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 How do I avoid getting sucked in (FWB) 
#15707927 - 01/23/12 07:12 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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I break up with my girlfriend cause it just wasn't working out. here I am at home feeling bad when this girl calls, says she had a rough week and wanted to take me out for drinks... turns out she just got out of something.
So I have known this girl for awhile, 9/10 body 7/10 face. She is kinda loud and annoying in public and rather self centered. Definitely not somebody I would consider dating but hey, I was feeling bad and some support couldn't hurt right?
Many drinks later and she is in my bed and we are having the best sex I have had in years.
This last weekend we ended up meeting again over drinks and started talking sex. Turns out she is into some pretty kinky stuff which I haven't been around for awhile due to tight ass girlfriends. After getting rather mangled we head back to my place for an EVEN BETTER time than last weekend.
When I told my best buddy I had drinks and a wild time with this girl he facepalmed and said man, are you serious?
-This is alot of fun, and I am nowhere near being done with this little "friendship".
-I have clearly stated to her that I don't want a relationship and she seemed to be on the same page.
-She has been into me for a long time, and this is almost feels like a ploy to snare me (invited me out with her friends, dinner blah blah though I have declined)
-The last time I hung out with her, maybe it was that I was loaded drunk both with alcohol and the thought of great sex, but I didn't find her loud, or even remotely annoying - pretty sure thats just my dick putting up blinders
-This is the kind of girl that knows how to please, and probably almost always gets what she wants.
How do you keep a friend with benefits just that and nothing more?
Should there be a limit to how often I see her?
Should I get my fun out all at once and then call it off?
Or is this a trap and my only exit is get out now while I still can?
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 babydoll
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Re: How do I avoid getting sucked in (FWB) [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15718034 - 01/25/12 09:58 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Well it honestly depends on how YOU feel about her. Can you keep sex and emotions separate? Or are you going to start to emotionally care about her? FWB is cool but in my opinion it's pretty much impossible. One or the other person usually gets feelings caught up and then things get complicated. If you guys are agreeing to just sex together and nothing else then don't get emotionally invested. If you can't do that then either move on or see how she feels about you.
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BigMouthWino
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Re: How do I avoid getting sucked in (FWB) [Re: babydoll]
#15718065 - 01/25/12 10:04 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Man don't sweat the details so much and just have fun with her for now. Just have fun, you're both single and willing. No need to worry so much about what could or couldn't happen in the future. Just roll with it and whatever happens happens. Have fun dude!
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Anonymous #1
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Re: How do I avoid getting sucked in (FWB) [Re: BigMouthWino]
#15721957 - 01/26/12 08:18 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks guys
She has "an extra ticket" to a show I wouldnt mind seeing...
I told her I would go with her, but was worrying about how date-like that would be...
Quote:
BigMouthWino said:
Man don't sweat the details so much and just have fun with her for now. Just have fun, you're both single and willing. No need to worry so much about what could or couldn't happen in the future. Just roll with it and whatever happens happens. Have fun dude!
- I think thats exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks man
She has been texting me all week about the things she wants to do in bed... Fuuuuck some girls know how to push buttons.
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