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 RandalFlagg
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#6766689 - 04/09/07 04:44 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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I've had a crush on this girl who lives near me for a while now (we have a mutual friend). We barely know each other but we have smiled and waved at each other and shit like that. We've never really conversed a whole lot though.
This girl is so pretty and my mind goes absolutely blank when she is around. I have no clue what to say to her or how to get to know her better. If I wasn't attracted to her then I could talk to her no problem....but I am a completely shy dork around girls that I am attracted to.
I think that sometimes she might like me (I caught her looking at me several times, I think that she gave me the "eye" once, she has tried to come up and talk to me, she has put her hand on my shoulder, etc..) but I'm not absolutely sure.
Today I saw her standing on the street and I pulled over and I was about to walk right over to her and blurt out, "You are gorgeous". But, I lost my nerve and went into a store instead. I think she saw me walk by. I pretended not to see her. 
So, I said "Fuck it" and I just sent her a Myspace e-mail. Here it is:
Hey,
I'm sorry that this is a ghetto Myspace account (I deleted my page some time ago). This is ##### and I have met you several times (I'm *****'s friend). I've waved at you around town every once in a while and I saw you bartending on the weekend. I'm short, skinny, with dark hair, constantly wearing my Misfits T-shirt, and I'm often getting loaded when you are around if that rings a bell.
I just wanted to tell you that you are utterly gorgeous. I wish I could have told you this in person but my head kind of goes blank when you are near and I'm pretty shy on top of that.
I would like to hang out with you sometime. My number is &&& #### and you can call me anytime. If you don't want to call then it's no big deal and you can just take my words as a compliment. 
What do you guys think? I need some positive vibes here people. I'm tired of having sex with girls that I'm not really into because I'm scared of the ones that I am into.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766694 - 04/09/07 04:46 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think you should've built up the courage to tell her in person
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6766697 - 04/09/07 04:47 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dude, I will literally crawl into a hole and die if she rejects me.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6766698 - 04/09/07 04:47 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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you shouldve done it in person, that way if she rejects you its just a normal thing, now you are that wierd guy that sent a myspace note to meat a girl, if she says no all your friends will hear about it and they are going to see that myspace.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766701 - 04/09/07 04:47 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well, this will probably work if she digs you. Otherwise it's just gonna make things awkward. Here's hoping! 
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: roby000]
#6766703 - 04/09/07 04:48 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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You're probably right.
Fuck.
I'll just move to another city if she disses me.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766707 - 04/09/07 04:49 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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but the myspace page will still be there...
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: roby000]
#6766711 - 04/09/07 04:50 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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I sent her a private mail. And, I can delete this page (it was a quicky page I set up just now).
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: roby000]
#6766713 - 04/09/07 04:50 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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LOL @ the handi-crankey 
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: roby000]
#6766717 - 04/09/07 04:51 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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If I were you I'd send her another myspace message immediately. This is what it should say:
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I'm sorry for sending you a creepy message on myspace about how hot you are. Can we get together so I can tell you in person like I should have done?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766721 - 04/09/07 04:52 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
Dude, I will literally crawl into a hole and die if she rejects me.
rejection is a part of life man.
i say this ALL the time. If there was no pain the whould be no good.
if everything was peachy all the time, what would the fucking point be? When you find the one for you all the time you spent looking all the pain you went through will be worth it.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6766722 - 04/09/07 04:52 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766723 - 04/09/07 04:52 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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oh i thought you sent her a link to a profile and thats the profile or something, thats not as bad.... but still pretty bad, besides how do you know if she even checks myspace? what if she thinks its spam or leaves a comment that says no?
women like confidence and not being able to start a relationship face to face isnt a good first impression.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766725 - 04/09/07 04:53 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm being totally serious--it's the only way to redeem yourself
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6766731 - 04/09/07 04:54 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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It's official: I probably came across as a total pussy or a creepy dude.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6766734 - 04/09/07 04:55 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't think that was a creepy message. He was honest, said he was shy around her, and worst case scenario she doesn't reply.  He can even see if she has read it or not this way. It's true that in a perfect world everyone would say these things in person, but at least he told her in some manner. Now the ball is in her court.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766733 - 04/09/07 04:55 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Do what I said! I'm telling you--it'll heal the situation--it'll be even better because it'll make her laugh!
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766736 - 04/09/07 04:56 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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You haven't heard back from her yet. Don't fret.
If you don't hear back, just wait until the next time you see her and explain that after you sent the message, you realized how much you would have preferred to say that in person. Then buy her a drink, fagmo.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: lukeboots]
#6766745 - 04/09/07 04:58 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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jonnywax said:
LOL @ the handi-crankey
its a real sticker i made a bunch of em.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766750 - 04/09/07 04:59 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yous a bitch. 
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766752 - 04/09/07 05:00 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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The message no matter what can come off creepy, its alla bout how she takes it.
I sent this to my girlfriend like right after we started talkin. I really didnt mean for it to come off creepy but looking back it kinda did.
"It was nice talking to you Laska, I was thinking about that shooting star we saw. That was pretty cool and the fact that we were just talking about astrology makes it even cooler lol.
I wish we had a place that we could go to talk that wasnt in your car. Theres just too many people here, Rio on my couch, Troy and Ryan in the Living room, it sucks, but this is really the only place they have to go. I dont mind and Its better than them being homeless.
I was thinking maybe we can get a room somewhere later this week when i get paid. Please dont think im just out to sleep with you, i just want to get to know you better and it would be easier to talk if there wernt like 4 people around plus my place is kinda a mess(5 guys in a SMALL place LOL).
Id like it if we could, though i understand if you are uncomfortable with it.
See ya tomarrow at work.(or rather today LOL)
peace,
Sui"
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: sui]
#6766773 - 04/09/07 05:07 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
suimush said:
Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
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Quote:
it stars saddam said:
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suimush said:
Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
ya think
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Quote:
it stars saddam said:
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suimush said:
Please dont think im just out to sleep with you
You shouldn't have said that.
Better than removing the "please dont think" part of it.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6766931 - 04/09/07 05:49 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Aw Randall... Just talk to the girl.
Myspace? Come on. Grow some balls!
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6767073 - 04/09/07 06:26 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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you seem like a sweet guy. go for it.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6859741 - 05/01/07 06:30 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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so what happened with this, randal?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: dr_gonz]
#6860119 - 05/01/07 07:54 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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If i were interested i would think it's cute if i wasn't... i'd prolly still think it's cute.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: Aninator]
#6860157 - 05/01/07 08:01 PM (4 years, 9 months ago) |
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Women sometimes like the akwardness. I happen to think they like the mysterious over the awkwardness, but that's just me. I think women may find this cute, but intrigued by a guy who lays it out on the table in a myspace message? Unlikely. The element of mystery is gone, and it has become impersonal in the process.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: dr_gonz]
#6866510 - 05/03/07 08:19 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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She never called. I have since shifted my focus back to having sex with drunk ugly girls.
I'm NEVER going after a girl again. I'll let them come to me. Because if they want you...they find a way to put themselves in front of you. It just sucks. The girls I want either don't want me or they do and I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866522 - 05/03/07 08:22 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
How?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866534 - 05/03/07 08:25 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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its ok man.....
tell me all about it
/pats couch
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866554 - 05/03/07 08:31 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why didn't you just talk to her whilst shit-faced?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866567 - 05/03/07 08:35 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
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She never called. I have since shifted my focus back to having sex with drunk ugly girls.
I'm NEVER going after a girl again. I'll let them come to me. Because if they want you...they find a way to put themselves in front of you. It just sucks. The girls I want either don't want me or they do and I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
You need to not worry about it and learn to take rejection better. A woman will reject you for many reasons and they don't always include their not interested in you, ie ex-boyfriend/relationship, no time to pursue dating bc work/school, she is talking to another guy and doesn't want to ruin it by pursuing other guys etc.
Timing is the key to life, and if you get so upset that the timing was off that you will not try for a good looking, cool girl again, then I don't know who you think you're punishing. You're only hurting yourself. Don't let another person EVER dictate your happiness. Get in the gym, grow some confidence, because after reading your posts, I think the only thing you're missing right now is confidence.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866754 - 05/03/07 09:12 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
I make a complete idiot out of myself and ruin my chance.
How?
I get nervous and freak out around girls that I like/am attracted to. I either say nothing and can't "get the ball rolling" or I say the dumbest shit imaginable. However, if I'm not attracted to the girl then I can totally be cool and talkative. That's why I always end up with girls that I'm not really interested in...because I can talk to them.
The last girl I had sex with was a bar-slut who had a face that looked like it was run over by a truck. I guess that's just my lot in life.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866776 - 05/03/07 09:15 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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do you pick up said sluts where this girl you like bartends? or has friends that work there?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866783 - 05/03/07 09:17 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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We've all been there man. It comes in stages. Head up, the more you practice with the girls you are comfortable with, you will carry that over to the others because you will learn to disassociate the two over time. It starts with your self worth.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: goobler]
#6866786 - 05/03/07 09:17 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Actually no. So, she has no clue that I am a promiscuous creep who prays on ugly women.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866792 - 05/03/07 09:18 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
I get nervous and freak out around girls that I like/am attracted to. I either say nothing and can't "get the ball rolling" or I say the dumbest shit imaginable. However, if I'm not attracted to the girl then I can totally be cool and talkative. That's why I always end up with girls that I'm not really interested in...because I can talk to them.
The last girl I had sex with was a bar-slut who had a face that looked like it was run over by a truck. I guess that's just my lot in life.
You shouldn't go below your standards.
If you don't have any good girls to fuck don't fuck any girls at all.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866802 - 05/03/07 09:22 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Shit my boy has a complete 10 for a gf, then fucks her fat ass 240lb best freind Fuck em all short fat retarted and tall
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866833 - 05/03/07 09:27 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Right. So instead of talking with her, you leave her a creepy my space/facebook/bullshit message?
I could rant on how pathetic woman find this, but I think it speaks for itself. Listen mate. Just because some people spend half there god damn social lives on the computer these days, does not mean you should be suckered into thinking its a good way to get with women. Little kids use msn and myspace and face book to ask each other out and leave fruity love notes, not adults, adults talk to each other face to face and try even meeting each other once or twice in person before suddenly throwing these fictional affections at one another.
So for your sake mate. Get over the Social Anxiety Disorder or what ever it is that prevents you from goin over to this girl n talkin to her n person. And just fucking do it.
When you manage to do this. I wish you the best of luck, because im quite sure itl score you a lot more than some shit-ass note on myspace. Best of luck.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: Irdamage]
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6866851 - 05/03/07 09:29 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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It starts with your self worth.
Man, I have a lot of issues when it comes to women. I watched women manipulate my dad and take all of his money. I watched my male friends get cheated on. I watched women in my life lie to me and do whatever they could to pursue what they wanted (and they didn't care if they hurt other people). I have been hurt by women and I've seen males that I care about get hurt by women. I just DO NOT trust most females.
So, it's like a double whammy. I don't think I'm good enough for the girls that I like and I don't want to get close to them because I don't want to get hurt.
I intentionally go after girls that are ugly and with lackluster personalities because they are easy and I enjoy treating them like crap. And you know what's scary....they like being treated like crap. Because when you treat them well they get bored of you.
I think that I'm subconsciously getting women back for all of the shit I've seen them pull. I guess that I'm a misogynist because of this.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: Irdamage]
#6866862 - 05/03/07 09:31 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're absolutely right.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866872 - 05/03/07 09:33 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Send her another message just to tell her how much of a loser you were for sending the first message--let her know that you realize you messed up. Maybe--just maybe--she'll think you're actually kinda cool and respond.
And keep the message brief and to the point.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866881 - 05/03/07 09:35 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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no no no
he need to just drop it, forget about her, maybe down the road she'll pursue if shes interested...
more messages will add to the creepy effect
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: goobler]
#6866895 - 05/03/07 09:37 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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more messages will add to the creepy effect
You're right. What he should do is do what I said if he ever sees her in person (speak to her)
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: JunkFood]
#6866914 - 05/03/07 09:40 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was just re-reading this thread and I realize how utterly pathetic this all is.
I'm going to fuck a hideous girl tonight to make myself forget. 
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866918 - 05/03/07 09:41 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, you figured it out. Reminds me so much of myself in College and the 2 years after. It wears on you, man. It's better to come to terms with why you're doing it rather than continue doing it and hurting your self esteem even more. There will come a time when you realize there are good women out there. The thing is an "ugly" girl can reject you just the same as a "good looking" one. However, the faux pleasure you get when you score with someone you think is on your level isn't helping much.
Don't listen to other people's problems with women including your father's. You are not your father, you are not your friends, so none of that should pertain to you.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866945 - 05/03/07 09:45 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why don't you try going for a girl of a different ethnicity--like Indian or Middle Eastern 
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6866946 - 05/03/07 09:45 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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judt because she is unattractive to you(at first) on the outside doesnt mean she isnt beautiful on the inside
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6866952 - 05/03/07 09:46 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was just re-reading this thread and I realize how utterly pathetic this all is.
I'm going to fuck a hideous girl tonight to make myself forget.
I wondered why the paper bag stock rose 50 points today.
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It's common knowledge that Jewunit is an umemployed drain on society, supposedly attending some university that nobodies ever heard of.
He may in fact, be a literal bum, only able to make himself known to us here by occasionally stopping into dark internet cafes to make a few quick, frantic posts before the owners force him to leave because of the stench of rotting vegetables and desperation wafting forth from his pores.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: jewunit]
#6866962 - 05/03/07 09:47 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: jewunit]
#6866965 - 05/03/07 09:47 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
I was just re-reading this thread and I realize how utterly pathetic this all is.
I'm going to fuck a hideous girl tonight to make myself forget.
I wondered why the paper bag stock rose 50 points today.
are they at least butterfaces?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: TravILLer]
#6866976 - 05/03/07 09:50 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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whats with all the puppets?
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: DrCamacho89]
#6866989 - 05/03/07 09:51 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Don't listen to other people's problems with women including your father's. You are not your father, you are not your friends, so none of that should pertain to you.
You have a point. It's hard to forget some of these things that I have seen though. From females I have seen horrifying instances of fickleness, selfishness, and manipulative behavior. I could tell you some stories that would make you recoil.
The only women that I really trust are my mom and my Grandma (who just died). Other than them there are maybe five or six that I know in real life who aren't complete wastes of skin. Some of the Shroomery girls are cool too.
You tell me not to think of my dad but I do. He died penniless because the women in his life took everything he had. I sat in the lawyer's office as his then girlfriend (who didn't work or do anything) bitched and moaned about how she wasn't going to get anything because his life insurance money was given to me and some of his wives. Every woman that he got involved in sat on her ass, didn't do anything, and mooched as much as was possible. Imagine seeing shit like that as you grow up? It makes me want to vomit even thinking about it.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: TravILLer]
#6866997 - 05/03/07 09:53 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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are they at least butterfaces?
Some are. Some are more than 100 pounds overweight though.
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6867007 - 05/03/07 09:54 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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ok ok I'll be your girlfriend, but just this once
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Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6867043 - 05/03/07 10:02 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You have a point. It's hard to forget some of these things that I have seen though. From females I have seen horrifying instances of fickleness, selfishness, and manipulative behavior. I could tell you some stories that would make you recoil.
No, you couldn't. I've seen worse. Guaranteed. There are a lot of guys out there that do some shitty things too...including you and I. That doesn't mean we're bad. We know who we are and that we can treat those who deserve to be treated nicely with respect, and all others can fuck off.
Women can be manipulative, so you're manipulating them back. And that's okay! Don't get down on yourself because you're smarter than a large segment of the female population. It really is all a game, and the smartest and most adaptive get the riches. Are you scared of the way the world is so you choose to ignore it, or are you going to accept the world for what it is and find your place in it? Take lessons from the kind of women your father associated himself with and stay away from them. Simple as that. You can choose to not associate yourself with whomever you choose. But don't lump all women into that category. You're only setting yourself up for a lifetime of dissapointment.
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 Re: Girls (taking the plunge) [Re: RandalFlagg]
#6867211 - 05/03/07 10:33 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Man, I have a lot of issues when it comes to women. I watched women manipulate my dad and take all of his money. I watched my male friends get cheated on. I watched women in my life lie to me and do whatever they could to pursue what they wanted (and they didn't care if they hurt other people). I have been hurt by women and I've seen males that I care about get hurt by women. I just DO NOT trust most females.
So, it's like a double whammy. I don't think I'm good enough for the girls that I like and I don't want to get close to them because I don't want to get hurt.
I intentionally go after girls that are ugly and with lackluster personalities because they are easy and I enjoy treating them like crap. And you know what's scary....they like being treated like crap. Because when you treat them well they get bored of you.
I think that I'm subconsciously getting women back for all of the shit I've seen them pull. I guess that I'm a misogynist because of this.
OK man, that's some fucked up shazbot right thur. 
Until you stop blaming every woman you meet for perceived
past transgressions, you're probably not going to find yourself in a good relationship.
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From females I have seen horrifying instances of fickleness, selfishness, and manipulative behavior. I could tell you some stories that would make you recoil.
Yea, and I could tell you plenty of stories about fickle, selfish, and manipulative behavior by guys too! Now I'm not sayin' guys and gals are exactly the same, it does seem that in general we do behave a bit differently and that makes sense, given the underlying levels of various hormones between the sexes. What I'm getting at here is that you need to chill out, learn to give everyone a clean slate, tabula rasa and all that good shit. Also, if you're an ugly motherfucker, you may as well stop dreaming about them supermodels. Find someone on your level, but don't go lowering yourself and your standards just so you can be an ass.
If you're dedicated and open, patient and discerning, you can find an honest partner who is fun to be around, and with whom you may share a myriad positive moments. But only if you keep looking for it! Let go of your preconceived notions, be tolerant with self-respect and respect for others. Reciprocity. And good luck...
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