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 Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? 
#14872276 - 08/04/11 03:03 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Not trying to do too much writing here but I'll share my experience(s). Until recently I've been having sex for years (3ish) and never had a girl have an orgasm with me. Less than a year ago or so that all came to an end when I discovered that for my girl, having her ride me works best.
Nothing else has ever worked. I go slow, fast, deep, shallow, vary it up, do everything, but NO other position works. She'll usually report that doggy style is most enjoyable for her but I'm not a huge fan of hitting it from the back. It's not bad, just that there are better positions imo.
Same thing goes for cunnilingus. For some reason no matter what I do it just doesn't work. That is to say, I need to learn more about what works and how to make it work at the right times.
All that said, recently I've had great success at having my girl cum twice for every one time I cum and it's easy, super easy really. Have her ride you, but then specifically have her back be either STRAIGHT or bent AWAY from you, like she needs to bend back and away from you, not forward and downwards toward you.
I usually like to have already been fucking for a while before I do this but I can guaranteed get her to cum within 2-5 minutes EVERY time using this method.
Would any of you folks care to share various positions that work best for you, especially in helping a woman orgasm thoroughly?
For the record, I'm talking about the position marked W there. That's a solid example of the girl's back being completely straight. It'd be even better if she bent back just a little more.
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Humility]
#14872749 - 08/04/11 04:53 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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There are two main spots (this is my experience talking) BUT, anyways, there's the clit on the outside. There's the "g spot" though on the inside. With all the girl's I've been with its always been easy to find. Put her on her back, stick your finger(s) in with your palm upward. Then curl your finger(s) until you hit a wall. That wall that you feel is what you're going for. I've found that licking the clit and rubbing that wall (and mixing it up different ways of course, but hitting those spots often and well) has always had my girl cumming from oral.
I think you finding out that she needs to be on top and bent back means that your dick is hitting that same wall, thus causing the orgasm.
My best position to get girls off in is...5 on that chart I think. Basically, her on her back, legs spread and in the air, and me on my knees. After going for a bit, kissing and going fast/slow/deep/etc, I'll generally sit up and lick my thumb and start rubbing her clit while also humping back and forth.
I find that with that position I can last a while because chances are I'm not moving that fast. Maybe one full in and out every second and a half or so. A real mellow pace. But with your thumb stimulating her clit (and then you can go deeper with the pleasure and start licking toes and tickling bottoms of feet  ) and also a steady dick in her I find that it just works really, really well. If she wants to go faster then you can lean down and push on your hands (with them by her sides) and go faster. However, she will have to stimulate herself.
I personally find that a girl in that position rubbing on herself and moaning and squirming and shit is beyond sexy to me. Even if I'm numb as fuck and have the thought that I can last forever, get me in that position (hands down going fast) with that visual view of her and I'll be cumming in seconds. We generally cum at the same time every time, finishing in that position.
Hope I could shed some light on something. 
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Humility]
#14876604 - 08/05/11 02:18 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Same position, her on top and rubbing herself. Her clit is super sensitive so its too difficult for me to do the touching while we are fucking. Works within a few minutes every time.
If your girl is in shape, doggy with her touching herself can work pretty well too.
And finally what Joolz said, (in my case her touching herself). Adjust the angle/positioning til you are hitting the right spot. From my experience some girls have different spots they like. Current girl likes the G-spot about 2 inches in, but likes another spot about 6 inches in even more.
As to getting her off with oral, ask her what she likes cause every clit is different. And while your mouth is busy in a manner that is not too intense, finger her G-spot. Watch out if she is a squirter -_-
And as a final point, getting off can be a lot more than just a physical thing for some girls. Find out the small things that gets her going. A lot of girls like when you are aggressive. Some like being called worthless whores. ETC. be creative, but ask her about stuff first so you don't get slapped.
Good luck.
oh PS. make her feel like she is not being a slut, and she will be the biggest ho ever.
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Krash Kharma
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14876937 - 08/05/11 03:38 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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What you need to do is hit her g-spot with your dick. She'll know when it's right. Then, at least for my girl, you need to STAY THERE. Stay there for a while and she'll spasm more and more until it builds into a tightening and then start rocking with VERY SMALL movements. like millimeter shit. Build and build and build into progressively longer strokes in and out and she'll blast.
This is all very intuition based. You have to know her pussy really well, and know THE pussy really well in general.
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14877160 - 08/05/11 04:31 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
As to getting her off with oral, ask her what she likes cause every clit woman is different.
Look closely how she responds to what you're doing, and you can feel your way around her. When in doubt: ask. It's not unmanly to do, and sex is an awesome topic to discuss with someone you've got the hots for 
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: koraks]
#14877470 - 08/05/11 05:47 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Its called knowing how to lay pipe. Which apparantly you dont 
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Humility]
#14878265 - 08/05/11 08:54 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Do a search for "coital alignment technique". Works wonders.
Beyond that, remember that women take a long time to warm up. Learn to watch and listen to her reactions. They can be subtle, and each woman is different. After you learn what to look for, once she starts to respond, don't change what you are doing... keep the same speed, the same depth, the same force, etc.
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Seuss]
#14880098 - 08/06/11 09:24 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Seuss said:
Do a search for "coital alignment technique". Works wonders.
Beyond that, remember that women take a long time to warm up. Learn to watch and listen to her reactions. They can be subtle, and each woman is different. After you learn what to look for, once she starts to respond, don't change what you are doing... keep the same speed, the same depth, the same force, etc.
Do women actually communicate their needs? Or it is typical for them to expect the guy to experiment by a trial raping? Or a "come on you whore I need to rape you now" remember our word is cheeseburger so when I say it we are going to Burger King.
Dam I should have been a plumber. For reals.
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: LunarEclipse]
#14880117 - 08/06/11 09:34 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Im surprised no one mentioned toys here.. Even if you are afraid of the stigma of buying something from a porn shop there is other options. You don't want those big crazy motherfuckers.. just some semi normal shit, lol
The Durex Play line you can go into walgreens and get a nice little dildo and some fun little things to put on your cock to stimulate her clit while you fuck her.
Girls love toys, if they don't they are probably some prude bitch who never got comfortable with them alone...
Also she might get off with some anal play.. It took me years to realize my EX loved it when I played with her asshole a little when I fucked her.. nothing crazy deep but some light motions and a lot of girls will cum right there.
Add: Also her riding you to cum might mean that the pressure of your pubic bone against her clit is what helps make her cum and not the position directly at all.
Edited by Spin240 (08/06/11 09:36 AM)
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Spin240]
#14880126 - 08/06/11 09:39 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Spin240 said:
Im surprised no one mentioned toys here.. Even if you are afraid of the stigma of buying something from a porn shop there is other options. You don't want those big crazy motherfuckers.. just some semi normal shit, lol
The Durex Play line you can go into walgreens and get a nice little dildo and some fun little things to put on your cock to stimulate her clit while you fuck her.
Girls love toys, if they don't they are probably some prude bitch who never got comfortable with them alone...
Also she might get off with some anal play.. It took me years to realize my EX loved it when I played with her asshole a little when I fucked her.. nothing crazy deep but some light motions and a lot of girls will cum right there.
Add: Also her riding you to cum might mean that the pressure of your pubic bone against her clit is what helps make her cum and not the position directly at all.
The Durex Play Line at Walgreens. Nice.
To show you how far removed I was from my last GF her thing is handcuffs. Now I must say my thing would never to associate handcuffs with sex. Going to jail, yes. Sex, no.
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koraks
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Re: Best techniques/positions for helping a woman orgasm? [Re: Spin240]
#14888878 - 08/08/11 08:12 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Spin240 said:
Im surprised no one mentioned toys here..
Toys are _obviously_ the easiest solution. I was under the impression we were talking about '100% natural (no toys)' here, but if that's not the case, then definitely get something that vibrates and be done with it 
Assplay: yes, for some, but note that some women don't have any particular interest in that and only get distracted by it, making your 'job' harder instead of easier.
Handcuffs: bondage and/or S&M are sooooo cool....but definitely not for everybody. If it's not for you, then don't worry about it and stay away from it. If it's not for you but your gf is into bdsm, then serioysly consider the possibility that this will be the undoing of your relationship. Sounds a bit odd, perhaps, but the BDSM community is full of people who were perfectly happy with their vanilla partners in previous relationships, if it were not for the sex, and the kinky stuff had to have its way in the end. That shit goes deep.
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Do women actually communicate their needs?
If you enable them to do so, yes. Although there are always some women who have such high barriers that they can't talk about this kind of thing. I personally stay away from them, because it frustrates me. But in my experience, most women are completely happy to talk about what they like, but you have to help create the atmosphere for them to do so. If you just sit there and expect them to tell you their deepest fantasies out of nowhere, then you'll be disappointed for sure.
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