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 Girls with vibes 
#12870817 - 07/09/10 03:25 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Say your girl suggests bringing a vibe to bed with you, what do you think? Is this offensive? What if she can only get off using a vibe?
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You tell your woman that it cant contain batteries unless you get to bring another chick to bed with you because thats the only way that YOU can get off. You might have to settle for sex doll.  fuck it, either way that seems like a valid argument.
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 PowerTrip
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Most women just don't get off as easily as men. I'd be totally cool with her wanting to use it on herself while I fucked her.
If it turned in to something like her using it after sex because she can't get off during sex with it I would start to think her issue is more likely being uncomfortable with intimacy.
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Anonymous #1
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 Re: Girls with vibes [Re: PowerTrip]
#12873247 - 07/09/10 05:06 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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She just says that she can't get off unless with the vibe. She says she would rather use that than faking orgasms. I am not embarassed or angry I just wanted to know if this was normal or something. We haven't been dating very long and just started getting sexual
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Anonymous #2
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you must insist on drysmashing the shitbox
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Anonymous #3
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You should try letting her use the vibe while you have sex, you might enjoy it too... otherwise suggest a vibrating cock-ring (Might be good compromise) :P
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iluvfungi
Registered: 06/18/09
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Ah, instead of fighting it; participate. Use the vibe on her. Girls that have difficulty orgasming often need more foreplay. Other chicks are just kinky and like using that as well. Maybe try playing porn while having sex.
Or do something like let her orgasm with the vibe, then screw her. It's way easier to make a girl cum after she already did.
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yogabunny
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
She just says that she can't get off unless with the vibe. She says she would rather use that than faking orgasms. I am not embarassed or angry I just wanted to know if this was normal or something. We haven't been dating very long and just started getting sexual
lots of women have difficulty reaching orgasm through intercourse for whatever reason....you should use it on her and see how that works, and keep exploring and experimenting until you can phase it out and she's not faking it anymore.
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Doc_T
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Registered: 03/06/09
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: iluvfungi]
#12879132 - 07/10/10 08:24 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
iluvfungi said:
Ah, instead of fighting it; participate. Use the vibe on her. Girls that have difficulty orgasming often need more foreplay. Other chicks are just kinky and like using that as well.
Or do something like let her orgasm with the vibe, then screw her. It's way easier to make a girl cum after she already did.
My first gf rarely orgasmed from intercourse. Vibrator, oral, manual all woked fine.
She was satisfied and I was too.
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Penelope_Tree
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: Doc_T]
#12879956 - 07/10/10 11:25 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Doc_T said:
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iluvfungi said:
Ah, instead of fighting it; participate. Use the vibe on her. Girls that have difficulty orgasming often need more foreplay. Other chicks are just kinky and like using that as well.
Or do something like let her orgasm with the vibe, then screw her. It's way easier to make a girl cum after she already did.
My first gf rarely orgasmed from intercourse. Vibrator, oral, manual all woked fine.
She was satisfied and I was too.
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Doc_T
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Once in a while she'd come while on top. And maybe twice in doggy position- which she loved all the time.
Came once when I was sucking her nipples, that was cool.
But the magic wand was her first lover.
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BothHands
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Obviously you're not doing it right, so she's going to do it herself. If you're getting off, she deserves to get off too.
Edit: Ok, re-reading your OP, and reading my post again, that sounds a bit harsh. Some women do just have a difficult time getting off. But if she needs it, let her use it. I don't see the problem.
Edited by BothHands (07/10/10 11:35 PM)
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noticeofeviction
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: BothHands]
#12880781 - 07/11/10 03:01 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Communication
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sun_spots
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I just recently discovered that using a vibrator is NOT uncommon... I had always thought it was something chicks did if they couldn't get off any other way. Guess I was wrong.
Never used toys myself till I got together with my fiance, but then we decided to take a trip to the porn shop just to look around & ended up buying a couple of things. Now we bust out the ol' silver bullet from time to time just for fun. And believe me, it is fun - for both of us! Whether I'm using it on myself while he watches, or he's using it on me while we do other stuff, it feels good for me & looks good for him. Win-win. 
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mivski
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Registered: 06/20/10
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: sun_spots]
#12911634 - 07/17/10 03:20 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, silver bullet is fun, and not 'threatening' if you're a guy... lots of fun to use on your woman. (Combined with some :p /  )
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nikkim
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: mivski]
#12911711 - 07/17/10 03:43 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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If she can get there with the help of a vibrator she can get there without it. Trick is learning how to get her there. All I'm gonna say...CLITORIAL STIMULATION LoL
Let her use it but try to learn how to get here there with your hands and mouth one day.
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mongo lloyd
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: nikkim]
#12912094 - 07/17/10 05:17 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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As long as the vibes are hetty, it's ok. No bad vibes plz.
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Anonymous #1
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She says she's been using a vibe to get off since she was 13 and that was more than 10 years ago...I think she's hooked
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Doc_T
Random Dude
Registered: 03/06/09
Posts: 42,395
Loc: Colorado
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Re: Girls with vibes [Re: Doc_T]
#12914424 - 07/18/10 08:06 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
She says she's been using a vibe to get off since she was 13 and that was more than 10 years ago...I think she's hooked
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Doc_T said: But the magic wand was her first lover.
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