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 Threesome last night 
#14047398 - 03/01/11 10:40 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ok so yesterday night I was in a threesome with this couple - basically fucking the guys girl with him.
Anyways long story short I know them sort of well, and thought both were into it. After we had finished and the guy has fallen asleep, the girl starts crying and saying how she feels like a slut and shit. And I guess the only reason she agreed to do it is because from what I could gather she is really messed up emotionally and is trying to win his love by doing shit like this for him.
Which of course made me feel like shit. Obviously I had no intention of using her and had I known I would never of agreed to but still that seriously 
Edited by Anonymous (03/01/11 10:41 AM)
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 numonkei
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...Why do threesomes with people who actually know each other or are in romantic couples so rarely work.
I'm sorry for you, but don't let it weigh too much on your conscience, it sounds as if you did not take advantage.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: numonkei]
#14047421 - 03/01/11 10:48 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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So two of you learned something important last night. Too bad that motherfucker passed out, otherwise he'd have been in on the learning as well.
Sucks man, but at least now you know that there's often something iffy about threesome invites.
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DieCommie
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Obviously I had no intention of using her...
At the risk of sounding insensitive... What exactly did you think you were doing? You were using her for sex right?
Anyway, sounds like a shitty deal. Hope she gets some help and self-respect back.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: DieCommie]
#14047584 - 03/01/11 11:34 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Obviously I had no intention of using her...
At the risk of sounding insensitive... What exactly did you think you were doing? You were using her for sex right?
Anyway, sounds like a shitty deal. Hope she gets some help and self-respect back.
They both approached me and said they both wanted to do it and it was really sexy and they were both on board 100%.
When someone says that I assumed they both meant it - not that she was just going along with it to try to win his love.
So no I had no intention of using her. It was supposed to be a fun night of sex where both everyone was totally on board.
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Maybe the girl should be honest with her man? It's not his fault she gave consent to a threesome when she didn't want to have one.
On the other hand, that guy could have seriously pressured her behind the scenes.
I wouldn't feel too bad though OP, it's not your fault nor your problem. Still sucks to see a girl cry.
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Man I don't know about that shit. What guy wants another guy smashing his chick as far as a threesome goes? I can see him wanting to bring another girl into the mix, but I don't think I'd get ANY gratification AT ALL from fucking my girl along with some other dude.
If the dude is a close friend of mine and the girl is a temporary girlfriend, that's different. Same thing for if the guy is a close friend and I don't know the girl, or if all three of us don't know each other.
But again, what guy would come to his girl and be like "baby I need to fuck you while you've got another dick inside of you."
Beats me man.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: Humility]
#14049594 - 03/01/11 06:38 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Some guys actually would be turned on by that. I have heard and seen it.
OP, you should not beat yourself up too much. From what you said I feel kind of bad for this girl, but the problem is really hers. I assume she was an adult and not coerced by anything other than her own emotion.
(And that assumption could be wrong, in which case my opinion would change.)
But she should talk to her partner if she wants to make her relationship work.
You should tread carefully around these two.
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DieCommie
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So no I had no intention of using her. It was supposed to be a fun night of sex where both everyone was totally on board.
To me, it sounds like all of you were using each other for sex. The guys were ok with being used for sex, she was not. Thats generally how it is I think.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: DieCommie] 1
#14050017 - 03/01/11 07:52 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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DieCommie said:
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So no I had no intention of using her. It was supposed to be a fun night of sex where both everyone was totally on board.
To me, it sounds like all of you were using each other for sex. The guys were ok with being used for sex, she was not. Thats generally how it is I think.
I disagree. I've known lots of girls who are plenty okay with being used for sex.
But sounds like this one wasn't. Though technically, she was using the sex to manipulate her partner, and admitted to such.
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Well this may stray me away from doing this also, but probably not. One of my closest friends has this girl who likes him a lot, and he convinced her that she would want to have a threesome with me and him. It started out not serious, he just wanted to see if he could, but now im pretty sure she'd be down for it just to please him which is a little funny but at the same time a little sad.
If the opportunity presented itself, yeah sure what the hell, im secure enough with my friend to do it and it would be a good story. But i also have a bi girl so ide rather just get my threesome v card out of the way with 2 chicks.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: dageo18]
#14058699 - 03/03/11 10:07 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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dageo18 said:
Well this may stray me away from doing this also, but probably not. One of my closest friends has this girl who likes him a lot, and he convinced her that she would want to have a threesome with me and him. It started out not serious, he just wanted to see if he could, but now im pretty sure she'd be down for it just to please him which is a little funny but at the same time a little sad.
If the opportunity presented itself, yeah sure what the hell, im secure enough with my friend to do it and it would be a good story. But i also have a bi girl so ide rather just get my threesome v card out of the way with 2 chicks.
Don't let this post convince you not too - I have had some AWESOME amazing threesomes too.
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CidneyIndole solid advice.
Threesomes or group fun should be done only to add to an already great relationship and will never fix a broken one.
I've had a few threesomes some with people I dated some randoms and my current live in girlfriend. Both male and female.
Nothing wrong with explore your sexual desires and yes when you first do it. Might bring up issues. Its not for everyone.
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Re: Threesome last night [Re: trekie]
#14059542 - 03/03/11 01:47 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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threesomes are almost always weird afterwords. she was not ready for what she did, not your fault. if you know her well try to support her and tell her to be honest with her man, if you don't know her well, let it be .
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