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 Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! 
#13377161 - 10/23/10 07:34 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ok I don't know what's up with me but ugh!
I recently showed my girlfriend some porn ... some Mandingo lol. Just for humor reasons (cause he's so big!) We don't watch porn together and it's really not an issue between us if we watch it separately (or so I thought... on my end). We haven't discussed it much.
I then after (cause she was going to work) said that when she got home she would probably watch some Mandingo porn (jokingly). (we don't live together)
This was two days ago. Well today she told me that she actually went home that night and watched some Mandingo. She said her mind wasn't in it (to masturbate) so she watched it to get her mind on the same level as her body.
When she told me this (she was at my house at the time) I said that what she told me made me feel weird and turned me off and that I would drive her home.
I don't know, I don't have the biggest dick, it's average and I'm inferior in the sack, lol (to what I want to be).
This... iunno. Really turned me off and made me feel bad. And I know it's normal to watch it and I've watched it in the past... but it just... made my brain do something and react when she told me.
Would you guys feel weird or what's up?
Damn this sucks... sorry for all the parentheses by the way.
Edited by Anonymous (10/23/10 07:41 PM)
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 Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13377181 - 10/23/10 07:40 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Show her some cuckold porn with Mandingo.
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 I_was_the_walrus
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Anonymous #1]  3
#13377191 - 10/23/10 07:41 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Meh. Do you think it makes her feel bad that you wank it to insanely smokin hot naked blondes?
There's no point in having sexual insecurities. You both are who you are. You either live with that, or let it eat at you inside. Its your choice
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
#13378098 - 10/23/10 11:55 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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So... you're pissed that your girlfriend used porn to get off?
  
If she has orgasms when you fuck her, shut up and quit being gay.
If she doesn't, learn how to make a girl cum.
It's
fucking
easy.
With any size dick.
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Krash Kharma]
#13378746 - 10/24/10 03:02 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Your turned off because a large part of your attraction to her is based on the idea that she was giving you something more than you reciprocated to her, in the context of sex. Now that you realize that she is actually interested in sex, you feel as if you want to get to know her more, not just fuck her.
This is where the fun part begins - just ask whatever you feel and be honest in doing and you might just find that you are more attracted to her than before.
Try and tell her why you feel this lack of attraction after the event for example and how you think it should be handled.
That's alot to take, but I feel confident you can handle it.
Cheers
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Krash Kharma]
#13379188 - 10/24/10 07:29 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Krash Kharma said:
If she has orgasms when you fuck her, shut up and quit being gay.
If she doesn't, learn how to make a girl cum.
It's
fucking
easy.
With any size dick.
I'm with this one. I used to be really insecure in my relationships because of some fucking-overs I've received in the psat -- but ever since I've been in a place where I'm extremely proud of my sexual abilities, I have zero worries about my girl wanting or going anywhere else to get her sexual release.
Learn to fuck her like a champ. Be mindful of where her Gspot is, where your dick is, and the frequency with which you pass over it. Once you start getting good at making her cum, just make a game out of it:
--"OK, I'm not goign to let myself nut until she cums twice"
--"OK, I'm not going to let myself nut until she cums three times"
--OK, I'm goign to get her off with some oral, then give her AT LEAST two orgasms with my dick"
Nowadays she never gets less than three really  , unless its been a hot minute since we've fucked and i'm really excited. Practice makes perfecttttt
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: meams]
#13379510 - 10/24/10 11:19 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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^^^listen to this man
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Krash Kharma]
#13379765 - 10/24/10 12:49 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I figured I'd add this little tip (pun intended):
If you're working on building your stamina, there will undoubtedly be some times where you're both winding up, and you can tell she's going to start cumming within the next 15-30 seconds, but you feel like you're definitely going to nut within the next 5....
...In that situation, lean in close, pull your dick out until just the very tip is on the cusp of her vagina, and whisper "ooooooh i'm not going to let you get off that easily, i'ma build this one up" - and then for the next 30 seconds or a minute, move JUST the head of your dick in and out of the entrance of her vag slowly. Every time you slip the tip in, give her a little squeeze (remember, you're whispering in her ear and holding her close). While your'e doing this: Flex your PC muscle to make your dick throb - she'll love it (your PC muscle is the one you would use to stop piss mid-stream).
Do this until your heartrate has subsided and your not going to nut yourself, then gradually speed back up and insert a little more of your dick with every pump (by the time you get it all the way in with some digging, she'll be ready to burst).
let me know how it works out 
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: meams]
#13383648 - 10/25/10 05:17 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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That doesn't work for me.
All the most sensitive spots on my dick get overwhelmed by just having the tip in
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: Krash Kharma]
#13383671 - 10/25/10 05:29 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Krash Kharma said:
That doesn't work for me.
All the most sensitive spots on my dick get overwhelmed by just having the tip in
Not to mention your rubbing it past the tightest part of the vagina.
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: CycleThoughts]
#13385643 - 10/25/10 05:23 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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You don't revert to that right as you're about to nut -- just when its building. The drastic decrease in speed (from fast - since you're both getting worked up to very slow) will usually be enough to calm the storm for a while.
to each their own
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Re: Fight with girlfriend over porn - she watched it! [Re: meams]
#13386407 - 10/25/10 08:09 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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As cliche as it sounds, I think of baseball and not just baseball in general, I think about if I had a runner on second with no outs and I'm down by 2 runs, with the count 3-1, do I try to advance the runner to third on a bunt.
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