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 bradley
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 i want to fucking quit (continued)
#8422179 - 05/19/08 09:57 PM (4 months, 23 days ago) |
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update on my job
shit is going really bad
i've lost all self discipline, haven't done shit for many days
spend all my time preoccupied yet feeling incapable of actually putting nose to grindstone
i am in a pretty vital point of a project, but i have already been procrastinating at this point for about
5 days
it will hurt the company if i quit. still, i am thinking of doing it immediately. i am thinking of telling boss that i am having some sort of ridiculous mental breakdown. which is sort of true. i don't know what else i can tell boss.
i feel there's no point in giving a two weeks notice, as i would probably just procrastinate longer. i am not going to reference this company but still i don't want to hurt it.
i am definitely causing myself psychological distress. i know this is pathetic. please give me your advice. thank you 
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 Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: bradley]
#8423036 - 05/20/08 02:20 AM (4 months, 22 days ago) |
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you dont work for cracker barrel hopefully knot that wolould be crazy then wouldnt it????/????/??????????/?
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: gethyn]
#8423069 - 05/20/08 02:41 AM (4 months, 22 days ago) |
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Just buckle down it will be so worth it. If you have to suffer thru it, at least it's not that long of an endurance then you can get out of there.
Accomplish something great today
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: bradley]
#8424006 - 05/20/08 12:20 PM (4 months, 22 days ago) |
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I'd say quit, and just be honest.
Tell them you thought you could handle self-supervision, but you were wrong. Apologize, and let them put somebody in the position who can take care of the work.
Then, find a job with supervision and stabilize yourself.
You need to stop worrying about whether or not the company can handle your incompetence... trust me, they're going to have a lot easier time handling your incompetence if you're hoenst with them than thy will trying to clean up your fucking mess after you've let it go on for entirely too long.
This time, right here, this is time that someone else could be getting the work done, if you would just man up and be straight with them.
Just quit. You obviously are not cut out for the position. You can find a job that is more appropriate for you, and then you will be free of your anxiety and they will be free of your parasitic work ethic.
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: bradley]
#8429541 - 05/21/08 04:21 PM (4 months, 21 days ago) |
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Just Quit.
Survive on next to nothing for a month or two and dig into your savings (you know you'll make it all back). Take some time to consider your options. Get out and do everything you wanted to do while working but couldn't. Sleep in for a day if you want to, but get outside more than anything. One day you'll figure it out what your next step should be, and then you'll do it. Start over, somewhere new and just become someone else. I've know a few people who have done this and everything turned out for the better. If it ends up getting worse just quit doing whatever you're doing and change again.
I don't know where you live but, there's a lot more to the world than what's outside your window.
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: geedorah]
#8429604 - 05/21/08 04:40 PM (4 months, 21 days ago) |
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Thanks all. I am in a better mind state than when I posted this and have gleaned a bit of perspective from each reply.
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: bradley]
#8429743 - 05/21/08 05:14 PM (4 months, 21 days ago) |
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I would definitely tell your boss you have some serious issues going on in your life at the moment and request some days off or use vacation time. Sometimes people just go through things and you have to do things to accommodate yourself. If they haven't fired you yet, its obviously not that big of a deal. Also, if you were a good worker and you request some time off for personal issues, I am sure they will give it to you.
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Re: i want to fucking quit (continued) [Re: bradley]
#8429760 - 05/21/08 05:18 PM (4 months, 21 days ago) |
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i hate my job too. thinking about quiting, but college/bills keep me there.
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