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 Rumblefishtwist
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 Psycho girlfriend 
#11942404 - 02/01/10 01:34 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Alright, so lately my girlfriend of 1.6yrs has been having these intense mood swings and giant temper tantrums. She has a lot of issues and is at times very hard to get along with. I just got off the phone with her, she was making a huge deal that I don't see her enough and just "use" her for sex, and a place to stay. Within this conversation she threatened to throw my laptop into the snow, call PETA on my dog, and turn into a "psycho bitch" that will hurt me in anyway possible. In the past she has attempted to physically harm me, and once she sped and almost crashed in a fit of rage when we had a minor argument in her car.
Holy shit I am too young for this.. Anyone else have any crazy girlfriend stories?
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ROGER5676
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dude, its time for a new girlfriend before she destroys all your shit and gets you thrown in jail for something. those crazy ones like that will punch herself in the eye and tell the cops you hit her. seen shit like that before. get out while you can
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Chubba
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Quote:
. Within this conversation she threatened to throw my laptop into the snow, call PETA on my dog, and turn into a "psycho bitch" that will hurt me in anyway possible.
I would immediately got my valuables and anything else that needed to be safe, then broken up with her.
I don't stand for that type of shit in a relationship.
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 Razzl3Frazzl3
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: ROGER5676]
#11942427 - 02/01/10 01:38 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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WOW.....
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Frost
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GET OUT OF THERE NOW
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: Chubba]
#11942442 - 02/01/10 01:41 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah that shit's fucked up dude. my friend's girlfriend went all psycho last year, tried to kill herself when my he broke up with her. and then he'd get drunk and whine about getting her back. holy shit relationships are fucked up. i know i'm too young for them.
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Rumblefishtwist
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: Chubba]
#11942450 - 02/01/10 01:41 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Chubba said:
I would immediately got my valuables and anything else that needed to be safe, then broken up with her.
I don't stand for that type of shit in a relationship.
Yeah its getting pretty ridiculous, last week she threatened to destroy my didgeridoo because she knew it was a prized possession of mine. It's like if I don't do anything, I am almost supporting this behavior.
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ROGER5676
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Holy shit I am too young for this.. Anyone else have any crazy girlfriend stories?
reminds me of this one. a couple of friends and i were at a party at my buddies house. he cant find his girl anywhere. walks into the bedroom and she is half naked making out with another girl. SHE flips out on him for looking for her. she kicks a hole into his big screen tv. goes to leave the house and he follows her into the garage so she hits him with a 2 by 4 twice. broke his finger and almost took his ear completely off. he jumps into his vehicle and parks behind her truck. she floors it into his truck and smokes the tires till one actually pops. once she figured out she could move the truck out of the way she drove threw the back of the garage. then the cops get there and she lies up a storm saying he hit her and he gets arrested. then as there taking him to jail. she flips out saying not to take him and punches and spits on a cop, obviously then getting arrested to. that was 3 years ago. since then they have married lol
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AcidDropper420
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: ROGER5676]
#11942526 - 02/01/10 01:52 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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1.kick bitch to curb.
2.?????
3.PROFIT
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larrysanders
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: ROGER5676]
#11942536 - 02/01/10 01:54 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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jeeeeesus
i wouldn't mind watching that on COPS
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circularvortex
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: ROGER5676]
#11942575 - 02/01/10 02:00 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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ROGER5676 said:
dude, its time for a new girlfriend before she destroys all your shit and gets you thrown in jail for something. those crazy ones like that will punch herself in the eye and tell the cops you hit her. seen shit like that before. get out while you can
This. Get out of that shit NOW dude. GO!
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misled
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I'm sure we all have tons, but the only thing that matters is life is to short to deal with others bull shit. ( this is assuming that your not a douche to your girl, and if you are; tell her i said throw your shit in the lake, because life's to short.)
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FollowTheMusic
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It is so, so easy to blame your partner completely, but understand you must have exactly the corresponding issues which allowed you to tolerate this relationship for 1.5 years. If I had to guess (just a guess), I would say you withdraw from her when she is raging, or feed back your own anger. You must walk clearly into the storm -- a woman is like the ocean, and you must be the ship on the ocean.
Women's anger usually comes from feeling a lack of love. She pretty much told you that. Next time she is yelling and screaming, try this: walk closer, look deep into her eyes, and say (and mean!) "God you're sexy when you're angry." You won't want to, but that's the whole point of practice. It's easy to love when everything is great, but opening to love in the darkness is growth.
Having said all that, it's absolutely true that certain behavior is unacceptable. Guidance and restraint is your gift as a man, just as flow and light is her gift as a woman. If she breaks something, say "I love you but that is unacceptable." Later insist (without venom) that she pay for it. If she crosses a line or this is impossible for you, say "I love you but our relationship is too dysfunctional and is no longer serving us."
Good luck!
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Chubba
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If she breaks something, say "I love you but that is unacceptable." Later insist (without venom) that she pay for it. If she crosses a line or this is impossible for you, say "I love you but our relationship is too dysfunctional and is no longer serving us."
Fuck that shit.
They're just humans like the rest of us.
If she breaks something I wouldn't say I love you, I wouldn't say anything... I would leave and never return.
If she crosses the line, double so... "I love you", what a joke.
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MOTH
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Get.
Out.
Now.
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MOTH
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: Chubba]
#11942772 - 02/01/10 02:35 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Chubba said:
I don't stand for that type of shit in a relationship.
Nobody should stand for that. It's abusive.
OP: if you love yourself at all, and if you love her, you NEED TO LEAVE HER. She won't change unless there are consequences. This will just get uglier unless you get out now.
I know, I was a psycho bitch 7 years ago.
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Meat_hod
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Quote:
FollowTheMusic said:
It is so, so easy to blame your partner completely, but understand you must have exactly the corresponding issues which allowed you to tolerate this relationship for 1.5 years. If I had to guess (just a guess), I would say you withdraw from her when she is raging, or feed back your own anger. You must walk clearly into the storm -- a woman is like the ocean, and you must be the ship on the ocean.
Women's anger usually comes from feeling a lack of love. She pretty much told you that. Next time she is yelling and screaming, try this: walk closer, look deep into her eyes, and say (and mean!) "God you're sexy when you're angry." You won't want to, but that's the whole point of practice. It's easy to love when everything is great, but opening to love in the darkness is growth.
Having said all that, it's absolutely true that certain behavior is unacceptable. Guidance and restraint is your gift as a man, just as flow and light is her gift as a woman. If she breaks something, say "I love you but that is unacceptable." Later insist (without venom) that she pay for it. If she crosses a line or this is impossible for you, say "I love you but our relationship is too dysfunctional and is no longer serving us."
Good luck!
This is retarded advice, sorry. This isn't a child we are talking about here. And its pretty obvious that having to deceive your way into getting what you deserve is just wrong.
This is as clear as day to me man, DUMP THAT SHIT NOW.
I can honestly see no reason why you would ever want to continue being around that chick. Are you happy with this relationship? what the fuck are you doing man!?
I need to receive a follow up saying that you broke up with her...
Also, side note: I am not responsible for her killing herself or you if you dump her and she goes nuts.
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: Meat_hod]
#11942837 - 02/01/10 02:48 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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LET THAT BITCH KNOW SHE GOTSTA GO
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Re: Psycho girlfriend [Re: Meat_hod]
#11942841 - 02/01/10 02:48 PM (2 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea, WHY is she your girlfiend?
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FollowTheMusic
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You probably should leave her, since you've chosen a partner who exactly complements your dysfunction. The pattern will repeat again and again, until you either conclude that all women are psycho bitches, or you commit to understanding why you are creating these situations. For the last 550 days, you have decided every day to be with this woman. Either choose to be with her in love, or choose to leave her. But if you accept the view that "the problem" will just leave with her and you'll never attract this drama again, then I would suggest you are in for a lot of future suffering.
Good luck!
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