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 Ok boys, a question from a virgin 
#14783056 - 07/17/11 09:00 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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A question to all the guys out there: if a girl is still a virgin do you want to know? Does it put the pressure on, or make you laugh at her, or just weird you out?
I broke up with a guy after I told him I was still a virgin and he got all awkward and did the "i'm not worthy" bullshit thing and couldn't look me in the eyes, he told me my character and virtue were overwhelming. So I get called chicken for being a virgin, then I get a guy who's chicken to be with a virgin.
So for next guy, should I just shut up and put up, and not bother saying anything even if he asks how many guys I've been with?
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 nice1
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#14783062 - 07/17/11 09:02 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I would like to know. I would find it awesome. I mean it should be special cuz its your first time so I would want to be all loving and sensual 
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: nice1]
#14783090 - 07/17/11 09:07 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Virginity is a beautiful thing, I live in a city of sluts. It's definetly not something to be ashamed of, particularly for women.
Sounds like the dude thought he was never going to get to fuck you unless he married you 
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: nice1]
#14783145 - 07/17/11 09:19 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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my last girl was a virgin. i was kind of off put by it but i can't remember why. i guess i was sort of scared of the challenge and responsibility of initiating someone into the world of sex.. as lame as that sounds. i was only 18 at the time give me a break. but i never gave her a hard time about it. we just did the thing and we took our time. a cherry is as easy to pop as a can of soda. in retrospect it was totally awesome and totally worth it. great experience and i'll always remember it and the girl.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: dummy]
#14783270 - 07/17/11 09:45 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I would guess that most guys would like this if you were to give it to them. That is a special thing for both.
On the other hand, "virgin" is a euphemism for "doesn't put out." Which no guy likes, and personally, I won't even put up with anymore...
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14783465 - 07/17/11 10:31 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
A question to all the guys out there: if a girl is still a virgin do you want to know? Does it put the pressure on, or make you laugh at her, or just weird you out?
I broke up with a guy after I told him I was still a virgin and he got all awkward and did the "i'm not worthy" bullshit thing and couldn't look me in the eyes, he told me my character and virtue were overwhelming. So I get called chicken for being a virgin, then I get a guy who's chicken to be with a virgin.
So for next guy, should I just shut up and put up, and not bother saying anything even if he asks how many guys I've been with?
your making too big of a deal of it and making it uncomfortable most likely.
virginity dont mean anything in the scheme of things. its just sex and it feels great.
our culture has just tricked a lot to think its a scary or shameful thing to talk or act perverse.
but best advice is loosen up and make sure its comfortable situation for you.
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its deff not a deal breaker unless your like 30 lol. im 20 and havnt takin someones virginity since highschool but i always enjoyed it i still view those times as special even though i wasnt a virgin. but it does kinda put the pressure on you want them to have a nice first time.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: fungifann]
#14784019 - 07/18/11 12:16 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Any time I have the opportunity and pleasure and honor of taking away a v-card I always make sure its alllllllll about her. I take care of all of her needs, from the start of the date to the orgasm at the end.
I'm all about making people's first times 100% awesome. It makes me feel good, knowing that I left a good imprint in their memory. That I wasn't just a douche who took advantage.
So yes, I'd like to know. I go the extra mile for my lovers.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Joolz]
#14784048 - 07/18/11 12:22 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Joolz said:
Any time I have the opportunity and pleasure and honor of taking away a v-card I always make sure its alllllllll about her. I take care of all of her needs, from the start of the date to the orgasm at the end.
I'm all about making people's first times 100% awesome. It makes me feel good, knowing that I left a good imprint in their memory. That I wasn't just a douche who took advantage.
So yes, I'd like to know. I go the extra mile for my lovers.
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 Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Joolz]
#14784070 - 07/18/11 12:27 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I'd think its slick cause I'd know that shits tight and doesn't have anything funky goin on,lol. It'd be a turn on to.
And you should always aim to please bro, not just cause the gurlz a V, kinda whack.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: fungifann]
#14784089 - 07/18/11 12:31 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Thanks for all your responses, its reassuring 
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fbi365 said:
On the other hand, "virgin" is a euphemism for "doesn't put out." Which no guy likes, and personally, I won't even put up with anymore...
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fungifann said:
its deff not a deal breaker unless your like 30 lol.
^ this is what I worry about.
Simply put, I'm not a 20-year old virgin, I may even be over 30, I'd have to check my ID lol. I was a bible-thumping christian for many years, so no thumping allowed. I only ever dated christian guys, so no sex allowed. Today I am so much less judgemental and more open minded, I can't believe I treated people that way. So a virgin my age gets the above label, or its a deal breaker, but I know I'm not like that.
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your making too big of a deal of it and making it uncomfortable most likely.
I agree, some days I drive myself nuts thinkng about this and I should as you say, loosen up and find a comfortable situation. Like ButteredToast said though, I too live in a city of sluts, man sluts seem to abound around here. Thanks Joolz for not being one of those douches, it is appreciated.
What I do want is this:
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nice1 said:
I would like to know. I would find it awesome. I mean it should be special cuz its your first time so I would want to be all loving and sensual
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14784114 - 07/18/11 12:36 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Uhhh are you hott? I'm 20 maybe I can do you a solid, j/p lol
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14784127 - 07/18/11 12:39 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I wouldn't want to be with a virgin at this time in my life. I'd only break her heart.
So it would be better to know before that would happen.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14784155 - 07/18/11 12:45 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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It honestly sounds like the guy you're with just wants sex, and you being a virgin means it's a lot harder to get. If I was with a girl I actually cared about, I would take the time and work with her, you know?
I think it would be kind of fun...
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: SteezeMonkey]
#14784173 - 07/18/11 12:48 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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my current gf was a virgin when we started dating, and personally it's the last thing i wanted to deal with. i don't like girls who sleep around, but i like a girl to be comfortable and know what shes doing. i just don't want to take the time to teach a virgin everything, especially shit that should just come naturally but doesn't for some reason.
that said i wouldn't date a virgin again. but it's not like hes not going to figure it out if you don't tell him, it'll be obvious. just be honest
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #3]
#14784176 - 07/18/11 12:49 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
It honestly sounds like the guy you're with just wants sex, and you being a virgin means it's a lot harder to get. If I was with a girl I actually cared about, I would take the time and work with her, you know?
I think it would be kind of fun...
taking time to build up to that n get there is a hell of a lot of fun no doubt.
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Cloud9]
#14784204 - 07/18/11 12:54 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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i just don't want to take the time to teach a virgin everything, especially shit that should just come naturally but doesn't for some reason.
Like what?
All she has to do is lie there and take the dick.
Maybe moan and wiggle a bit if she wants - its not hard to teach lol
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Cloud9]
#14784240 - 07/18/11 01:03 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Cloud9 said: i just don't want to take the time to teach a virgin everything, especially shit that should just come naturally but doesn't for some reason.
I could see if you're just trying to get laid, but if it's your girlfriend, I don't see how it would take THAT long to teach them.
Even if it does, isn't it kind of hot to tell someone what to do? I don't know, it's hot to tell a girl to do something. And unless she's a a complete idiot, it shouldn't take that long for her to get what's up.
Blowjob? "Put your lips around my dick, move up and down until I cum".
Not that hard lol
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14784253 - 07/18/11 01:05 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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Cloud9 said:
i just don't want to take the time to teach a virgin everything, especially shit that should just come naturally but doesn't for some reason.
Like what?
All she has to do is lie there and take the dick.
Maybe moan and wiggle a bit if she wants - its not hard to teach lol
Sounds like chemistry is lacking, but what do I know, I'm the one here with no experience
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Re: Ok boys, a question from a virgin [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14784284 - 07/18/11 01:14 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Why thank you, young man for offering, I'm flattered 
I'm pretty, but not hot, except for a lovely set of DD's - I'm abit above average in size, not quite bbw (used to be, not anymore), super soft blonde hair. Men your age are all over me on the dating site I'm on. As are the ones over 55. Where are all the ones in the middle?
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