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 acidxprincess
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 i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 *DELETED* 
#13796129 - 01/16/11 12:45 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Post deleted by acidxprincessReason for deletion: dont need anymore advice. it just reminds me of how much i miss him.
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"what do you call Discovery?
I call it rape of the natural world."
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 audiophoenix
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 Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: acidxprincess]
#13796172 - 01/16/11 12:54 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Guess that kinda backfired eh?
The only thing that will fix this is time. You may never get over him but it will get easier. Just whatever you do do not get in another serious relationship right away. When you are with someone for that long your personalities really get tied together and when they leave you lose a piece of who you are. You need time to become whole again. Do not try to get him back because if he is with someone else then he is moving on. He may someday discover that he misses you and want's you back but you really should not wait for that. I feel like losing the one you love is just as traumatizing as someone dieing that you love. Hang in there it will get better, it will only get easier as time goes on.
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mylfgur
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: acidxprincess]
#13796198 - 01/16/11 01:01 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Did he lie about something very serious? Let me preface by saying that I don't know anything about your personal situation.
I can understand breaking off the relationship if he truly hurt you, but, honestly, guys lie sometimes about stupid shit because we know what kind of reaction a woman would have. I don't mean to be condescending but if it was a petty breakup maybe he just got tired of your behavior and did something petty of his own. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way.
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bigmike7104
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: audiophoenix]
#13796215 - 01/16/11 01:05 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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If he really cared about you I don't think he would get over you in 3 days, but I could be wrong. If you feel you shouldn't have broke it off then go talk and see how he feels, couldn't hurt.
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acidxprincess
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: mylfgur]
#13796233 - 01/16/11 01:08 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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mylfgur said:
Did he lie about something very serious? Let me preface by saying that I don't know anything about your personal situation.
I can understand breaking off the relationship if he truly hurt you, but, honestly, guys lie sometimes about stupid shit because we know what kind of reaction a woman would have. I don't mean to be condescending but if it was a petty breakup maybe he just got tired of your behavior and did something petty of his own. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way.
pretty sure hell never talk to me again. so kinda cant. plus i know he wouldnt give a fuck about it.
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"what do you call Discovery?
I call it rape of the natural world."
"Too weird to live..
Too rare to die"
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Caribbean_Commanch
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: bigmike7104]
#13796259 - 01/16/11 01:15 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Everyone has their method for getting over a serious ex-relationship. Some will dive into another to distract them, like he did. For me I've never gotten over a couple serious ones myself. It does become easier with time though. Gotta adapt & overcome. Hang out with some real friends maybe, & I mean those friends who will knock you over the head when you start to dwell too much. Or make a guy friend. Doesn't need to be all sexual, funk nasty type of friendship either. Just someone who will respect you & doesn't mind getting you through the bad trip. Do be careful not to take advice from that miserable friend(s) that always botch relationship too. I wouldn't sweat it though, in a lil' while you'll be right as rain
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amilibertine
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: Caribbean_Commanch]
#13797065 - 01/16/11 04:21 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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If he got with someone in just 3 days it's likely he was already cheating or thinking about cheating. I don't think 3 days is realistic to already be with someone else after a 2 year serious relationship. I could be wrong though.
Stay strong, even though you feel like shit right now most likely you'll look back and realize he wasn't worth your time anyways. Especially if he moved on that fast, sounds like he would've left you or hurt you worse at some point anyways.
There are many fish in the sea ya know?
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: acidxprincess] 2
#13798038 - 01/16/11 07:30 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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acidxprincess said:
he was my twilight buddy and my pooping buddy.
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acidxprincess
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: deCypher]
#13798107 - 01/16/11 07:42 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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deCypher said:
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acidxprincess said:
he was my twilight buddy and my pooping buddy.
lolol we were comfortable with eachother and he always took me to the openings of the second and third one haha he even bought the third one for me for xmas cause it was our thing.
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"what do you call Discovery?
I call it rape of the natural world."
"Too weird to live..
Too rare to die"
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: acidxprincess]
#13798122 - 01/16/11 07:46 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just remind yourself why you're not with him anymore. He lied to you and broke that trust. If he hasn't learned, he'll only break this girl's trust too. Go meet new people, new surroundings, new guys. Find someone to just share some time with, not a serious fling. Be yourself and have fun. Now's the time to rediscover yourself and develop a better understanding of who you are.
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: meatcakeman]
#13798177 - 01/16/11 07:58 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ahh..girls and the ammunition they use against us men that backfire.
Why would you even break up with someone if you're going to regret it, breaking up usually means its final.
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Kid_Orgo
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: acidxprincess] 1
#13798179 - 01/16/11 07:58 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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acidxprincess said:
he lied to me about something so i broke it off to give him a lesson.
Lying is a sign of a bad or immature relationship and breaking up and getting back together is for high-schoolers. Trying to "teach people lessons" and other spite, too.
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well he found someone else in 3 days. I'm so hurt you don't understand
It's heartbreak, everyone's been there.
Do yourself a favor and don't fill the space with some other vapid asshole to put off getting okay with yourself. Being involved in an endless series of relationships is just as pathetic and pointless as being unable to hold a relationship together.
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: Kid_Orgo]
#13799385 - 01/16/11 11:30 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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im hear to apply for the role of interim, vapid asshole.
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whitelight7
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Re: i need some serious advice on how to get over my first love</3 [Re: rodfarva]
#13799967 - 01/17/11 01:16 AM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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I do not mean to offend but, if you "broke it off to teach him a lesson", that does not strike me as that serious of a relationship. Although, you obviously loved him and now it's over. I know, that sucks.
I got out of a 5 yr one. Within 3 days, she had someone else; broke my heart, but I kept going and so will you. (although, I bet Twilight people are more prone to suicide  )
You're just going to have to move one. It helps if you stay strong and stop seeing that person for a while. Best of luck. 
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