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 GutteralRetch
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 Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend 
#12542809 - 05/11/10 11:37 AM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Recently I had took a relationship to the next level, commitment.
We started talking a year ago, and finally met about 2 months ago. Since then, we've been inseperatable and she's amazing. (wifey material, really). She's nurturing, caring, cooks (  ) everything I really wanted. There's more, but this thread isn't about my love-life.
From the begining, she knew of my ways... Knew that every 2-3 months I'll eat the flesh of the gods and discover myself. Her, on the other hand, has only smoked weed once or twice, and that's all. Last week she had a dream that we took lsd together and had an amazing time. My reaction was, "oh yeah?" Lately its got me wondering.
How would someone introduce a first-timer into this situation? Is it a good idea? We're both level-headed, positive, and nothing bad is going on in our lives. We share everything together and was hoping to share this experience with her as well. (Taking mushrooms.)
Advice? Has anyone done this before?
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Has anyone else felt like this?
Edited by GutteralRetch (05/11/10 11:39 AM)
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ThatCat
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 Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12543010 - 05/11/10 12:19 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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I don't think it'd be a good idea to push anything, but if she wants to try them I would think you're best suited to guide her through the first time.
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GutteralRetch
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: ThatCat]
#12543068 - 05/11/10 12:30 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Well.. she mentioned it last week that she does want to try it with me.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: ThatCat]
#12543083 - 05/11/10 12:33 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Tripping has done nothing but strengthen our relationship.
She had only tripped a few times, and never in a good setting.
We    together!
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12543093 - 05/11/10 12:34 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Then by all means, I suppose. You know very well the mechanics so I'm sure she'll be fine even if she's not entire 100% on board (but goes through with it anyway).
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12543393 - 05/11/10 01:29 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Have an open conversation with her, probably several times. Let her know about the substance and let her make up her own mind. Don't be afraid to express your ideas of what could be really great about sharing the experience. Also, don't promise or guarantee her any certain outcome.
If you are having a hard time putting some of your experiences in to conversation, maybe you can share some of the reports posted here by others.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: CrayolaHalls]
#12543563 - 05/11/10 02:00 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Look, just start her off with a low dose like 1.5grams maybe 2 grams and then if she wants to take more u can give her more, it's that simple. No discomfort, no bad trips.
Oh and I'd also like to add that if she can drink a few beers while shes taking them that it should alleviate any anxiety if she's prone to worry. Assure her and tell her that people have been doing it for thousands of years bla bla u know how to comfort your girl I'm sure.
Edited by CrW (05/11/10 02:09 PM)
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GutteralRetch
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12543642 - 05/11/10 02:16 PM (2 years, 16 days ago) |
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Thanks guys.
Also, I was thinking about educating her how I did. My first interest in this was based off a few documentaries. The more I watched, the more I wanted to experience everything for myself. And I actually did find a great deal of "positive" lsd/mushroom documentaries.
What do you think?
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12547667 - 05/12/10 08:16 AM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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I think if you are a planner, then plan, but if you're spontaneous like me, just eat them!!!!
I had no clue what LSD was, other than Fear and Loathing when i popped 3 tabs oh so long ago.
Had a blast! I don't like planning my trips, other than setting a date.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: CrW]
#12549083 - 05/12/10 01:18 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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Quote:
CrW said:
Look, just start her off with a low dose like 1.5grams maybe 2 grams and then if she wants to take more u can give her more, it's that simple. No discomfort, no bad trips.
Oh and I'd also like to add that if she can drink a few beers while shes taking them that it should alleviate any anxiety if she's prone to worry. Assure her and tell her that people have been doing it for thousands of years bla bla u know how to comfort your girl I'm sure.
? i guess that's cool; if you like to give people half an experience
i mean; i only gave my girlfriend 2 grams and she was tripping; but at the same time
because i've done it more i'm sitting there like meh there's so much more i'd like to show you instead of just two grams
you know? no matter how hard you trip on one or two grams there's still moer to the basic psychedelic experience.. not talking about a huge trip or anything just saying that small doses of mushrooms are completely different than moderate to high doses and if you're trying to have her experience it fully i would suggest 3 grams; a lot of people suggest 3.5; some suggest 2.5; it's up to you since you know how potent the shrooms are you know your girl the best
if she's the type of girl that can just let go and say fuck it whatever happens happens then she'll be all right
ask her what she would do if she was in a car with no brakes flying down a free way about to die : would she freak out or would she be like "fuck there's nothing i can do.. i guess i'll just sit here and see what happens"
a beer or two could be cool, or it could dull the entire experience and she's only on 2 grams in the first place
or she could throw it up.. beer + fungus in the stomach
i've seen it go both ways; people who enjoy it moer while drinking (they always throw up. and eveyrtime i've tripped and drank alcohol while tripping or beforehand or anything like that i will throw up too.. maybe not off one beer or anything but if i drink enough to get tipsy.. the whole your body being tipsy plus your whole world moving around thing can induce motion sickness)
i've got a friend who drinks from the time he wakes up to the time he passes out and has done this for the last 11 years and everytime he trips he drinks because drinking is his safe spot; he always has a GREAT TIME but he ALWAYS throws up.
he threw up on .8 grams and some vodka but swears he had fun
my sisters boyfriend had a seizure on half a pint of vodka + 2 grams of shrooms
(which is weird because this guy eats like 5 - 7 grams every time he trips with no black outs or freak outs)
blacked out fell on some concrete and started seizing up
i left my sister there to keep him from dying while i got water and then when i got back with water he was kind of coming around had no idea what just happened but his head hurt
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: fallenlsd]
#12549107 - 05/12/10 01:21 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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that dude who blacks out will also drink 2 5ths of vodka and just get drunk..
like this guy can handle bars + vodka without vomiting
and he can handle shrooms without vomiting
but as soon as he combined shrooms + vodka (and both of these tiny amounts) he blacked out and started having a seizure.. had to put soemthing in his mouth so he wouldn't bite his tongue off
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: fallenlsd]
#12549439 - 05/12/10 02:17 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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Yeah.. not to keen on mixing shrooms with much else (including alcohol). Probably because I'm not a big drinker myself. MY stomach is pretty sensitive to alcohol, meaning too fast = vomit. But shrooms, I've only thrown up once because I had a lot of food in my stomach at the time.
She definitely seems keen on the idea of the mushrooms already, but this: would she freak out or would she be like "fuck there's nothing i can do.. i guess i'll just sit here and see what happens" is 
Totally agree.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12549720 - 05/12/10 03:11 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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I would emphasize the "friend" over the "girl". Your relationship is going to change after tripping together, so start from a grounded place. I would not go for a low dose, and I would not mix in any alcohol or marijuana. Definitely avoid the marijuana. It seems to potentiate psychedelics in a chaotic way. I wish I'd known that when I was younger.
Also, make sure she owns her decision to trip. You don't want her trying to blame you if shit goes south, which is more likely if she doesn't own the decision to begin with.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: darkczar]
#12550320 - 05/12/10 04:35 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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Hey OP, I cant really give you advice right now, but I thought you should know you registered on the day I was born 
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: darkczar]
#12552797 - 05/12/10 10:54 PM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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Quote:
darkczar said:
I would emphasize the "friend" over the "girl". Your relationship is going to change after tripping together, so start from a grounded place. I would not go for a low dose, and I would not mix in any alcohol or marijuana. Definitely avoid the marijuana. It seems to potentiate psychedelics in a chaotic way. I wish I'd known that when I was younger.
Also, make sure she owns her decision to trip. You don't want her trying to blame you if shit goes south, which is more likely if she doesn't own the decision to begin with.
yeah too low of a dose she could just be like .. wtf ? i'm confused and don't know what's going on and i'm not really tripping, i don't really see the point ?
or at least ; have enough shrooms to where she can start with a low dose and then if it's not too intense and she'd like to go deeper she can eat more; just don't wait too long into the trip to eat more or it won't get more intense
i once lemon tek'd 1 gram and then i was tripping balls it was my first time lemon tekking and the shrooms were good and it was intense..
my friends dad had also ground up a full oz of shrooms and was passing plates around with shrooms on them and we'd just pick up a handful and eat it every time it came around
and then he accidentally brought out a plate of broken up weed and we were so high that we started eating weed thinking it was shrooms
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i didn't get your last post: were you saying that she would not freak out in a situation where she can't control what's going on?
because she needs to know that once she eats the shrooms anything that happens is going to happen and she can't stop it (BUT ITS NOT BAD) so she should just let it come and enjoy it
hence the car thing :P
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: mantis90]
#12554351 - 05/13/10 08:50 AM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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Hey OP, I cant really give you advice right now, but I thought you should know you registered on the day I was born
It's a sign, man! 
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12554405 - 05/13/10 09:05 AM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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If you both love and trust each other, then there should be know problem having a good time. You know your girlfriend way more than we do, knowing her allows you to know what makes her comfortable.
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12554438 - 05/13/10 09:13 AM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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Ok so I have been with my girl for 3 years come Sept.
Her first psychedelic experience was with me at Furthur in Charlotte.
We were sold some blotter as mescaline, turns out it was bomb ass acid. Yellow smiley faces.
Anyway, I took two and she took one at like midnight. (I was redosing, she wasn't) At first she was kinda tripping but over exaggerating it...but as the night went on and the acid was doing its work on her, she began to understand that tripping isn't "tangerine trees and marmalade skies" its something much deeper and more serious.
At six am she was sick of it and the swirling breathing visuals were bothering her. We laid in bed and I comforted her.
I was still tripping the next day at noon while we were in Waffle House. lol So it was some potent shit.
All in all it was a great bonding experience and even though she got a little freaked out we still came out of it a stronger couple. As long as you are there for her and comforting and understanding the only thing it can do is bring you guys closer together.
EDIT: I know mesc can't be laid on blotter, thought I was buying an RC.
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Edited by MkUltra25 (05/13/10 09:54 AM)
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: MkUltra25]
#12554596 - 05/13/10 09:44 AM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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Right on. You guys are amazing!
Good vibes!
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Re: Guiding a (First-Timer) Girlfriend [Re: GutteralRetch]
#12554850 - 05/13/10 10:34 AM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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Good vibes and good luck with whatever you decide to do 
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