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Icelander
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Maybe when we try to change
#8074433 - 02/26/08 08:22 PM (6 months, 6 days ago) |
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All the change is toward accepting how we really are in the first place. Just human, programed, silly, faulty, and all the rest.
It's when you are in the middle that you think that you will change into something better or more complete then you are now.
-------------------- What the thinker thinks, the prover proves. R.A.W.
I don't believe anything, but I have many suspicions. R.A.W.
Edited by Icelander (02/26/08 08:24 PM)
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OrgoneConclusion
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8074442 - 02/26/08 08:25 PM (6 months, 6 days ago) |
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I accept the fact that I will not change.
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I am not an actor, I merely play one on TV.
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Icelander
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There is, maybe, our greatest freedom in that acceptance.
-------------------- What the thinker thinks, the prover proves. R.A.W.
I don't believe anything, but I have many suspicions. R.A.W.
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8074495 - 02/26/08 08:35 PM (6 months, 6 days ago) |
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Acceptance is more effective practised than imagined, and rarely it is brought into practise. The toughest part is recognizing that which prevents us from moving further into acceptance. There are so many distractions around us we mistake for other things... what a mirage.
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"This tiger embodies the passion of the warrior, it knows each moment could be its last."
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8074498 - 02/26/08 08:35 PM (6 months, 6 days ago) |
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In my stronger moments, I almost think it doesn't matter what happens to me, as long as love is more important to me than anything else.
-------------------- "You can't make something original? Don't worry about it. Make a cup of clay so your brother can drink." ~Rumi
"My child, because you think you are the body, for a long time you have been bound. Know you are pure awareness. With this knowledge as your sword, cut through your chains and be happy!" ~Ashtavakra Gita
"May all beings realize the ecstatic transparency of their own minds." ~Lao Tzu
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Lion]
#8074536 - 02/26/08 08:43 PM (6 months, 6 days ago) |
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This is a good thread Icelander, I approve
-------------------- My my my, and so many I's  
My self represents I
I wouldn't have this any other way
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OrgoneConclusion
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Same old; same old.
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demius
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8076287 - 02/27/08 08:20 AM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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are you saying that change is not change like we think it is? or that despite all efforts, we don't ever actually change?
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Icelander
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: demius]
#8076436 - 02/27/08 09:21 AM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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yes
-------------------- What the thinker thinks, the prover proves. R.A.W.
I don't believe anything, but I have many suspicions. R.A.W.
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8076645 - 02/27/08 10:32 AM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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Are our habits us? Thoughts? The source doesn't change, but the manifestations do.
-------------------- FreeRice.com
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8076801 - 02/27/08 11:12 AM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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Change happens when one acknowledges his shadows to be parts of himself. Denying aspects of the self creates these shadows. As long as we repress these, there is no change and we stay the same.
-------------------- Whoever owns your time owns your mind. Change your time and you change your mind. Change your mind and you change your world.
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8076809 - 02/27/08 11:15 AM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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 Grrr
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: Icelander]
#8077762 - 02/27/08 03:47 PM (6 months, 5 days ago) |
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I think this would depend on the change you are talking about.
I have not always been so mature, unselfish and thoughtful of others' feelings as I am now. Not that I have reached the limit on these traits, but if I were to be compared to myself 15 years ago the change would be noticeable.
-------------------- Maybe - and that's final.
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Re: Maybe when we try to change [Re: mushbaby]
#8080630 - 02/28/08 08:27 AM (6 months, 4 days ago) |
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Love your life now and appreciate what you have. That's not to imply that you might not want to do better, just be happy with where you are. Life simply became much easier for me when I stopped caring.
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