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 Broken condom woes 
#13248256 - 09/26/10 09:40 AM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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Long story short, I've been hitting it off with this new chick for a few weeks now. We had been building up to sex for a while, but never did anything with her pussy until last night.
We had been drinking, and she decided she really wanted to fuck me. All good and well. I put on a condom (just bought, havent used condoms in like 2 years because i had a steady girlfriend). We start fucking, and probably about 5 minutes in, I pull out of her in doggy and see that the condom is torn up. Not only has it broken at the base around the ring, but the the top is completely ripped open.
This is the first time I have ever had a condom break on me, so I was like oh shit and laid back for a second. This is when I notice something's up; she's gotten really quiet. I tell her not to worry since I wasn't even close to busting. It takes her a minute and then she says "that's not the problem. I have HPV."
I'm drunk, but still taken aback and start to internally panic. While I know a bit about most STDs, I have never been exposed to or even thought I may potentially contract one. She said she "was going to tell me some other time, she didn't think the condom was gonna break.." I start asking questions, then she gets all embarrassed and leaves (she lives like 3 doors down).
So, the rest of the night I get to sit there and mull this one over. I did a bunch of research on the internet, and confirmed many of the things that she had told me.
Basically, her ex-boyfriend cheated on her and brought HPV into the relationship. A pap smear came back abnormal, and doctors determined she had a high-risk strain of HPV. There are over 100 different documented strains of the virus. High-risk ones generally lead to cervical cancer, while low-risk strains are associated with genital warts. She has a high-risk strain.
So basically, I just need to know where I go from here. Obviously, HPV isn't going to directly cause any ill effects in my body (I'm a healthy 20 year old, should be able to fight it off in like a year or two).. I'm just more concerned with
(1) Would a minute or two inside of her with a broken condom be sufficient enough time to be certain that I contracted it? There is no real way to test myself; the only way I could know for sure is to have unprotected sex with another girl and see if it transfers, which I obviously wouldn't do..
(2) Do I need to man up and tell every girl that I am ever with from now on that I have HPV, even if I am wearing a condom? Of course I would never want to intentionally expose anyone to an STD, but I have read that the majority of the population contracts HPV at some point and that using effective protection (condom that doesnt break) prevents transfer.
(3) Should I keep banging this girl? I would wear condoms (bigger ones) still, I just don't see the point in denying myself this sexy 23 year old, especially now that I have already been exposed to her without a working condom.
I'd really appreciate some honest advice, preferably from those of you with some experience in matters such as these.
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 wellage
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Registered: 01/31/09
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Get yourself tested. If you are putting ladies into a position of catching cancer, i'd say you're morally obliged to minimize that happening at least, if not full disclosure (even though she wasn't so nice to you).
And by all means please keep hitting that.
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 ComputerTekGuy
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Registered: 01/15/07
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 Re: Broken condom woes [Re: wellage]
#13248428 - 09/26/10 10:51 AM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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There isnt really a good way to test for HPV in guys.
HPV is contracted through mucus membranes. Condoms dont really protect you from HPV despite common belief. Comes from skin to skin contact and that can be any skin in the infected area (leg to leg, ball sack to butt hole), This is why up to 80% of the population will contract a form of HPV in their life.
Some people are completely immune to the virus. The immune system can take care of it rather quickly and you'd never see no signs or symptoms. Other times it'll linger for a few months and you'll get flu like symptoms for a couple days.
For men, most HPV viruses are like catching a cold, and doesnt hurt us long term. And if your good and healthy everything will be suppressed by the immune system. Hell, plantar warts are HPV
relax
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Anonymous #1
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thanks a lot for setting me at ease.
i guess my only concern now is how to approach the subject with women. is it necessary to share this with any potential partner if i show absolutely no signs or symptoms and wear a condom?
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PowerTrip
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Registered: 03/07/05
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OP I wouldn't worry about it. First of all, even if the condom didn't break you probably would have caught it from her eventually. It's that contagious. Secondly, the "high-risk" strains are less of a problem for men because we only very very rarely get any cancers from them.
I personally was regularly fucking a girl who eventually told me she had three strains of HPV, one high risk and one wart causing strain and I never experienced any negative effect whatsoever. I began taking EGCG (green tea extract) as soon as I found out though. I'm not sure if I just have resistance to the virus or if the tea extract helped. EGCG is FDA approved to treat both warts and HPV, as well as kill the cancer cells HPV can cause. If I were you I would just start taking some and keep fucking her. Use a rubber if you want but that is so contagious I don't think it matters to be honest. A study from Rutgers found even long-term partners who use condoms every time end up inevitably both having the virus, and it also stated that the average time to clear it is only 8 months in most people.
I think it's important for you to tell her you are cool with it, you understand, the virus is highly contagious and you don't think she's "dirty" or anything like that. You can still have a relationship with her if you want it.
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and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
Edited by PowerTrip (09/26/10 01:32 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Broken condom woes [Re: PowerTrip]
#13248903 - 09/26/10 01:39 PM (2 years, 7 months ago) |
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thanks, it's really comforting to hear i'm not the only one in this position. I'll start taking the EGCG for sure, and advise that she does the same.
i'm really relieved that this didn't turn into some "eww that dirty bitch.." thread, as she really isn't that type of girl. i'm the first guy shes banged since she figured out she was HPV+. it sucks that she has it, but i guess thats the world these days.
thanks again for all the advice
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PowerTrip
Polypharmaceutical Shaman
Registered: 03/07/05
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Last seen: 7 months, 17 days
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
i'm really relieved that this didn't turn into some "eww that dirty bitch.." thread, as she really isn't that type of girl. i'm the first guy shes banged since she figured out she was HPV+. it sucks that she has it, but i guess thats the world these days.
Statistically something like 80%-90% of people come into contact with the virus at some point in their life. The strains even get in your mouth and throat from kissing. You might have even been in contact with it already and never even knew it.
People who make a big deal out of HPV are simply unaware of the facts.
Definitely get the EGCG though. That shit is good for you regardless of HPV.
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I spit reality, instead of what you usually learn
and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
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