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I just know I'd regret it as soon as I came.  every time I think of it when we get off or we talk dirty about it, I instantly snap back to reality.  I sure wouldn't mind a couple swap session someday.  I just dont knwo how it would be after.

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Anonymous #1 said:
I just know I'd regret it as soon as I came.  every time I think of it when we get off or we talk dirty about it, I instantly snap back to reality.  I sure wouldn't mind a couple swap session someday.  I just dont knwo how it would be after.

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It just is trying to tap into the biological drive for sperm wars when you see another male with your mate. The desire for the other male is probably just submissive desires, nothing wrong with that. 

Part of the problem is like with any sexual desire (especially in men) the dopamine rush says GO GO GO. Once satisfied for a moment and it drops after orgasm, the normal thoughts of "huh this was odd" or "ah shit what did I just do now" pop up, level off, and the rush to another orgasm of equal level will ensue.

Much sexual power can be utilized if one doesn't orgasm. The sexual frustration can get you, but the longer you go the easier it can get sometimes. Just a few days of being turned on, but not going to completion brings so much power. You might not be that much more mighty (not like I bench an extra 100lbs or something) but day to day stuff you charge through. Call it mind control or whatever, but when a girl grabs your head and grinds it against her pleasure before starting your day, you attack it with true male power.

Sex all the way is great, but the opiate like rush after orgasm takes away a certain push, and sometimes makes one irritable and tired. Orgasm is a powerful drug, and seems great a first, but it can really mess with your head.

My advice, go be a sex charged beast and only orgasm very infrequently. If you do it right, you should feel like you could take a battle axe through a steel door. Or if you are a submissive type, you can further delve into it, to different degrees of whatever it may be. If you are into femdom, it doesn't have to be angry (unless whips is your thing), a thing called devotional sex involves a loving femdom where the male stays sexually charged ready to please his woman in any way he can. Normally it would sound horrible, but all the hormones buzzing around in the guy keeps a smile on his face. Who wouldn't be happy with something that has a ritual for starring eagerly into her pleasure and then satisfying her.


Bottom line: Your a normal male with fantasy, however if you really want it to last, control your orgasm.

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I;d love to see a man fck my woman, and me take sloppy seconds.  I'd probably end up sucking him off.  None of these things I reallt want to do.  I just fantisize about it.  I'm conufsed.

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Wow .  Just when I thought the shroomery had no one intelligent actually posting anymore.  That post was amazing, and far better then what I'd hoped to hear from anyone in this forum.  I figured I'd get the typical " Wow that bothers me "  Or " Everyone is gay, just be open minded " gibberish.  The logical aspect of your post makes perfect sense though, and if what you say holds any truth, may help change my life for the better in many ways..........I can't think of a time when I have EVER let myself go unfinished during sex.  I've almost killed myself getting off on MDMA before, but I always accomplish the task.  I always forget to tell myself sex is controlling, even though I constantly remind close friends.



Thank you so much for your reply.  I love to actually be put to thought

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Anonymous #2 said:
Anonymous section is the best one of them all

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