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 slowgsr
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 Texting in a new relationship? 
#13488474 - 11/15/10 06:14 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hey everyone.
I've been 'single' since March of 2010. I left my previous girlfriend and was well over her before I left her. I started dating shortly after we split.
So, since then I've dated probably 15 girls, when I say dated, I mean.. gone out with a couple times. I have no trouble meeting girls, and most of the time, the girl ended up being very interested, I've never liked letting them down, so I usually end things after just a couple dates. Im really picky
Anyways, recently I've met a girl that im actually really interested in, and we have gone out 3 times in the past 2 weeks, Its actually been slighly less then 2 weeks.
Back when I was younger like.. 18-19-20 I would always CALL girls, I would never think of texting them, but I dated a few girls after that who kind of always texted, always.. they prefered it. All my friends text, technology has changed so much, and everyone sends mass texts, emails etc.
The girl im seeing now, I know she is interested, theres no question about it, but.. Is there a problem with texting for funny conversation, simple convo's and setting up plans? Anything long or of any importance I save for face to face. The only problem with calling is I have little privacy, and its long distance.. even though shes only 20minutues driving distance away.
Anyways. Comments? What do you all think?
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hailtothethief
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: slowgsr]  2
#13488488 - 11/15/10 06:16 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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make sure you do the smiley face 
girls fucking love the smiley face.
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slowgsr
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You better believe I do the smiley face 
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: slowgsr]
#13488565 - 11/15/10 06:35 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'd like it more if a guy took the time to call me. Its more personal and involves taking a few minutes of your time which shows that I would be worth that. If that makes sense.
Thats just me. 
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tito123
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: TTT]
#13488699 - 11/15/10 07:05 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I like calling. With a text, they can show all their friends or whatever. I just don't dig that.
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: tito123]
#13489037 - 11/15/10 08:05 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mix that shit up, mayne.
Text her ass for a while, then shock that bitch with a phone call. 
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slowgsr
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13494814 - 11/16/10 09:23 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah.
Who knows what will happen with this girl anyways. I just live life one day at a time for the most part, and whatever happens is meant to be I suppose.
In the end, I am looking for a relationship.. Not a fling, or anything else. However, im looking for a relationship that will make me happy, if it ends up not working out, Im never disapointed.
So yeah.. I guess that was my rant.
Thanks for the advice, Ill continue to text.
Ill see her again on Friday, the only problem with texting is theres no body language or very little. So, anything serious should be discussed face to face. I don't make that mistake, Ill see what kind of vibes I get Friday
This is end of rant.
Cheers everyone.
Edited by slowgsr (11/16/10 09:26 PM)
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: slowgsr]
#13495329 - 11/16/10 11:12 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Not now.
Shit, Twittering will probably be a flirting device soon enough. Anyway you can both provide 'those vibes' is flirting, thus, yeah. You already got this.
~Monk
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: TTT]
#13523983 - 11/22/10 01:55 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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i think you're the exception to the rule now a days TTT.
i still think the first contact after getting her # should be a phone call, but after that first conversation it seems like everything is via text now
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alexithymia
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Quote:
hailtothethief said:
make sure you do the smiley face
girls fucking love the smiley face.
Truth.
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: alexithymia]
#13531697 - 11/23/10 08:39 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Mix that shit up, mayne.
Text her ass for a while, then shock that bitch with a phone call.
text her. Its good, you can come up with little lies and exagerations. but surprise her with phone calls. Dont stay on the phone forever. Say your a guy and you can only be on so long. or just say u got to go. so basically do both. either way never give in, never surrender
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Re: Texting in a new relationship? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13533789 - 11/24/10 05:39 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Mix that shit up, mayne.
Text her ass for a while, then shock that bitch with a phone call.
You brought dick too!!
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