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Re: girl in my lecture class. cant get out of my shell. need advice. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#16382267 - 06/14/12 08:03 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: Here's my 2 cents. I'm a girl. I've known this guy for a while who I'm with now. I had no idea he was interested in me for a whole year!. We saw each other 3 times a week. Like you, he is "a little wonky". He was very shy and careful. He smiled at me a lot and complemented me, but I still didn't get it. He asked if I wanted to hang out but I often had other plans and also a boyfriend (who was a controlling asshole). I hung out with him a few times and still thought he only wanted friendship. I broke up with my boyfriend and we started hanging out more and he FINALLY made a move! I'd always found him attractive, but I guess I just always figured he wasn't interested that way. Now we're together and having a blast.
My advice? Either be direct as possible or extremely persistent with your subtitles. For the last one, you'll need a lot of patience. The risk there is that she'll find some controlling asshole in the meantime. A true risk my friend.

i figure i give her subtle hints i want to hang out and get to know her, and when i know shes starting to dig me ill dive in, but for now i feel like if i dive in and come on strong shell run
she missed class today hoping i can get a "do you need the notes" thing going, but after that no more planning and the first contact crazies will go away and i can act like shes a person (not saying she aint but the crush glasses are skewing my perception.).
do you suggest i gas the controlling assholes or have mersenaries from germany take them out?
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sadsappysucker
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Registered: 04/06/04
Posts: 36,654
Loc: Florin
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Re: girl in my lecture class. cant get out of my shell. need advice. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16382367 - 06/14/12 08:35 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
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Gassing might be easier to arrange, but I think the show alone from the mercenaries might be worth the effort.
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brokentv

Registered: 03/03/12
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Re: girl in my lecture class. cant get out of my shell. need advice. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16383740 - 06/15/12 02:38 AM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
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This is crazy i guess im in the same situation. I sit by this girl whos been stuck in my head and Im losing my mind because I know I need to talk to her but my reasons for not talking to her are probably the same as yours I just don't want to come off as too weird. The thing that bugs me even more is that i've gotten some looks from her too unlike many girls who wont even acknowledged me.
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itchmynipple
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Registered: 05/28/12
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Re: girl in my lecture class. cant get out of my shell. need advice. [Re: brokentv]
#16384750 - 06/15/12 12:45 PM (10 months, 26 days ago) |
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yo bro, every girl ive man'd up and gone up to, i've either gotten smiles, hugs, or kisses from there on.
If you got balls, you will go up to the lady because trust me, it doesnt happen that often. when people go up to someone they don't even know, its a chance, but a chance your willing to take for the prize.
(Outside of parties) i went up to 4 chicks, i ended up dating 3 of them, and the other one was in a relationship when i did, now were just casual friends.
i don't even consider 4 alot, but w.e., its an adrenaline rush everytime!
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