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 Serdal
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 Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents?
#8370322 - 05/06/08 07:24 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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Do you regret it? Did it ruin your relationship with your parents?
No doubt drug use is pretty popular among teens, but how many of you wish you waited until you had more freedom, or got caught too many times?
Just a thought I've been having lately. Too many good times and insightful experiences. But maybe it would be better if I have waited until I was out of the supervision, so they wouldn't have to worry about me and it wouldn't ruin our relationship.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8370410 - 05/06/08 07:38 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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Nope, you're the only one on here.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: The_Ghost]
#8370414 - 05/06/08 07:38 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Coaster]
#8370466 - 05/06/08 07:46 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I think my drug use helped my relationship with my parents. And it also helped their parenting skills the next few times around.
My mom was balls to the wall christian my early years, and kept me right by her side at all time. When I tried to become more of an individual as I grew up I was held back a lot. Anything I wanted to do was unacceptable even if it was creative and would've helped ( learn to play instruments, further school, friends etc etc ).
I broke off as hard as I could because I hated the way she made me live, and I started doing a lot of drugs. After about 5 years she accepted the change of who I was, and realized I was a responsible and intelligent person and I could handle myself.
She treated my little bros and sis's a lot better IMO. They get more freedom, and more room to exand, giving them less excuses to use drugs and alcohol.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: vandago]
#8370519 - 05/06/08 07:56 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I did, and I regret it to an extent.
It's just that the brain and life changes that take place during high school are what really make people want to try drugs.
I was raised in catholic/lutheran schools until I graduated from high school. I think I grew intellectually during my drug years than any other time of my life. My mom just thinks that the "drugs changed you" and now I'm a different person. It's sad that she thinks I'm not still her son. That's what she tells me, "I'm not her son"
guys, I smoke pot and like tripping. I can't understand why she thinks I'm killing myself. She has my sister believing the same shit now, and it pisses me off.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Jeebies]
#8370544 - 05/06/08 08:01 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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all the time but never got caught
its my business n i keep it that way
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8370552 - 05/06/08 08:03 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I wish I sort of waited to move out so my parents would of never knew that I used drugs. I don't really feel bad about using drugs, I feel bad about using drugs in THEIR house. And lying...I hate lying...
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Coaster]
#8370559 - 05/06/08 08:03 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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yea. when I got busted, they werent suprised.
it was just weed anyway...
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8370588 - 05/06/08 08:09 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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Many, many, many times..yes so what?  in fact i was stoned and drunk on family get togethers many times.. The rest of my family is mormon, but I am ex-mormon.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: heilfire]
#8370622 - 05/06/08 08:15 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I did drugs after I moved out of the house but my parents still FREAKED OUT MAN. My mom sat down with me once and kept needling me with questions about my use of crack cocaine (never did it). My dad called me a crack whore and to this day they still think I had a cocaine problem.
I don't regret doing it because it showed me what shitty meddling people my parents can be. IMO they were bad parents and now they're fucking up the relationship I have with them now because they think I'm some sort of overgrown five year old. I have a recurring dream in which I follow them around smoking pot and crack and cigarettes yelling "IM DESTROYING MY BODY". I hope the dream is transmitting to them.
I try really hard not to talk to them. I still talk to my mother on about once a week but that's it. We live a short distance away from each other, only a few hours, but I try not to see them too much. Really only on christmas/thanksgiving. Unlike most college students I don't leave to go back home in the summer either. I wouldn't say I hate them, but they annoy the fuck out of me with their self-imposed anguish over my "lifestyle" in totality. It's they're problem and they're trying to make me feel bad about a way they've chosen to react to something I have done to my body. I get good grades; this should be enough for them to back the fuck off.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: kriminalelement]
#8370639 - 05/06/08 08:20 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I came home on mushrooms one time at 6:00 in the morning and proceeded to cook eggs whilst the family hustled around me getting ready for work and school.
It was very scary--not sure if they knew what was up.
I think if a parent finds out about drug use, they're going to be concerned/interveen regardless of whether the kid lives in or out of the house. however, it's a whole lot easier to get caught at home.
I don't think my parent's finding out about my drug use really affected them much more than hearing the occassional lecture, but it certainly has changed my view, for the better, about my parents.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8370649 - 05/06/08 08:21 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I smoked when I was still with my parents. I dont feel bad about it, no regrets. It was just weed anyway and they were fine with me drinking so...
After I moved out I let them know I smoke from time to time and although they were and still are against it they never went psycho about, they understood that its my decision to do with my body as I please, and they also understood that weed isnt crack... My dad has had a few puffs from time to time himself so its not like hes gonna lecture me about it. It was also his idea that someday we should smoke together...
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: kriminalelement]
#8370660 - 05/06/08 08:24 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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I dont give a fuck about what anyone thinks about my drug/alcohol use..fuck 'em. I think my parents/family would never narc me off..because they know about the mafia..haha. Which is not common for mormons...my family is cool as fuck! {mainly because they know most of my friends are crazy..and I have a mean as fuck temper when im pissed...}
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Skunk420]
#8370869 - 05/06/08 09:12 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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i do. my father died a few years ago, and now it's just me and my mom (and i'm 23) living here. i joke with her about weed and shrooms, although i only do them occasionally. she's still in the greiving process, trying to figure-out her purpose in life, now that her husband is gone. i would like to share a little psychedelic enlightenment with her, but not until i'm sure she's ready for a (small) trip (she's depressive and not exactly emotionally/mentally stable). i know she's interested in weed, but i don't think she'd ever ask for it.
perhaps someday i will share it with her, but probably not until i think she's ready. not that i'm a judge of that, but she's a hypochondriac (sp?), and uses hydros and muscle relaxers whenever she can get her hands on them... i don't want to give her just another thing that she could become dependent upon... know what i mean?
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: midgard]
#8370896 - 05/06/08 09:17 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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The first time getting caught, I was regetful and ashamed. Parents were pissed and mother took friends glass. Eventually, I talked her into giving it back and letting myself indulge. So things were good.
Looking back though, I have more regret in taking my parents trust for granted and letting shit kinda get out of control (parties,jail,fuckedup 24/7) while I lived there. That being said, I'm still going to have my reefer  
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: midgard]
#8370909 - 05/06/08 09:19 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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Yeah, I have. Not recently though. Got a little careless, left the bong out. My mom was pretty upset. She knows I smoke, and occasionally drink, but her rule was no smoking in the house, no weed in the house, no paraphernalia in the house. Well, I broke that rule, and in turn haven't been able to lately.
I've also ate 4 grams of cyans up in my room. Parents were downstairs. That was interesting.
Did coke upstairs a couple times with some lady friends while they were downstairs as well.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: IslandShroomer]
#8371027 - 05/06/08 09:42 PM (3 months, 29 days ago) |
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ive done a lot. it did hirt our relationship for a while. but then i moved out and smartened up, and we have a great relationship now.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8371280 - 05/06/08 10:40 PM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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Yeah, I've done it and I continue to do it. My dad's a major stoner and has been for most of his life so it was pretty much inevitable that I would try pot eventually (along with all three of my brothers, none of whom smoke regularly). My dad isn't very knowledgeable about pot (or drugs in general), so ironically enough my early experimentation with and continued use of it have been much more informed and much more responsible than his has ever been.
Surprisingly, after years of on/off pot smoking, he only learned that I smoked after he happened to find a bong on the doorstep that I'd had shipped from another Shroomerite. This was about a month or two ago. I didn't even make an effort to hide the fact in the last year or so, regularly coming home blazed out of my mind and cheerily greeting him in the living room. I've known that he smoked pot since I was about five (even though I was completely oblivious to what it was, I just knew it was a different kind of cigarette that smelled really funky).
Anyways, when he found out, he laughed and raised his eyebrows. He's always thought of me as 'the smart one' of the family, so I guess he was pretty surprised. Within ten minutes, he was offering to hook me up with one of his awesome sources! 
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Cameron]
#8371440 - 05/06/08 11:32 PM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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Smoked hard with mama at 17.
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Re: Have you done drugs while you lived with your parents? [Re: Serdal]
#8371477 - 05/06/08 11:51 PM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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I remember at one point when I was living at home, I had been coming home after midnight frequently and my dad was sick of it. He told me this one night that I better be home by 11. It turned into a mini-fight, but I got his point. Home by 11, or some serious shit was going to hit the fan.
Dad didn't know I had my first powerful lsd experience planned for that night 
I dropped around 11pm with a friend and went on a journey with a discman and 2 pink floyd cds.
Imagine 2 guys just bent on acid, first time getting a powerful experience(second time only overall), trying to sneak in at around 3:30am.
I've never had such an intense experience, those 20 minutes of trying to get in the house quietly.
haha I was nuts just thinking about it.
I remember telling my friend about the situation and that we had to get into my room absoulutely and flawlessy quiet. I lived in a trailer and my dad was ALWAYS found on the couch in the living room, which is maybe 4 feet from the door.
I can't even begin to explain the intensity with which we were trying to be quiet. A solid 3 minutes just trying to walk up the old, creaky wooden stairs to the door. Another solid 2-3 minutes of trying to turn and open the creaky, busted ass doorknob.
Living in that house my entire life, I knew every detail, every nuance and every sound it made. I still swear it took me over an hour to get inside my bedroom, but i bet it was more like 15-20 minuts.
I remember us trying to slowly open the door after finally twisting the doorknob enough, knowing the certain spots where it creaked and slowing down, what I still swear, is the slowest and steadiest a human can be. haha 
Sure enough, that fucker was asleep on the couch, even staring at us. I'll never forget that.
We were actually moving like snails, slowly slipping our shoes off, and for some reason, I even had the bright idea to hang my jacket in the closet, which is right in front of the couch. And somehow, I managed to pull it off. haha. And my old man isn't a heavy sleeper either.
I remember us just creeping down the hall, trying not to wake my mom up in the room to the left as we passed. Finally, after an extruciatingly slow opening of my bedroom door, we stepped in and closed my door slowly.
And finally we breathed
We marveled at the incredible talent of us sneaking in with such grace and precision.
That didn't stop us from sneaking to the fridge afterwards.
One word...RETARDS!
If my dad would of woke up, or anyone for that matter...holy fuck, I can't even imagine how bad that would of been. Imagine him waking up, ready to start world war 3 over me coming home at 3:30 in the morning, only to find a friend with me, both just peaking and bent on acid...ughh, would not of been good.
Yet, at that time, I didn't even care. There was no anxiety, fear or any of that, while we snuck inside. We were actually smiling and really enjoying, what almost seemed at the time, powers of agility bestowed to us for that 20 minutes of time.
If I tried that shit now, I'd have a heart attack.
Besides that experience, which I realize now I went into great detail about  , I came home stoned thousands and thousands of times in my last couple years of highschool.
They were oblivious. Well I like to think so. That or they knew there was nothing they could do.
I remember getting caught a couple times near the end of grade 12 though. It's still, to this day by far, the most stinkiest grass I've ever had. I had it in 3 bags, in a container, under 10 lbs of compressed dirty laundry...and it still stunk up the whole bloody household.
Another time, I smoked up on the deck and my little sister came home about 10 minutes after, unexpectedly, and was all about getting me in trouble, so she smelt it, told my mom, who came into my room to find me ripping on the electric guitar just blazed out of my mind.
I'll never forget this conversation between us:
"So your sister told me...I know what your doing!!"
Me, not even ready to defend, "yea, I got high. And it's great. I feel good, I'm coming up with some awesome guitar riffs and I think I'm going to go have a little more. Good thing I'm not out there snorting meth and stabbing people hey? " Then there was a pause and I said, "But I do understand. I'll keep it away from the house. Promise"
She kind of just walked out with a smile.
I don't know if I've contributed anythign to this topic, but felt the need to ramble. hehe Thanks for listening to all this junk.
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