problems with it. I've had a few girls I've messed around with on occasion and not had any problems with them. Then again I never asked any of them to 'be my girl'.
If you don't know...shit, I say try it anyways. Worst case scenario you get too interested and get your heart broken, either that or it goes visa-versa and you end up with a stalker
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So do u guys think it's a bad idea to get into something like this?
Do you?
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For well you know
That it's a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world
A little colder
But a friend would let her enjoy the illusion of choice
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For well you know
That it's a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world
A little colder
I'd consider fantasylndvictm a Shroomery friend. I don't think she would object.
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For well you know
That it's a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world
A little colder
I think Mitch is funny as hell. Didn't he die of an overdose?
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"Things fall apart; the center cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon th world;
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity." -W.B. Yeats
:I like growing, it makes me feel good being able to grow something from a tiny seed and basically have life, or death, at my control." -- Divinatory
This is pretty funny. I'm a big fan of Mitch and haven't ever heard this.
The whole serial killer with a heart bit...Dexter, anyone? How awesome would that show be with Mitch Hedburg?
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For well you know
That it's a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world
A little colder