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 will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? 
#15167848 - 10/02/11 06:23 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I hate kids. Bottom line. I never want a child. I was thinking of just getting a vasectomy and avoiding it all together. But what do the ladies think of this? Most women are baby hungry as fuck. But honestly...I dont want to be with a woman who wants babies, so I guess it doesnt really matter, right?
But how many women dont want children? Like 1 in 100000? Fuck..
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15167869 - 10/02/11 06:29 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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It will make it very very difficult for you to ever find someone that will stay with you i think
But if you don't want a women who wants babys then i guess not
Its a ridiculously drastic decision though, especially if your younger than like 30, imo
It won't make you any less likely to get laid 
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Gresh]
#15168123 - 10/02/11 07:28 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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But how you are you going to finish onto her pupil?
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: CarnivalBarker]
#15168536 - 10/02/11 09:00 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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It doesnt effect your semen. Just cuts the line so sperm cant mix in...
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Gresh]
#15168737 - 10/02/11 09:44 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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> It will make it very very difficult for you to ever find someone that will stay with you i think
Why? If the guy doesn't want kids, then he certainly doesn't want to be with a woman that wants kids. If he/they change their mind, they can adopt.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Gresh]
#15168805 - 10/02/11 09:57 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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> It will make it very very difficult for you to ever find someone that will stay with you i think
Why? If the guy doesn't want kids, then he certainly doesn't want to be with a woman that wants kids. If he/they change their mind, they can adopt.
How about you read my whole post 
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But if you don't want a women who wants babys then i guess not
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Gresh]
#15169123 - 10/02/11 11:14 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Can't a vasectomy be reversed?
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Gresh]
#15170069 - 10/03/11 04:17 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Can't a vasectomy be reversed?
Yes, but there is a risk that the operation isn't effective and you remain infertile. But usually, it can be reversed.
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Its a ridiculously drastic decision though, especially if your younger than like 30, imo
Definitely.
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It won't make you any less likely to get laid
Not in terms of casual sex. It will stand in the way of more serious relationships though. Perhaps not when you're 20, but certainly when you're >25.
OP, how old are you? Because if you're 20-ish, then don't worry about the kids stuff too much and simply use birth control. But if you're, say, 30 or 35, then your intention to get a vasectomy is a tad more sensible. Even then, I wouldn't recommend it. Why mutilate your internal sex organs to enforce a decision that you may very well revisit at a later stage?
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: koraks]
#15170076 - 10/03/11 04:21 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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you dont wanna do that ...
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: koraks]
#15170117 - 10/03/11 04:51 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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OP, how old are you? Because if you're 20-ish, then don't worry about the kids stuff too much and simply use birth control. But if you're, say, 30 or 35, then your intention to get a vasectomy is a tad more sensible. Even then, I wouldn't recommend it. Why mutilate your internal sex organs to enforce a decision that you may very well revisit at a later stage?
Im 25, but this is nothing new. Ive had a pretty strong stance on this my entire life. I feel if there is a change of heart later on, I want to adopt, if anything. I know it may be a bit drastic, but at the same time Im the kind of person that hates to leave bases uncovered. I want to do anything in my power to completely avoid the chance of it happening. I suppose only abstinence can assure that...but not even that worked for the virgin mary....amirite?
Joking aside...reading up on it, I find the usual complications of a medical procedure. Thats probably the biggest thing keeping me away. Vasectomies fail, and sometimes sexual drive is effected. Even the volume or quantity of semen ejaculated can be effected....really thats a big enjoyment I get from sex. I just dont know if I wanna risk that.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15170166 - 10/03/11 05:25 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Don't do it. Other, less invasive forms of birth control are effective enough to rely on. Plus, I'm pretty sure you're going to regret this later on. I know how that sounds, but face it man, you're 25. Nothing is cast in concrete yet. Just as an illustration: my dad was 32 when my sister was born and 44 when I was born. I'm pretty sure that at 25, he very adamantly didn't want to have kids yet.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: koraks]
#15170598 - 10/03/11 09:37 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Who cares what women may like? wtf
I want to get my shit tied so I don't have kids and I personally don't give a fuck what any man thinks of that.
Fuck baby hungry chicks, just not literally.
Props for being responsible enough to realize the last thing this world needs is another materialistic consumer. I hate how humans selfishly reproduce, we're bringing on our own demise by using the "but it's instinct and I want a family" excuse to rationalize why its ok to reproduce exponentially.
You very well may regret it but whats so wrong with adopting? I know that when I regret it its going to because of stupid hormones, not because I truly want to have children. It won't be anywhere near the amount of regret I'd feel throwing my life away to live in 100ks of debt with a disfigured ass body that I sacrificed for a little piece of shit organism that will just shit up the planet with the other millions that are born constantly, thus making our territories further encroach on fragile ecosystems and fucking up the world for animals I respect far more. Fuck you biological clock.
I strongly believe people should be paid several thousand to become sterilized. Population birth control ftw. This does not need to become a opinion thread on population matters though so I'll end there.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: TTT]
#15170678 - 10/03/11 10:04 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I know that when I regret it its going to because of stupid hormones, not because I truly want to have children.
You'll see that hormones can make you 'truly want' things more than you could want them in any other conceivable way. Indeed, it is very arguable if something like free will exists in the first place - many will argue that we are simply forced to want, think and do what we do by biochemistry, instinct and evolution. Personally, I think it's odd to separate your 'animal' self from your rational persona.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: TTT]
#15170787 - 10/03/11 10:46 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Props for being responsible enough to realize the last thing this world needs is another materialistic consumer.
You very well may regret it but whats so wrong with adopting?
I will just briefly touch on this because I don't want to hijack the thread and I could easily write a novel to answer the above question.
The adoption industry is a multi-billion dollar industry that thrives on consumerism and convincing women of a certain socioeconomic status that they are not worthy of raising their children. Sure, there are exceptions - children that are removed from abusive homes - but the vast majority of those children are older once termination of parental rights happens (usually ages 8+) and most people are not willing to adopt older children from foster care.
The adoption industry also preys on rich childless couples who are desperate for a baby. They make promises of healthy newborns and well adjusted children without issues - promises that cannot be kept. Google adoption + RAD, adoption + abandonment issues, adoption + identity issues and you'll see what issues these child (and their unsuspecting parents) face. They allow prospective parents to pick and chose what type of child they want, gender, race, hair color, etc. - you can have anything you want as long as you can come up with the money. Depending on whether it's domestic or international the costs can run between 30-60k.
It's money driven, it's based on lies and greed. Every year adoption from certain countries is being shut down due to fraud & child theft. Right now there is a case going on in my area where it's been proven that a child from another country was stolen and sold to an agency who adopted out the kid to a couple here. The mother who's child was stolen wants her back and the couple here are fighting to keep her as if she's their property.
Then, once a child is adopted, the government seals their birth certificate and issues them a falsified document claiming that the people who adopted them are their biological parents. Fortunately for me, the state I was born in is one of 6 states who now allow adoptees to have their original birth certificates. So I have two birth certificates with two different names and two different sets of parents who "gave birth to me" - the government should not be allowed to issue falsified documents regarding my origins.
End of rant.
OP, there's a thread here somewhere that I read not too long ago from a member who had a vasectomy and talked about how he experienced pain during sex from time to time. I tried searching for it to link it but can't find it right off the batt. Anyway, your body, your right to do whatever the hell you want with it. I have quite a few female friends who never wanted kids and don't have any and are past the biological clock phase - they are very happy with their decisions - so those women are out there.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: SillyMe]
#15172117 - 10/03/11 04:34 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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@OP, you could always get your sperm frozen so if you for some strange reason want kids later you can.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: TTT]
#15172491 - 10/03/11 06:06 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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TTT said:
I want to get my shit tied so I don't have kids and I personally don't give a fuck what any man thinks of that.
Fuck baby hungry chicks, just not literally.
God it feels good to hear a woman say this. Its reassuring to know these women are out there.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: TTT]
#15173105 - 10/03/11 08:20 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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TTT said:
I strongly believe people should be paid several thousand to become sterilized. Population birth control ftw. This does not need to become a opinion thread on population matters though so I'll end there.
Marry me plz? We can live together and you can not have my children :P
I've been saying for a long time that this would be a idea, except my idea was to have free vasectomys for anyone willing to take the cut and incentives for people with IQ's under 100 that way we clean up the gene pool while we're at it.
But people cry "eugenics" and there's still a lot of stigma about that.
sorry for the thread jack, I just wanted to say that I'm 26 and I feel the exact same way.
I'd rather get more dogs than a kid.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: koraks]
#15175404 - 10/04/11 08:27 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I know that when I regret it its going to because of stupid hormones, not because I truly want to have children.
You'll see that hormones can make you 'truly want' things more than you could want them in any other conceivable way. Indeed, it is very arguable if something like free will exists in the first place - many will argue that we are simply forced to want, think and do what we do by biochemistry, instinct and evolution. Personally, I think it's odd to separate your 'animal' self from your rational persona.
It makes sense when its no longer necessary. Look around you and tell me we need more children. I DESPISE how quick people are to pop out children without ever thinking how many people are doing just that and how it will effect the whole planet, our resources, quickly waning land and increase the severity of any disaster. Its quite simple, our beautiful planet cannot maintain a population of destructive, balance disrespecting, selfish beings. Like all living things that lose an apex predator or become too successful; resources will be used up, we will waddle in our own filth and as a result our population will decrease significantly. The same rules that govern other organisms govern us as well.
I care more about my planet and fellow creatures than any fucking kid I will be hormonally induced to love. Children piss me off anyway. They're not even proper humans until they're my age and I still notice leaps in my ability to assimilate information and make connections.
I feel its my responsibility as an intelligent human to realize when enough is enough with reproduction and I feel its my responsibility to not allow a primal urge to make me want children when I KNOW its not needed and will further fuck up the planet for future generations.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: TTT]
#15175441 - 10/04/11 08:52 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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TTT said:
It makes sense when its no longer necessary. Look around you and tell me we need more children.
Look, I agree with you on a rational level. But the 'decision' to make babies is not a rational one, in most of the cases. I've seen too many women who talked just the way you do, and 18 months down the line they were debating the pros and cons of a particular model of stroller. This is not to say that I predict you will experience the irrefutable need to make babies in the near future. I'm just saying that regardless of all the rationalizing, you simply can't predict how you'll feel about this a couple of years down the line.
The only thing I do know for sure is that IF you ever have children, then
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I care more about my planet and fellow creatures than any fucking kid I will be hormonally induced to love.
no, you won't. You'll love the kid to bits. Despite anything you say now. Mark my words - I'm all for nuances, constructivist philosophy, shades of grey, etc. etc., but a mother will love her children. Fact. Of. Life.
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Re: will getting a vasectomy hurt my chances with the ladies? [Re: koraks]
#15179408 - 10/05/11 01:54 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I think you will regret it
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