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 2jew4u
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 Girl friend Said 
#14622187 - 06/16/11 01:29 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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If we dont get married, or engaged in August, then its done- But the deal is we haven't even been together for 2 years yet- well in August it will be- Second she talks about it all the time, Blah blah blah, or watches shows like bride zilla etc,- Should i cave in and do it or just move on- Its not that i dont want to get married one day, but seems like she is putting a lot of pressure on me to get married. And really dont want to marry into her family, they are all a bunch of Bitches, that tell their husbands what to do etc. Or if she does something for you she holds it over your head, and I dont run like that, balls make the rules and if you do something for someone then it was just being nice- So what should I do ?
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622212 - 06/16/11 01:35 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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That shit isn't right bro. If she's acting like this now and giving you the ultimatum, I can't even imagine what she'll be like when she's got you locked up in marriage.
Bad news brother. I'd get out while you've got the chance, and you can KEEP your money when you break up now, when you get married your life is fucked from the divorce.
Just my opinion but I think you'll be happier in the long run when you realize you could have been stuck with this bitch indefinitely.
Good luck dude, stay strong.
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That is kinda like how I feel, Can only imagine how it will be when we cant just break up- dunno trying to find a spot on the low b4 august comes- So I can be gone, just kinda hard to save money when someone knows how much you make lol- And any excess always seems to go somewhere or to something we(she) need(wants).
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She isn't worth it.
If you think you can make her understand that she's being selfish and putting her own needs before yours or the relationship things might be different.
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622256 - 06/16/11 01:45 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Leave it up to her. Tell her you aren't ready to get married and that if she wants to leave you over it, you understand.
I, personally, don't do well with ultimatums.
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622279 - 06/16/11 01:53 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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sounds like you don't want to get married and that shes a materialistic control freak that takes your money like a goldigger.
500 bucks says if you marry her your life will become MUCH worse and will end up in a costly divorce
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: automan]
#14622364 - 06/16/11 02:16 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
automan said:
Leave it up to her. Tell her you aren't ready to get married and that if she wants to leave you over it, you understand.
I, personally, don't do well with ultimatums.
This
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: shLong]
#14622415 - 06/16/11 02:32 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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So- How should I go about the breakup, Just move out? tell her, What?
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622578 - 06/16/11 03:08 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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"listen, you're making me really uneasy with all this pressure. If you're really wanting to get married ASAP, I dont think Im the guy for you...Nothing personal, babe, but were only __ years old and there's a lot of poon out there I need to pound before I can seriously commit to anyone. Especially if you're gonna turn out to be a giant cunt like the rest of the X chromosome carriers in your family"
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622585 - 06/16/11 03:09 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Life changes too much for ultimatums.
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: Joolz]
#14622654 - 06/16/11 03:22 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Yea I feel like i kinda got lied to when we got in the relationship- She *had* nipple pearceings and one down stairs, and *used* to like girls have pics with her and some other chicks. Now no more pearceings and no other chicks, she promised me a threesome if we stayed together for 6 months- still notta almost 2 years later and if i look at a chick OMG-
So should I just get an apt and move out then tell her or tell her b4 hand that we are going to break up.
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622677 - 06/16/11 03:25 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Like a Boy Scout, be prepared....
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: shLong]
#14622774 - 06/16/11 03:42 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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All ready- Got my tent,and swiss army knife- Bitch hates camping,is afraid of bugs etc. So she wont look for me at the lake- 
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14622782 - 06/16/11 03:43 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: shLong]
#14622943 - 06/16/11 04:12 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Should I clean out the bank account and go get an APT 2 Day b4 work?
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14623696 - 06/16/11 06:19 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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She seems pretty crazy. If you just dip out on her she might show up at your new place drunk screaming and kicking things (happened to a friend of mine).
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14624986 - 06/16/11 10:20 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Fuck yes! Don't let her steal your money bro!
Make sure she can't screw you over somehow by calling the police on your shroom grow or some shit!
Be careful bitches be crazy!
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why you asking the shroomery about this? no one can give a good answer, i dont think, without knowing all the facts about who you and your girl are.
ide ask a good friend or relative.
oh if your rich and worried about getting robbed you could sign a pre-nup.
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Edited by DarkMatterOfFact (06/16/11 11:26 PM)
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Quote:
i like cow poo said:
Fuck yes! Don't let her steal your money bro!
Make sure she can't screw you over somehow by calling the police on your shroom grow or some shit!
Be careful bitches be crazy!
quit doing that a while back, B/c she would get mad that i spent so much time doing it. LOL
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Re: Girl friend Said [Re: 2jew4u]
#14625560 - 06/17/11 12:23 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah I would leave fast, move somewhere to where she doesnt know of and take ur shit.
She does sound like a crazy bitch and I would worry about shit happening to your house.
I know all girls aren't as crazy as the ones I've seen my uncle with, but he broke up with a girl and moved in with my mom and grandma
His ex(and other people she knew) threw molotov cocktails through the windows and burnt half the house down.
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