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 fiasco
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 Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: Kombat Frank]
#8181603 - 03/22/08 10:02 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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i voted 5. Because; 1)it is her body so you don't have much say about that(you are only her boyfriend). 2) she is being a bitch about her ex. 
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 SalParadise
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: CureCat]
#8181670 - 03/22/08 10:16 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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You're right, of course - being a conniving ass will solve nothing, and certainly won't make him a better person. But learning to get out of and over a relationship that obviously is not compatible WILL teach him something, and I guess that was the point in my bit of drunken, nostalgic tirade. And... he'll have fun.
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: SalParadise]
#8181825 - 03/22/08 10:52 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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SalParadise said:
Well, considering she's 17, I'm going to assume that you're also 17 or at least still in your teens. That being said, take no offense to this - you'll look back and think the same thing in a couple of years:
Let her do it. But first, realize that this relationship is OVER. Its done, and you, sir, need to check out. Immediately. But let her do it, and tell her how sexy they are, blah blah blah. Have lots of "I'm a teenager, lets have lots of crazy sex 'cause my parents will be home in an hour"-sex, and then DUMP HER. Get rid of her, and be smarter for it. You are not going to marry this girl, I think she's made that pretty clear already. Might as well have some fun while you still (maybe) have a chance...
....oh.... and wrap it up. Don't question, just do it. The last thing you want is kids with this girl.
 I think I like this idea even better than my own, she's treating you like garbage already, why not? Yeah I know two wrongs don't make a right.... but fuck it.
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mayfly
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: Riboflavin]
#8181850 - 03/22/08 10:58 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Eh, don't treat her badly. But I definitely wouldn't get my hopes up for marriage or anything silly like that. If you can put up with the ex drama, fuck her for a while longer, I guess. She obviously doesn't have a lot of respect for you, so personally, I wouldn't stick around and be screwed around by her. She probably doesn't feel like she's getting enough attention (from you, her parents, the world in general) which is why she thinks it's cool to let someone pay to stare at her tits.
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: mayfly]
#8182504 - 03/23/08 03:29 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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oh and dont forget to wear a condom
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bmiles
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? (moved) [Re: DeathCompany]
#8182507 - 03/23/08 03:31 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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throw that stupid bitch to the curb.
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sublimistri
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? (moved) [Re: bmiles]
#8182588 - 03/23/08 04:52 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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bmiles said:
throw that stupid bitch to the curb.
If she went through with it when she got back itd be over. She wouldnt even have to pack, itd already be done for her.
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Edited by sublimistri (03/23/08 05:16 AM)
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? (moved) [Re: sublimistri]
#8182597 - 03/23/08 05:17 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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you like that music?
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sublimistri
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? (moved) [Re: bmiles]
#8182601 - 03/23/08 05:20 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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bmiles said:
you like that music?
I like rap, rock, some country, old rock like pink floyd, and some techno.
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DRTMaverick
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? (moved) [Re: CureCat]
#8182685 - 03/23/08 07:41 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Well I know I'd never be the bitch of a relationship. It's either mutual on those aspects or else it's not gonna work. If she's gonna be like that then go out and get that ink done that she never wanted you to get. She has a problem "Tough shit". Fuck no though someone in my relationship's gonna step on my toes and tell me Tough shit. I wouldn't do that so them.
Basically curecat, either side of the relationship's not gonna handle the other person blatently disregarding the other, guy's side or not. You'd feel the same way if your significant other told you "tough shit you've got no say in this."
*edit*
Also, because a man doesn't want to be a bitch in the relationship doesn't mean anything sexist, it just means that he's not going to be directed around like a little fucking puppy like half the guys out there let girls do to them. It doesn't mean anything sexist, it doesn't mean you treat a girl like shit, it just means you've got your foot set firm as well. Feminist movements are far more sexist than that point of view.
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 Baby_Hitler
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: HighHat]
#8182784 - 03/23/08 09:01 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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So did you dump the bitch yet?
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: CureCat]
#8183544 - 03/23/08 02:32 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Baby_Hitler said:
So did you dump the bitch yet?
Damn. The pub is the place for this. I leave my computer at home for a day to get drunk in the woods with some friends and look what I miss!
Anyway. Ill clear some stuff up before I go on. Fuck high school (college sophomore). Yes. I'm a teen, but not in 2 months(thank god and don't age ban me). She doesn't live with me. She will be 18 this summer.
I know she can do whatever she wants with her body. I never told her that she couldn't do it. The closest that I have come to denying her anything like that was when I asked her to wait a year or two to get tattoos. I mean. 16-18 are the most mistake-ridden years of most people's lives and I just want to make sure that she actually wants them and isn't doing it because her friends make them look so cool. Even then, I told her that I didn't have problems with her getting tattoos behind her ears because they're out of sight so if her mind ever changed, she could forget they were there. As far as the control issue, I have never asked her for anything but honesty and understanding, so I don't know how that could be a factor. Messing around with her ex? I hate to admit that as well as I know her, its like the past 5 weeks she has been confusing me, so I guess it's a possibility, but I won't believe it unless I see it. This could be looked at as denial, but I trust her for reasons that would take too long to type and nobody would want to take time to read.
I know this is a respect issue. She either doesn't realize this, or like some of you said, she's trying to push buttons. Someone also said this is like whoring herself out for body mod. Thats exactly what I feel it is. The main issue, and my biggest concern is her ex. It's like after everything I did to get his ass out of my life and out of her hair, the fact that she would even consider this is insulting. The fact that she told me "tough shit" is just plain fucked up.
If she goes through with this she will probably be gone. I just don't want it to seem like after 8 months of everything going better than I could have ever hoped for, suddenly when things go south I'm the one to cut and run.
Before you go off and tell me that I'm in college and I'm stupid for not going out and finding a new girl or two, or three, or four. All at once. Girls (and don't take offense) are expensive, time consuming, and put a mental strain on me so I don't go for a girl unless it's something that I really want.
kids = FUCK NO
I'm not retarded... well when it comes to that. I guess this thread could convince some people otherwise when it comes to other subjects though.
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: HighHat]
#8183554 - 03/23/08 02:37 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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So you gonna dumb the bitch or what?
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sublimistri
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: HighHat]
#8183561 - 03/23/08 02:41 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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HighHat said:
Anyway. Ill clear some stuff up before I go on. Fuck high school (college sophomore). Yes. I'm a teen, but not in 2 months(thank god and don't age ban me). She doesn't live with me. She will be 18 this summer.
--If your not a teen in two months, your 19, you wont get banned for being 19. Anything under 18 is ban for the forums safety.
The fact that she told me "tough shit" is just plain fucked up.
--That exceeds fucked up in a relationship IMO
Before you go off and tell me that I'm in college and I'm stupid for not going out and finding a new girl or two, or three, or four. All at once. Girls (and don't take offense) are expensive, time consuming, and put a mental strain on me so I don't go for a girl unless it's something that I really want.
--If you had them to where you know you could have this one, if this one leaves, you wouldnt have a mental strain because you probably wouldnt give a fuck, and you probably woulda told this bitch tough luck your gone.
my computers fuckin up atm, and i cant edit this post to my full capability so i used -- before my words.
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meatcakeman
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: HighHat]
#8183564 - 03/23/08 02:42 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Rule#1: Keep ya bitch in check.
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: SalParadise]
#8183574 - 03/23/08 02:46 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Actually good point I should have done that more with the girls I "loved" and wanted to "marry" when I was 17-20, every single last one of them. Because now when I look back on it I wasted a lot of time not fuckin' and instead being worried about my relationship(s). Take this advice though seriously... it will be the best you get... because in 10 years when your my age youll look at your kids and some other chick your married to and she will be the one you have "3 minute time to go to bed to get up for work sex" with....and youll be like yeah I got mine while you think back about having that hot hour long my mommy will be home sex in her kitchen that you could be having NOW...(sorry having a flashback) ...and youll smile because she obviously showed you how much this time in her life means with you if she does what shes considering and youll be happy you took what you could get now... so get what is there now and get it good... and let your balls hang low and be a man.... Cowboy up....dont let some chick steal your mojo, you cant turn a ho into a housewife so live while your young becasue trust me you gotta grow up oneday and all that good stuff turns into a chore......
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: meatcakeman]
#8183585 - 03/23/08 02:51 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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--If your not a teen in two months, your 19, you wont get banned for being 19. Anything under 18 is ban for the forums safety.
Someone was saying that I was 17 so I wanted to clear that up.
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If you had them to where you know you could have this one, if this one leaves, you wouldnt have a mental strain because you probably wouldnt give a fuck, and you probably woulda told this bitch tough luck your gone.
If you can go out with one person for more than 6 months, then just say "fuck it" and walk away without any ill thoughts, I would wonder if you ever cared for them.
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bmiles
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: misterdogman]
#8183586 - 03/23/08 02:51 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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Sounds like you aren't too found of married life.
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: Kombat Frank]
#8183588 - 03/23/08 02:52 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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She is fucking him behind your back. She's a bitch who needs to be slapped. Twice
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Re: How fucked up do you think this is? [Re: HighHat]
#8183878 - 03/23/08 04:59 PM (7 months, 25 days ago) |
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break up with her... now... if your girlfriend does not respect you enough to stay away from an ex that obviously tried sabotage your relationship she is not worth it... hell she didn't even provide a reason... how old is she, if i might ask?
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