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 My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. 
#13507821 - 11/19/10 08:36 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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She used to buy him lunch everyday and he would always give her free vicodin pills. They never spend time together outside of work tho.
Should I be worried? Is she cheating?
It pisses me the fuck off that she was buying this guy lunch everyday! Treating him like he's her boyfriend.'WTF? Emotional affair?
What should I do? What would you do?
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 Doc_T
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13507843 - 11/19/10 08:46 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Don't sweat it. People end up close to co-workers sometimes, it's not a threat to your relationship.
Jealousy is though.
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Fleadh
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Doc_T]
#13507851 - 11/19/10 08:50 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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The buying lunch is weird but yea, what doc said.
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I just dont really care what you think
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Doc_T]
#13507860 - 11/19/10 08:57 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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How do I know thisbe just a friendship.
Personaly, if a girl I worked with was buying me lunch every day I'd think she wants more than a friendship. And I do not just hand out free vicodin to my friends.
My gut feeling tells me his is more than a normal friendship. But they don't spend time together outside of work so they can't take things farther unless she's getting out early and going to his place after work.
Another thing I should add is that this guy is married too.
I'm thinking about putting a gps tracker on her car to get some real answers but fuck...$200.
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Doc_T
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13507863 - 11/19/10 09:00 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Lunch for vicodin sounds fair.
Do they take turns buying lunch? Is it EVERY day?
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Doc_T]
#13507875 - 11/19/10 09:05 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm not completely sure.
I found out because a friend of mine works with them and one day he sent Me a text saying
"do you know your girl buys Jon lunch every Fucking day?"
So it was odd enough that my friend felt he had to let me know about it. When I asked him if there was anything going on between them he said "'IDK I don't think so"
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13507878 - 11/19/10 09:07 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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And I doubt his guy ever buys her lunch.
He never has any money because he's got kids.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13507928 - 11/19/10 09:33 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can tell you these things never end well.
I can also tell you that the paranoia, jealousy, and speculation will break you if you allow it.
Edited by Anonymous (11/19/10 09:39 AM)
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 hailtothethief
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13507941 - 11/19/10 09:38 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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the fact that your friend said something means that their relationship probably doesn't seem just "friendly". Having said that, this summer I had a girl I worked with make me awesome sandwiches all the time, and we were just friends.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: hailtothethief]
#13507945 - 11/19/10 09:40 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
hailtothethief said:
the fact that your friend said something means he's a jealous douchebag and not a friend.
Agreed.
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meams
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#13507966 - 11/19/10 09:45 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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RP: This situation would definitely irk me. I have a inherent distrust for things like this due to past situations, but still. Buying him lunch EVERY day? I'd just ask her about it. Be like "look, my friend sent me this text, i was wholly unaware, is this anything I shoudl be worried about?"
and then (and this is the KEY) GAUGE HER REACTION.
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Doc_T
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: meams]
#13507973 - 11/19/10 09:47 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Why would he talk to her when he can put a GPS locator on her? 
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Doc_T]
#13507989 - 11/19/10 09:52 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh, I don't know, probably because conversation & openness is the key to a functioning relationship.
hahaha. GPS.
OP: talk to your girlfriend, or dump her - becuase it won't work out in the long run if conversation is nonexistant.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13508053 - 11/19/10 10:14 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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harmless flirtation if anything. don't sweat it duuude.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: meams]
#13508219 - 11/19/10 11:11 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
meams said:
Buying him lunch EVERY day? I'd just ask her about it. Be like "look, my friend sent me this text, i was wholly unaware, is this anything I shoudl be worried about?"
and then (and this is the KEY) GAUGE HER REACTION.
I did ask her about it the day I found out.
Her response was that it's not every single day and that sometimes he buys her lunch when she doesn't have money. And she says my friend just said that because he's a moron trying to start trouble.
When I started talking about her doing stuff with this guy Ashe immediately got pissed off and freaked out.
We got in a big fight and I let her know how I feel and we eventually made up.
I don't know tho... My gut feeling says something isn't right./.
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13508224 - 11/19/10 11:12 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Humans are selfish and sexual.
You've been warned
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13508244 - 11/19/10 11:17 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh, and the thing that REALY pissed me off about the whole situation is that we didn't even have money to buy groceries that weekend and I find out she's spending all her money buying this guy at work lunch!!!
I was so pissed! 
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13508457 - 11/19/10 12:09 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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slit her throat
its the only way
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Hologram
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: yogabunny]
#13508465 - 11/19/10 12:12 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
yogabunny said:
harmless flirtation if anything. don't sweat it duuude.
im a "harmless" flirter too 
relationships are tough. Peopel cheat....once you can get over that youll be a lot happier. I just figure everytime i see my girl that she just got done blowing a bunch dudes with bigger penises than me.
it makes the truth easier to handle 
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Re: My GF is extremely friendly with one of her co-workers. [Re: Hologram]
#13508537 - 11/19/10 12:30 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Hologram said:
Quote:
yogabunny said:
harmless flirtation if anything. don't sweat it duuude.
im a "harmless" flirter too
relationships are tough. Peopel cheat....once you can get over that youll be a lot happier. I just figure everytime i see my girl that she just got done blowing a bunch dudes with bigger penises than me.
it makes the truth easier to handle
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