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 Sevyn
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 Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. 
#6091599 - 09/22/06 08:03 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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I realize this probably isn't the kind of forum I should post a question like this on, but hell, I'm running out of places to ask and the folk here seem to be pretty informed on things (or so far as I could tell from the quick look I had...)
I am actually a girl, thank you very much, and I'm looking to get a bit of information on, of all things, the fetish most commonly called cuntbusting. If you don't know what it is, pump it into urbandictionary.com or something - it shouldn't be terribly hard to find a definition.
Don't worry, I know /what/ it is and whatnot, seeing as my boyfriend is into it, and know a little about the unfriendliness of the act myself. I suppose, in mentioning it here, I'm more looking to get some outside feedback on the matter than anything else... so... anyone here into it all? Feel like trying to explain to me why it's so attractive? Again, sorry to bug you all with this, but, hey, miscellaneous chat forums are here for a reason... I've tried looking in a lot of places and haven't really managed to find an answer which tells me *WHY* people are into it.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091606 - 09/22/06 08:06 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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A parallel to ballbusting, cuntbusting is a masochistic paraphiliac activity in which a female is struck in the groin. This may involve kicking, punching, clawing and squeezing, using the knees, or any other object to inflict pain upon the sensitive Bartholin's Glands within the female's vulva or upon the clitoris itself. This may be performed on a woman by a male or female, though most often it is done by a woman.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
#6091611 - 09/22/06 08:07 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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intresting...
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091614 - 09/22/06 08:08 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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power I would suppose
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Rebirtha
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
#6091617 - 09/22/06 08:10 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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That sounds dangerous. So your boyfriend wants to punch you in the cunt? I would just leave this alone. If you can't think of any good reason to do it, then don't.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
#6091618 - 09/22/06 08:10 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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OneMoreRobot3021 said:
A parallel to ballbusting, cuntbusting is a masochistic paraphiliac activity in which a female is struck in the groin. This may involve kicking, punching, clawing and squeezing, using the knees, or any other object to inflict pain upon the sensitive Bartholin's Glands within the female's vulva or upon the clitoris itself. This may be performed on a woman by a male or female, though most often it is done by a woman.
I'm not sure how that's considered a fetish. It seems kinda painful and just plain mean...
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unbeliever
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091619 - 09/22/06 08:10 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yet another subset of the bdsm thing I guess. If you don't like it then it's absolutely not okay for your bf to do it. There is nothing wrong with you if you don't want to do it and for the most part there is nothing really wrong with him for wanting to do it. Different strokes for different folks and all that. The key is choice.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: unbeliever]
#6091636 - 09/22/06 08:14 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Never herd of that before, sounds odd.
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Sevyn
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: hcrider]
#6091661 - 09/22/06 08:21 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah. Quite odd. Then again, at least he's not into suspension hanging or CBT or something... things could definitely be worse than they are.
I was more just wondering if anyone could really raise any theories on /why/ something like this might be considered so attractive. Fetishes confuse me (most of the time) and I've tried basically every angle of analyzing it, but I came up blank so I thought I'd ask some other males if anything about it seemed even slightly... well... arousing.
Guess not...
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091672 - 09/22/06 08:25 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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ow, your boyfriend is a crazy asshole. ask him if he was beaten as a child?
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091673 - 09/22/06 08:26 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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There is nothing rational about it. Its just him punching you in the cunt. I don't see anything good. Maybe he's about to punch you in the cunt because he secretely hates you? Just a thought... I personally don't find anything attractive about it.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091675 - 09/22/06 08:27 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Sevyn said:
I was more just wondering if anyone could really raise any theories on /why/ something like this might be considered so attractive.
He hurts on the inside, so he wants to hurt you on the outside.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091677 - 09/22/06 08:27 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's a domination power trip thing, and possibly fuelled by curiosity about the female anatomy.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091690 - 09/22/06 08:30 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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if your boyfriend refers to what he does to your privates as cuntbusting, i would look for a new bf.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Rebirtha]
#6091721 - 09/22/06 08:38 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Evan said:
There is nothing rational about it. Its just him punching you in the cunt. I don't see anything good. Maybe he's about to punch you in the cunt because he secretely hates you? Just a thought... I personally don't find anything attractive about it.
Fetishes are often about the forbidden or "wrong" sorts of behavior. Or the twisting/exaggeration of "normal" behavior. Personally I believe in letting people make decisions for themselves and if they enjoy something, who am I to say it's wrong or shouldn't be allowed. As long as no one is getting truly* hurt then it's okay in my book.
*by truly hurt I mean a combination of some percieved wrong (abuse, whatever) and a lack of choice. It's that second part that takes something like, say, bdsm from a relatively healthy fetish between consenting adults and a multiple felony assault and battery.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: unbeliever]
#6091732 - 09/22/06 08:41 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, on the female side of things, ballbusting (the opposite, obviously) is really rarely seen without some sort of mention of femdom. So I already had that thought, but... it just doesn't make sense at all for his character.
Which, on that matter, I guess you're all getting an image of my bf being a sick, abusive fuck - which he's not. He's a brilliantly random, funny, intelligent person, and he's always really thoughtful and looking to do whatever pleases the people around him. He's also always really fanatical about /protecting/ me, on the contrary. Except in this case.
And, CorporalKielbasa, unfortunately, I don't think there's a word for it besides cuntbusting. Lewd or offensive or not, names are names. I've never actually seen it called anything else.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091740 - 09/22/06 08:43 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Sevyn said:
Well, on the female side of things, ballbusting (the opposite, obviously) is really rarely seen without some sort of mention of femdom. So I already had that thought, but... it just doesn't make sense at all for his character.
Which, on that matter, I guess you're all getting an image of my bf being a sick, abusive fuck - which he's not. He's a brilliantly random, funny, intelligent person, and he's always really thoughtful and looking to do whatever pleases the people around him. He's also always really fanatical about /protecting/ me, on the contrary. Except in this case.
And, CorporalKielbasa, unfortunately, I don't think there's a word for it besides cuntbusting. Lewd or offensive or not, names are names. I've never actually seen it called anything else.
All I can say is that I can not stress enough that it has to be a free and un-colored choice of yours whether to indulge this particular fantasy of his. If he's all those other good things you say he is then he should be able to swallow his disappointment and let it be.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Sevyn]
#6091754 - 09/22/06 08:49 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Everythings been said....
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demius said:
power
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HELLA_TIGHT said:
ow, your boyfriend is a crazy asshole. ask him if he was beaten as a child?
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HELLA_TIGHT said:
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Sevyn said:
I was more just wondering if anyone could really raise any theories on /why/ something like this might be considered so attractive.
He hurts on the inside, so he wants to hurt you on the outside.
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Corporal Kielbasa said:
i would look for a new bf.
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: unbeliever]
#6091759 - 09/22/06 08:51 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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unbeliever said:
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Evan said:
There is nothing rational about it. Its just him punching you in the cunt. I don't see anything good. Maybe he's about to punch you in the cunt because he secretely hates you? Just a thought... I personally don't find anything attractive about it.
Fetishes are often about the forbidden or "wrong" sorts of behavior. Or the twisting/exaggeration of "normal" behavior. Personally I believe in letting people make decisions for themselves and if they enjoy something, who am I to say it's wrong or shouldn't be allowed. As long as no one is getting truly* hurt then it's okay in my book.
*by truly hurt I mean a combination of some percieved wrong (abuse, whatever) and a lack of choice. It's that second part that takes something like, say, bdsm from a relatively healthy fetish between consenting adults and a multiple felony assault and battery.
Yeah you are right. That's sort of what makes it a fetish that it is considered naughty or wrong. It is just hard to draw the line between crazy fetish and punching somebody in the genitals.
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unbeliever
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Re: Kinda odd question... if you know much about fetishes, please take a peek. [Re: Rebirtha]
#6091767 - 09/22/06 08:53 PM (5 years, 8 months ago) |
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Evan said:
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unbeliever said:
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Evan said:
There is nothing rational about it. Its just him punching you in the cunt. I don't see anything good. Maybe he's about to punch you in the cunt because he secretely hates you? Just a thought... I personally don't find anything attractive about it.
Fetishes are often about the forbidden or "wrong" sorts of behavior. Or the twisting/exaggeration of "normal" behavior. Personally I believe in letting people make decisions for themselves and if they enjoy something, who am I to say it's wrong or shouldn't be allowed. As long as no one is getting truly* hurt then it's okay in my book.
*by truly hurt I mean a combination of some percieved wrong (abuse, whatever) and a lack of choice. It's that second part that takes something like, say, bdsm from a relatively healthy fetish between consenting adults and a multiple felony assault and battery.
Yeah you are right. That's sort of what makes it a fetish that it is considered naughty or wrong. It is just hard to draw the line between crazy fetish and punching somebody in the genitals.
 I still maintain that if it's between consenting adults who are making a free and informed choice then it's okay and it's nobody's place to say they can't indulge in whatever it is.
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