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 RandalFlagg
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 Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to 
#7092461 - 06/25/07 08:16 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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So, there is this girl that I had a massive crush on (still do actually). She's probably the hottest girl I've seen in the past two years. I wrote a thread about her approximately a month ago called "Girls (taking the plunge)". Basically, I sent her a Myspace message because I was too much of a pussy to say something to her in person. I gave her my number and said that she could call me if she wanted to. She never called back (which did wonders for my self-esteem  ).
I will be moving very shortly and it turns out that she lives about 200 feet away from my new place. There is a very good chance that I will see her often out on the street. What should I do? Should I ignore her? Should I be friendly? Should I be humorously self-deprecating ("Hey...I'm that creepy dude that sent you that Myspace message!").
I just want to make things as non-awkward as is possible.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092470 - 06/25/07 08:18 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't ignore her, be nice, be friendly, and be confident.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092473 - 06/25/07 08:19 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Write up some lame "Friend Request" complete with "circle yes/no" and put it in her mailbox.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092474 - 06/25/07 08:19 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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how well do you know her?
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: GreenScreen]
#7092476 - 06/25/07 08:20 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Bast of luck man.
I not so good with the ladies
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
#7092481 - 06/25/07 08:21 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just start up a conversation with her. Then let her know you're interested. Just don't let her think that you're stalking her. 
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: DNKYD]
#7092489 - 06/25/07 08:23 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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DNKYD said:
Write up some lame "Friend Request" complete with "circle yes/no" and put it in her mailbox.
That actually sounds like something that I would do. Ugh..
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
#7092533 - 06/25/07 08:33 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
how well do you know her?
Not too well. This girl fooled THE HELL out of me.
First time I met her: She gazed into my eyes for an uncomfortable amount of time. It was very very flirtatious and seductive the way she did it.
Second time I was around her: I smiled at her and she came up and tried to talk to me. I fell flat on my face. She did wave bye to me though.
Third time I was around her: She completely ignored me.
Fourth time I was around her: I smiled at her. A while later she walked by me and put her hands on my shoulders as she walked by. She did it very seductively. Later I caught her looking at me.
Fifth and sixth times I saw her: I was riding my bike and I waved at her. She smiled and waved back.
Seventh time I saw her: She totally ignored me.
All of these incidents occurred over about a year and a half. After #7 is when I sent her the ill-fated Myspace message.
Bow down because you have a player and a mack posting before you! 
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092546 - 06/25/07 08:36 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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just go about your business dont go out of your way to be nice or mean to her.
also, completely destroy all the feelings that you have for her, girls can sense when a guy has a crush on them and its usually a bad thing since you can come off looking desperate. plus if shes as hot as you say she is then probably hundreds of guys are after her and its the ones that seem uninterested in her that are going to attract her attention. but thats just my opinion.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092556 - 06/25/07 08:39 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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hahaha, i love how you have them all cataloged in your memory.
well there's several possibilities here. for one, she may have just kinda forgotten about the message you sent her. perhaps it slipped her mind.
or, another possibility is that she is either uncomfortable, or unwilling to make the call. Perhaps she thinks that's something you have to grow the balls to do.
or maybe she's just not interested.
regardless, i don't think you should completely ignore her. be nice, talk to her, but don't seem overly anxious. If you do actually live right near her and you end up seeing her on the street often, sometime just be like "hey, i'm headin' to get a coffee, care to join me?" If she says no, oh well, if she says yes, well fuckin' alright.
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 Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: phantomstranger]
#7092557 - 06/25/07 08:39 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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phantomstranger said:
just go about your business dont go out of your way to be nice or mean to her.
also, completely destroy all the feelings that you have for her, girls can sense when a guy has a crush on them and its usually a bad thing since you can come off looking desperate. plus if shes as hot as you say she is then probably hundreds of guys are after her and its the ones that seem uninterested in her that are going to attract her attention. but thats just my opinion.
that's pretty much true. women are weird like that.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: phantomstranger]
#7092577 - 06/25/07 08:42 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can't get over Phone skyness. 
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#7092586 - 06/25/07 08:44 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Acidic_Sloth said:
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phantomstranger said:
just go about your business dont go out of your way to be nice or mean to her.
also, completely destroy all the feelings that you have for her, girls can sense when a guy has a crush on them and its usually a bad thing since you can come off looking desperate. plus if shes as hot as you say she is then probably hundreds of guys are after her and its the ones that seem uninterested in her that are going to attract her attention. but thats just my opinion.
that's pretty much true. women are weird like that.
oh, but if phantomstranger is wrong, i give you permission to break all his fingers. i won't hold it against you. 
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: phantomstranger]
#7092587 - 06/25/07 08:44 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Man, I'm so fucking confused on this one. I'm not sure if she is just flirty with all guys or if she was sending me signals.
She is one of those "feisty" girls who is hard to handle. I probably looked like a total pussy with the Myspace message which ruined any chance I had with her.
The next time I see her I won't make an effort to approach her but I'll probably smile at her. If I find her in my orbit I might do a goofy thing like pretend to hide to make fun of how shy I am. Maybe that will break the ice. Even if she doesn't want a romantic/sexual thing with me I'd still be her friend as she seems pretty cool.
But, dear God would I love to fuck her brains out. Have you ever encountered a girl who made your head swim and your dick get hard in under a second? She's one of those girls. 
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092594 - 06/25/07 08:46 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ignore her until she says something to you...
You already stuck your neck out, lame or not, in electronic form (very do-able, these days). If she hasn't said something back (at least she could reply in fashion?) to you since, you should take the clue
If she wants you, she'll make it known.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092595 - 06/25/07 08:46 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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This is all too much work and worrying. I'll just keep having sex with ugly drunk girls.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092598 - 06/25/07 08:48 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
This is all too much work and worrying. I'll just keep having sex with ugly drunk girls.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7092605 - 06/25/07 08:49 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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they're at least attractive when you're drunk, right? because that's all that matters.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: trendal]
#7092613 - 06/25/07 08:51 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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trendal said:
Ignore her until she says something to you...
You already stuck your neck out, lame or not, in electronic form (very do-able, these days). If she hasn't said something back (at least she could reply in fashion?) to you since, you should take the clue
If she wants you, she'll make it known.
See...here's the thing. It's either:
1. You're right. She didn't get back to me and she's not interested. ....or....
2. She was interested and because of my pussiness is no longer interested. ...or...
3. She is interested but she likes playing hard to get and likes spontaniety, etc... She is waiting for the right time.
My penis and I hope it's number 3.
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Re: Encountering a girl that you made a fool out of yourself to [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
#7092622 - 06/25/07 08:53 PM (4 years, 10 months ago) |
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tiny_rabid_birds said:
they're at least attractive when you're drunk, right? because that's all that matters.
They're so ugly and that even when I am smashed and I have "Beer Goggles" they are still hideous.
Oh God...
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