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Anonymous #1
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Weird for a girl to not want head? *DELETED*
#11654570 - 12/15/09 01:10 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Post deleted by AnonymousReason for deletion: cause
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11654611 - 12/15/09 01:18 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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I dated a girl who was molested by her dad and she would freak out if I tried to go down on her. Another I dated wouldn't turn it down, but didn't like it and she was also molested.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#11654626 - 12/15/09 01:21 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'd bet she was molested. I also dated a chick who was not so into getting head because of it.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#11654683 - 12/15/09 01:30 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well I'm a girl, and when I first started doing sexual things I was super uncomfortable with getting eaten out. Some girls just feel really self conscious about it and it ruins the enjoyment.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#11654752 - 12/15/09 01:41 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sorry, my girlfriend LOVES IT.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#11654792 - 12/15/09 01:47 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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you could try asking her why she doesnt like you touching her and what does she like instead that shes comfortable with.
or you could ask a load of retards on teh interweb, your call.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#11654815 - 12/15/09 01:52 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #4 said: Well I'm a girl, and when I first started doing sexual things I was super uncomfortable with getting eaten out. Some girls just feel really self conscious about it and it ruins the enjoyment.
This.
I've noticed that less experienced chicks seem to be more hung up about it.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #4]
#11654824 - 12/15/09 01:53 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11654841 - 12/15/09 01:55 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #4 said: Well I'm a girl, and when I first started doing sexual things I was super uncomfortable with getting eaten out. Some girls just feel really self conscious about it and it ruins the enjoyment.
Yeah, but if that thing don't stink, then why be self conscious?
She probably was molested. I feel bad if that's the case. I forget how the rest of the conversation went but she made a point of saying once that she hasn't been molested so...
Just sucks because I do like her a lot. And she might not see it as anything big. But I don't know if I can have anything long term with her if there's gonna be issues like this.
Prying wouldn't do any good and it would make me feel like shit.
I don't know. Maybe I can learn to not care.
I wouldn't assume that she was molested just because she doesn't like it.
She might just be self conscious because well...it's weird to have someone's face buried in such a private area at first.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#11654887 - 12/15/09 02:04 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Some girls think that area is unsanitary.
I dated a girl once that made me wash my hands after double clicking her mouse every time before she would even let me touch her. And she had the cleanest best smelling twat ever.
Mothers teach their little girls to wipe up nice and neat, always wash their hands afterwards, scrub that thing in the shower, then you gotta consider once they get comfortable with it's existence, then it start bleeding once a month. So, when a girl starts fooling around by the time they are in late teens, it's a bit of a WTF moment when their boyfriend wants to use the mouth that she kisses to lick an area where pee, poo, menstrual blood and vaginal secretions all come from.
Your job is to convince her that its a lovely tasty treat that you crave all hours of the day.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11654930 - 12/15/09 02:10 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #4 said: Well I'm a girl, and when I first started doing sexual things I was super uncomfortable with getting eaten out. Some girls just feel really self conscious about it and it ruins the enjoyment.
Yeah, but if that thing don't stink, then why be self conscious?
She probably was molested. I feel bad if that's the case. I forget how the rest of the conversation went but she made a point of saying once that she hasn't been molested so...
Just sucks because I do like her a lot. And she might not see it as anything big. But I don't know if I can have anything long term with her if there's gonna be issues like this.
Prying wouldn't do any good and it would make me feel like shit.
I don't know. Maybe I can learn to not care.
Dude, you'd break up with her because she's not letting you do whatever you want to her body? Those are big issues for you?
Dude, you need to grow the fuck up. Having sex is about more than just you and what you want. There IS another person involved. As she becomes more comfortable with you, she'll let you do more. You can't just act like you have a complete right to her being your private whore.
I don't like getting my dick sucked. I won't let girls do it most of the time because I think its just lame- even the best head I've had is only okay. If a girl dumped me over that, I wouldn't even consider them worth my time.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#11654934 - 12/15/09 02:10 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #4 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #4 said: Well I'm a girl, and when I first started doing sexual things I was super uncomfortable with getting eaten out. Some girls just feel really self conscious about it and it ruins the enjoyment.
Yeah, but if that thing don't stink, then why be self conscious?
She probably was molested. I feel bad if that's the case. I forget how the rest of the conversation went but she made a point of saying once that she hasn't been molested so...
Just sucks because I do like her a lot. And she might not see it as anything big. But I don't know if I can have anything long term with her if there's gonna be issues like this.
Prying wouldn't do any good and it would make me feel like shit.
I don't know. Maybe I can learn to not care.
I wouldn't assume that she was molested just because she doesn't like it.
She might just be self conscious because well...it's weird to have someone's face buried in such a private area at first.
It funny you wouldn't assume she was molested but dare to assume she's self conscious about it.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#11654950 - 12/15/09 02:12 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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She didn't assume anything there. She offered an alternative answer.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11654961 - 12/15/09 02:13 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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There are far far far better lubes than saliva.........there should be no re applying half way through with a good lube that works for both of you.
And some girls are weirded out by the smell taste and feel of vaginas, and it may ruin HER mood for you to be down there.
Everyones different
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#11654997 - 12/15/09 02:16 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #10 said: And some girls are weirded out by the smell taste and feel of vaginas, and it may ruin HER mood for you to be down there.
Seriously. But all this guy has thought about so far is himself and why HE likes it, and so therefore SHE should like it.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#11655030 - 12/15/09 02:19 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like his girl has common courtesy is all.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#11655046 - 12/15/09 02:21 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Haha. I'm just taking a shot in the dark here ( sounds like he is half the time too ) but when he goes to finger her, I doubt there is much play in between there.
Girls don't generally like it when yo9u just go straight for the vagina......I'm guessing those times when she allowed you to go down on her, you got her in the mood for that.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#11655068 - 12/15/09 02:25 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#11655097 - 12/15/09 02:28 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #10 said: Girls don't generally like it when yo9u just go straight for the vagina......I'm guessing those times when she allowed you to go down on her, you got her in the mood for that.
All of these kind of statements kind of confuse me. I guess it depends on your personality as to what girls will let you do in bed. The first 2 girls I ever slept with would do that sometimes, like slap my hand away from their cooch, or not let me go down on them, but back then I was insecure and not really dominant.
After a series of confidence building events, I got into the attitude of "I am the fucking man, and I'm going to fuck anyone I want however I want and do anything else I want". Once I got into that mood, I got laid by a lot more women, and none of them tried stopping me from doing anything. If I wanted to eat a pussy, a pussy was getting eaten, period. If I wanna go straight for the vag, I'll do that, and you will still cum.
I guess it depends as much on your own personality and how dominant/submissive you are in life and in bed that determines how a girl will let you treat them in bed. I dunno.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: Weird for a girl to not want head? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11655101 - 12/15/09 02:29 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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you should assume she has been molested
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