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 So my girlfriend fucked this other dude   1
#15730298 - 01/28/12 07:28 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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She went over to his house the other night after the bars to smoke with him and she was so ripped up from the pot and drunk she ended up sleeping with him. She says that she was so out of her mind she had no clue what was going on. She says she couldn't even remember her name... blah blah blah. Long story short, the dude took advantage of her when she was fucked up. I'm pretty pissed at my girlfriend about it, but she seems twice as hurt as I am.
She regrets what happened, but not as much as me IMO. I still feel completely cheated on. It's been almost 4 years that we have been together, so it is only natural to have thoughts about fucking other people.
I'm just thinking her inhibitions were lowered to the point where she said screw it, I wanna try something different.
I guess the sex wasn't very good and the asshole pretty much kicked her out of his house when she was out of her mind. He was saying really shitty stuff to her after sex and killed her self esteem.
I love this girl with all my heart, but after something like this I'm not sure what to do. I know things like this happen in relationships from time to time, but didn't think it would happen to me.
I guess the dude took his condom off halfway through sex, so now she is getting tested this week.
Me and her already have Herpes, but there are a lot of other STD's that freak me out.
I'm gonna beat the hell out of this dude either way, and there is nothing you guys can say to me to keep me from doing it. Even if I can't get over what happened I can at least destroy this dudes face.
Just venting... I just found this out 2 hours ago
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Anonymous #2
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #1] 6
#15730307 - 01/28/12 07:29 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Oh damn, did he not know she has herpes? So he has it now too, from her?
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 Rhizohunter
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #2]
#15730318 - 01/28/12 07:32 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
Oh damn, did he not know she has herpes? So he has it now too, from her?
Prolly not... and he probably already has it.
I hope he didn't already have it. Fuck that asshole for disrespecting me and my girlfriend. Or whatever the hell my girl was to me
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730327 - 01/28/12 07:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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girls will be girls
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Anonymous #3
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730330 - 01/28/12 07:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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alcoholichunter said:
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Anonymous said:
Oh damn, did he not know she has herpes? So he has it now too, from her?
Prolly not... and he probably already has it.
I hope he didn't already have it. Fuck that asshole for disrespecting me and my girlfriend. Or whatever the hell my girl was to me
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alcoholichunter said:
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Anonymous said:
Oh damn, did he not know she has herpes? So he has it now too, from her?
Prolly not... and he probably already has it.
I hope he didn't already have it. Fuck that asshole for disrespecting me and my girlfriend. Or whatever the hell my girl was to me
forgot to post anoy?
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15730340 - 01/28/12 07:37 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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lol, I figured I'd do that
Don't really care that much anyways
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Anonymous #3
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730349 - 01/28/12 07:40 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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haha you slipped and i capitalized on dat shit.
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Rhizohunter
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#15730357 - 01/28/12 07:43 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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haha you slipped and i capitalized on dat shit.
No harm done... I guess everyone knows I have the herps now though. lol
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Anonymous #3
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730365 - 01/28/12 07:46 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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 thats why i quoted you let this be a lesson to you
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter] 5
#15730376 - 01/28/12 07:48 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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she was too drunk to remember her name, but she remembered that he took off the condom halfway through???
...and she also remembered how the sex was?
the last point i will make is that the weed and booze are benign in her argument. she's trying to pass off responsibility on anything other than herself. she could have chose to not drink or smoke at all, or to not drink or smoke as much, but the MOST irresponsible thing she chose to do, was to go with that guy to his house. she is just as much to blame here as that guy, unless she was raped. which it doesnt sound like she was.
i had a skud for a girlfriend a long time ago and i tried to keep it going... WORST IDEA EVER. it WILL fuck up your head because you will never really be able to trust her again.
the guy she fucked is prolly an asshole and i'm sorry for that, i empathize on that. that really sucks.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730378 - 01/28/12 07:49 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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i'm not sure how you've approached this with her, but if i were you, i'd try to express your concern less for the fact that she fucked some other guy, and more for the fact that she got so fucked up that she lost control of herself which led to the other events
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15730392 - 01/28/12 07:54 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Not really a lesson, cause I don't give a flying fuck.
But seriously... I'm lost on what to do. My girlfriend feels horrible about what happened to the point where she is crying about it. It isn't just her feeling bad about hurting me, it is her seriously upset about being manipulated and abused by this dude.
I still feel cheated on, but at the same time I feel like it wasn't completely her fault.
Yes, she went to this guys house alone, and yes she got really fucked up, and yes they fucked.
Hmmm... it doesn't sound much better when I type it out.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #2]
#15730440 - 01/28/12 08:03 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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oh he's going to get his punishment.. a life long incurable punishment of HERPES! thats pretty sick of your girl to go fuck another dude and let him take his condom off knowing she has herps..
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Anonymous #3
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #5] 8
#15730465 - 01/28/12 08:09 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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she cheated on you what dont you get? if you take her back now she will think ur a pussy and cheat on you again.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter] 1
#15730501 - 01/28/12 08:14 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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You want to kick this guys ass for fucking your drunk GF, but if he gets herpes from her, he is going to want to kick her ass.
So your girl is playing the "victim" here, very good role for her to play, but look what the "victim" has just done, she cheated on you, and she gave some stranger some herpes, wow, and you are falling for this act.
So go ahead and beat this guy, and risk your own safety and criminal record for this "victim" girl friend of yours, this girl is a loser, drop her and move on.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15730532 - 01/28/12 08:21 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe I'll just go out with her tonight to a party and hit on other girls.
I really don't know what or how to deal with this. I've been working on quitting drinking and this is the kick in the nuts to push me back into the lifestyle.
I'm not too good with my emotions, and it is obvious that she cheated on me with this dude.
Well, I suppose I'm just gonna drink my emotions away like I usually do
What is it with you guys and the herpes. You act like they arn't everywhere. I'd bet all my money this guy already has it, so quit bringing it up.
Yes I'm gonna beat his ass because he took advantage of my girlfriend when she was fucked up. I'm not sure if me and her are gonna be together after this happened, but I was hoping for a little better input then OMG she gave him herpes.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: qman]
#15730548 - 01/28/12 08:24 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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blackstatis said:
she was too drunk to remember her name, but she remembered that he took off the condom halfway through???
...and she also remembered how the sex was?
the last point i will make is that the weed and booze are benign in her argument. she's trying to pass off responsibility on anything other than herself. she could have chose to not drink or smoke at all, or to not drink or smoke as much, but the MOST irresponsible thing she chose to do, was to go with that guy to his house. she is just as much to blame here as that guy, unless she was raped. which it doesnt sound like she was.
+1 
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So your girl is playing the "victim" here, very good role for her to play, but look what the "victim" has just done, she cheated on you, and she gave some stranger some herpes, wow, and you are falling for this act.
+1
I'd call that a love lost, sir. I know it sucks to hear, but she completely disrespected you. You'll also never be able to trust her again.
I'm sorry that this has happened. 
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Cynosure] 2
#15730569 - 01/28/12 08:28 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I guess I'm just trying to fall for the act.
What actually happened was probably her wanting to fuck this guy and then after he finished he treated her like an object and told her to get out of his house he wants to sleep. She probably realized the mistake she made and feels horrible about it because I'm a good guy.
If this is what you all agree on I'll probably just move on in life and find someone who treats me like I should be treated.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Cynosure]
#15730651 - 01/28/12 08:45 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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From a woman's point of view....
I would be severely mad at my bf if he ever thought it would be ok to go to some chics house and have her smoke him out alone... That would be problem # 1. It had to be in her mind that there was a possibility of *something* happening... If she had enough respect for you, she never would have went in the first place. it doesn't sound like this guy is any long time friend, so you are probably right saying that she might have just wanted to try something new. But come to find out, she regrets it now.
If i was in your shoes, I wouldn't be able to get over something like that. Going out with her tonight just to flirting with other girls is just going to hurt you and her more. Because if you start flirting, more than likely she is just going to start flirting. Then you will cheat to even things out, then she will cheat again to get back at you. (Because women are crazy and she will pardon herself from the first incident because she was "stoned".
You either have to work it out together and forgive thou you will NEVER forget or just cut your ties. But by the way you seem so vengeful already, I would bet on the above happening.
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Re: So my girlfriend fucked this other dude [Re: Rhizohunter]
#15730718 - 01/28/12 08:56 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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alcoholichunter said:
I guess I'm just trying to fall for the act.
What actually happened was probably her wanting to fuck this guy and then after he finished he treated her like an object and told her to get out of his house he wants to sleep. She probably realized the mistake she made and feels horrible about it because I'm a good guy.
If this is what you all agree on I'll probably just move on in life and find someone who treats me like I should be treated.
^^THis
it sucks, but I would dump her if i were you. Can't trust her ever again, she must have made a conscious decision somewhere that night.
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