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 First date...can't do it sober 
#14148244 - 03/19/11 02:36 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm meeting a girl for coffee tomorrow. I just realized I can't go in sober, I just can't do it. I've been sober for awhile now (49 days or so). Today I drank a little (nothing much, just a few sips), but I know tomorrow I can't go sober. I'm thinking of taking a shot. But the problem is I might be picking her up and it would be hard to hide drinking a beer or taking a shot. I know I'm being a bitch. I really know I am, but I'm so fucking lonely and I have so many self confidence issues. I also don't want to be fucked up, I don't want her to notice anything different. Xanax would be awesome, but can't find any. Take like just a mg just to take the edge off. I don't want to go stoned either, because I'm less talkative stoned.
I know I'm a bitch. I really do. But fuck man, I can't handle this shit...
Alc would be the best, but fuck man. Can't hide it. If we meet there, ya maybe a shot WOULD be nice.
Any other ideas.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14148255 - 03/19/11 02:39 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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In a situation like this, Klonopin or Xanax would be proper. That's what helps me open up in situations like that.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Big Worm]
#14148259 - 03/19/11 02:41 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude, if you go in drunk, even if you nail it, it's still gonna ruin the relationship when you have to suck 7 dicks for a shit of tequila just to hold her hand
Work on yourself before you drag another innocent victim down into your bullshit.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Big Worm]
#14148263 - 03/19/11 02:42 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah Benzos are the way to go, and I wouldn't risk your sobriety for a bitch
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Run]
#14148276 - 03/19/11 02:44 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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How fucked up do you look when on benzos?
I've always done them alone and I have no clue how you look/act to the outside world. Really nice for helping me get to sleep lol
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Azure Essence said:
Dude, if you go in drunk, even if you nail it, it's still gonna ruin the relationship when you have to suck 7 dicks for a shit of tequila just to hold her hand
Work on yourself before you drag another innocent victim down into your bullshit.
I've been working on my own shit for awhile. I thought I was cool, but I'm starting to plex again.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14148303 - 03/19/11 02:52 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm not a smoker (cigs), but how would a swisher or something be? I do get a little lightheaded and kind less stressed.
Man, I got out of that shit awhile ago. I guess I just need an excuse to get fucked up.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14148315 - 03/19/11 03:00 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take a few shot bottles of good vodka. They sell 50 ml bottle at gas station here, very convient for the nervous boozer.
Bc
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Dude, try taking one or two hits of Mary. It won't fuck you up, but it'll loosen you up.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: fungivore]
#14149177 - 03/19/11 05:52 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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if you need drugs or something, it will probably tank soon if you get it off the launching pad.
Gotta be able to handle life sober.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Lennyk]
#14149257 - 03/19/11 06:12 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take some of those mini shooter bottle of 100 proof peppermint schnapps. It won't smell as offensive as most liquors, and will give you fresh breathe.
On a side note, I hope this is just the first date jitters. I would feel like shit if I knew someone had to be drunk to go on a date with me, haha. Perhaps it IS just an EXCUSE to get drunk again...
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Lennyk]
#14149259 - 03/19/11 06:13 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah man, dont drag her down into your shit.
Be a fucking good guy and dont even get involved.
Only a fucking screwball dipshit asshole jerkoff would get into a relationship in the state you're in.
Other people wont make you happy if you cant be happy on your own
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Quote:
Azure Essence said:
Yeah man, dont drag her down into your shit.
Be a fucking good guy and dont even get involved.
Only a fucking screwball dipshit asshole jerkoff would get into a relationship in the state you're in.
Other people wont make you happy if you cant be happy on your own
The bad thing is I WAS sober AND happy. Just when this happened I have a rush of all these emotions that I frankly can't handle. Nervousness, fear, anxiety, attraction. I can't handle them. I can handle normal emotions that come up, but not these extreme emotions though...
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14149623 - 03/19/11 07:32 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm happy single, but I'm not happy in a relationship, but I want a relationship.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14149802 - 03/19/11 08:13 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have faith in you, man.
Go in that shit sober and show yourself what's up.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Cynosure]
#14149831 - 03/19/11 08:20 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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You're not happy single if you cant even portray your single self to someone else without intoxication. Sorry, that's just how it works.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14149938 - 03/19/11 08:38 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I hate to always be the "don't be a pussy" guy, but don't be a pussy.
A first date is about as benign a stressor as you can get: it's an opportunity.
If you're committed to sobriety (if you know how many days you've been sober, you probably are), then the prospect of new pussy shouldn't be enough to force you back into the bottle.
Your sobriety is a fragile thing if that's the case.
On the other hand, social interactions are one of those times that alcohol really shines.
I've always liked slightly drunk me a lot better than sober me at parties, but full-on drunk me is a retarded asshole.
I guess there's no hard and fast response for this one, apparently.
If you need to stay sober (and you'll know if you do), then don't fuck it up over something way less serious that other things you'll have to face.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#14150565 - 03/19/11 10:38 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Fuck man. I was just plexing super bad earlier. I'm feeling super good, I'm going in fully sober, I'm kicking ass, and by the end of the night either we will be going out or I'll have another date.
Fuck that shit.
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14150823 - 03/19/11 11:25 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Fuck man. I was just plexing super bad earlier. I'm feeling super good, I'm going in fully sober, I'm kicking ass, and by the end of the night either we will be going out or I'll have another date.
Fuck that shit.
you got dis
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Re: First date...can't do it sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14150853 - 03/19/11 11:31 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Fuck man. I was just plexing super bad earlier. I'm feeling super good, I'm going in fully sober, I'm kicking ass, and by the end of the night either we will be going out or I'll have another date.
Fuck that shit.
For real homie.
Every time you take a Xanax, you think you need a Xanax.
Every time you drink, you think you need a drink.
In reality, you don't need shit. You got this.
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