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 truffleupagus
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 The swinger lifestyle
#7384103 - 09/08/07 03:22 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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How all does that work?
Or doesn't it?
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So I'm ready now. What you ready for?
I'm ready for life in the city and my wings have grown almost enough to lift me.
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 aDoS
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you get aides and die
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OneMoreRobot3021
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Happy Birthday.
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aDoS
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: aDoS]
#7384107 - 09/08/07 03:23 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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and then you go to hell for being dirty
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sublimistri
Higher Than AKite
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: aDoS]
#7384124 - 09/08/07 03:29 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Relationship where they allow eachother to have sex with other people, from my understanding
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bukkake
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aka an open relationship, common in high schools.
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truffleupagus
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: bukkake]
#7384217 - 09/08/07 03:52 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thanks OLF!
I know what the swinger lifestyle is.
I'm just wondering if anyone has any first hand experience and if it's possible to not let it screw up a serious relationship.
The reason I'm even curious is because I'm getting married next year and my fiance and I have only been with a couple people each (counting each other). I know this shouldn't bother me but it does. And it's not the low number that bothers me as much as it's the lack of variety.
I really want to spend my life with this girl, have kids and get old with her but I'm afraid that things could get incredibly hard later on if something isn't done sooner to deal with these feelings I'm having.
I think we're both really confident in our love making abilities so that's not a big concern for me. But how the hell do you let your girl go out on a date with another guy and not worry about her wellbeing, in the very least? That's what would get me.
And please don't anybody judge me for simply considering this. I don't know that it's something we would actually do.
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There's smoke in my iris but I've painted a sunny day on the insides of my eyelids.
So I'm ready now. What you ready for?
I'm ready for life in the city and my wings have grown almost enough to lift me.
-Aes Rizzle
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DieCommie
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I have never done it. I dont think its a good idea at all. If you do it you are going to risk one of the greatest blessings ever for 'variety'.
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Scarfmeister
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Re: The swinger lifestyle [Re: DieCommie]
#7384626 - 09/08/07 05:04 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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*snip*
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We're the lowest of the low, the scum of the fucking earth!
Edited by coda (09/08/07 06:37 PM)
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CaRnAgECaNdY
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Happy birthday!
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WhiskeyClone
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You have to be ugly to be a swinger
Seriously
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A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words, and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day. -- `Ah, so you shall be sure to be misunderstood.' -- Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.
~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
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coda
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it can work but it takes a lot of trust, id also suggest against getting involved with close personal friends. However i will say that i've seen it cause more problems then good in the long run, jealousy seems to get in the way in most cases.
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