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 TheHappieHippies
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Registered: 05/12/08
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#8670946 - 07/23/08 09:16 AM (4 months, 10 days ago) |
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 AroundtheSon
Mr. President
Registered: 01/11/07
Posts: 2,226
Loc: Midwest.
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Glad to see a strong woman who doesn't cling to their stupid ass boyfriend. 
Best of luck to you.
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WhiskeyClone
Not here
Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 13,826
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Ca...
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I don't know you two, but from the posts I've read you seem to be the stronger one. Good on you for doing what you have to do. 
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"My children," said an old man to his boys scared by a figure in the dark entry, "my children, you will never see any thing worse than yourselves." As in dreams, so in the scarcely less fluid events of the world, every man sees himself as colossal, without knowing that it is himself. The good, compared to the evil which he sees, is as his own good to his own evil.
~ R.W. Emerson, "Spiritual Laws"
-oOo-
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ToiletDuk
BORG9 Crew
Registered: 05/16/03
Posts: 38,513
Loc: EarthFarm 1
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Yes, that's a wise decision, I'd say. You've got your hands full taking care of your kids, especially with one on the way. You don't need to be taking care of your BF too.
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backfromthedead
Activated
Registered: 03/10/07
Posts: 3,590
Last seen: 4 months, 5 days
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Re: I'm moving on [Re: ToiletDuk]
#8671636 - 07/23/08 12:36 PM (4 months, 10 days ago) |
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he literally locked them in their rooms without feeding them anything all day, so he could sleep
Fuckin fucked up... What a Dick.
Good luck.
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TheHappieHippies
Uber-Goober
Registered: 05/12/08
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Last seen: 1 day, 15 hours
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Thanks people. you guys are always awesome...
well, except when you suck. But everyone sucks sometimes...
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Justice_Fish
Fustice_Jish
Registered: 01/06/07
Posts: 1,923
Loc: Québec
Last seen: 8 hours, 45 minutes
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be strong
Think about you, the kids
Has he seen a psychiatrist?
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CherryBom
Urban Gypsy
Registered: 12/26/98
Posts: 8,734
Loc: Ontario
Last seen: 5 hours, 57 minutes
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I don't know a whole lot about your situation, but it seems like you are absolutley doing the right thing for you and for your children too. I wish you all the luck in the world as you move on. 
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I have searched both far and wide
I've explored the deepest caverns of my mind
To try and find an explanation why
I get this funny feeling deep inside
Sugarhigh....
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usr
Interested.
Registered: 09/16/07
Posts: 131
Loc: United States
Last seen: 19 hours, 15 minutes
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Re: I'm moving on [Re: CherryBom]
#8679428 - 07/25/08 07:48 AM (4 months, 8 days ago) |
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Hopefully you don't take offense, but I'm with the others.
That guy sounds like a fucking dick, depressed or not.
You're doing the right thing.
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TheHappieHippies
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Re: I'm moving on [Re: usr]
#8716452 - 08/02/08 02:04 PM (4 months, 17 hours ago) |
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God, I'm such a weak ass wimp. I can't do it. I can't leave. I am too scared. I don't want to lose all my stuff, I don't want to live at a damn shelter, and he won't leave!!
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AroundtheSon
Mr. President
Registered: 01/11/07
Posts: 2,226
Loc: Midwest.
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boo. be strong.
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TheHappieHippies
Uber-Goober
Registered: 05/12/08
Posts: 738
Last seen: 1 day, 15 hours
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I've been homeless and lived in shelters a few times. It's fucking hard. And now I got three kids and one on the way. I just don't have the strength of mind to do it this time.
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sunflower
gleaner
Registered: 08/19/06
Posts: 257
Last seen: 1 hour, 8 minutes
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Be strong just a little longer. 
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CherryBom
Urban Gypsy
Registered: 12/26/98
Posts: 8,734
Loc: Ontario
Last seen: 5 hours, 57 minutes
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Re: I'm moving on [Re: sunflower]
#8717801 - 08/02/08 08:06 PM (4 months, 11 hours ago) |
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It will be hard only for some time. You'll proabably even be really sad for awhile, a few months. Maybe a year. But after the sadness is over...and maybe the anger too... you will be glad that you did it. Leaving an abusive relationship is not easy. It's not like you just leave and the next day you start getting on with your life....not so much. It's a part of you. It's stuck to you. He's in your head, in your soul. Probably. I don't know you... I'm speculating.
But the sooner you can start the healing process is the sooner the day will come when you feel strong and free and liberated.
Be strong.
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I have searched both far and wide
I've explored the deepest caverns of my mind
To try and find an explanation why
I get this funny feeling deep inside
Sugarhigh....
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